Some women usually complain about how all or most men are players.

Besides being an unfair assertion, it's childish.

Let me explain.

If a child eats a fruit like odara for the first time, and it turns out sour, don't you think the child's description of odara henceforth will be "that sour fruit?"

Even if they eat "sweet" odara after that, they'll take those ones as exceptions, and maintain that odara is a generally sour fruit.

"Madam give me sweet one oo."

As adults, we still have to remind the seller not to give us that defining odara.


Back to topic.

When we were in secondary school, we noticed an odd occurrence.

There were boys who used to sag their trousers, barb "cool" hairstyles, wear sneakers instead of leather cover shoes, mock teachers in class, collect flogging every other day, were the trademark "bad boys" of the set.

There were also boys who tucked in appropriately, followed the school's rules on dressing and appearance, treated teachers with respect, depicted themselves as "good boys."

85% of the girls preferred the former.

The bad boys had all the "hot" chics.

They were the ones girls were fawning over.

Right from that early age, we noticed how girls were prone to fall for bad guys.

They weren't forced; they weren't conditioned.

That's how it was.

More often than not, these boys were in the incubating stages of playboyhood.

And they used the girls for fun, in various degrees, ranging from school and class.

To cut that story short, several girls ended up heartbroken; also in various degrees, ranging from school to class.

There's something to learn from that.

From an early age, women "choose" men.

The choice has always been theirs; you could call them "gatekeepers."

Another thing to learn is that women choose "bad" men.

For most, the first or/and second experiences they had with men defined how they saw them going forward.

They neglected "good" men for the "thrillers."


The boys who moved through life without a care in the world sprang up a primordial yearning in those girls.

They are older now.

Have they changed?

Have you changed?

You may make better choices now, but do you accept that much blame should be placed on you when you get heart broken?

You allowed him into your "heart", whether he was honest or dishonest doesn't matter.

As long as he didn't threaten you into giving in, you're at fault.

Also, don't paint all men with the same brush, because you chose your first and second "loves" who broke your heart.

Right from time, you've been the one accepting the kind of men who come into your life.

So, what gives you right to accuse them of being wicked when they didn't force you?

After all, there's usually a "good" guy hanging around when Femi is using sweet words to work his way up your panties.

But, you ignore him.

He's not spontaneous enough; he's not charming enough; he's not rich enough.

From JSS2, you've been picking bad boys and when they hurt you, you run around screaming how men are cheats.

Yet, they were boys who came to school every morning just to see your face, hear your voice.

They ignored every other female in the school.

But you fell for the one who had 72 other girls falling for him, and you think you stood a chance?

You expected not to be burnt?

Are you any wiser now?

Don't you still ignore the guy who "simps" over you? Who calls you everytime?

Aren't you still falling for that burly guy you met at the gym? The one who helps all the ladies with their workouts, flashing a charming smirk at them.

Then when he knacks you and leaves, you'll put forget Mr Simp's goodwill, and place both him and Mr. Muscle in one category of "men are players."

If you're always dating cheats, you're the one picking cheats.

You've been picking men since you were a kid, so you can't say I'm lying.

Except you were the girl nobody cared about.

Were you?

Copied- Emmanuel Echeta

In this life, what goes around comes around. I always advice guys, no matter what never settle for less ( a prostitute or harlot in the name of you're too single or broke).

Well i have nothing to say because you've said it all.
this thread is Vawulence 5.0
op,hope you can run because the other gender are coming for your head.