A friend sent this to me and I decided to share it here. If you check some of my previous threads, I have been all out speaking against the destructive and evil act called masturbation because I’m currently suffering from its effects after indulging in it for good 6 years.

I totally stopped masturbating few months back. Messages like this one I posted here made me believed there was nothing wrong with masturbation when I started indulging in it as a young boy in 2016.

Infact I remember the famous Vaseline crew of Nairaland, how they used to support masturbation and I thought I was following the right click lol. Recently I met a doctor after suffering from Premature ejaculation and Erectile dysfunction. I was told the aggressive effects of excessive masturbation has affected my penis Veins and that is why I cum within 2 seconds of sex. To even make it worse I won’t get hard again until maybe in an hour time and if I try going for the second round I cum within seconds again.

I’m currently planning to take some herbal medicines for total cure but for now I’m totally abstaining from sex because I get humiliated anytime I get down with a lady and this thing has affected my previous relationships also. The truth is it’s difficult to stop an addiction like masturbation but you just have to make up your mind totally to stop it.

Things I noticed in my body since I stopped masturbating.

1) I began adding weight and my cheeks is coming out.

2) I don’t get weak and tired anymore

3) no more constant headaches

4) I now remember stuffs I read easily unlike before.

5) I don’t feel dirty and worthless anymore like I used to do after masturbating.

So with all these improvements why will I want to go back to something that was destroying me slowly all because I made a grave mistake of listening to people that lied that masturbation is the best thing to happen after bread and sardine.

For those of you still suffering from the addiction of masturbation, please follow some of these steps I have been putting up here and REMEMBER YOU MUST TOTALLY MAKE UP YOUR MIND THAT YOU ARE STOPPING IT FOR GOOD. Else you will find yourself doing it again. I won’t lie masturbation is sweet and that moment you are about to cum while masturbating is one feeling you can’t explain because of its pleasure. But Just remember the benefits you are lacking while masturbating. You’re destroying your sex organ in the name of masturbating.

Remember your sex life is at big risks. Let me tell you something. Money and good sex are one of those vital things that keeps a relationship. The later is even more important. Ladies hate it when a guy they have feelings for can’t perform well on bed. And with time if it continues she will eventually lose interest in you.

waw

Mirabel11:
waw

Yes it’s that bad.

It would be nice if the mods could push this to FP. Thanks

I didn't say such

Mirabel11:
I didn't say such

I don’t know if it’s good for ladies. But it’s bad for men. I’m not saying you said such.

we live in a world where masturbation is a big sin and evil while adultery and fornication is better


op keep decieving yourself



I will rather masturbate than rape somebody daughter

The most people compare sex to masturbation is because they don't masturbate all the time.

Don't contest anything a masturbation addict say if you have not been in his shoes
Try masturbating 3 times a day everyday for one month straight and see if you won't experience one of the worst cases of ED or PE.

I've been there and I have masturbated 5 times a day before. During this period I cum as soon as I penetrated and I easily lost erection halfway through whenever I didn't cum quick.

All through these years I never for once had morning wood. Even the most beautiful girl wasn't beautiful enough in my eyes because porn actresses had set a standard for beautiful girls in my brain. There had to be a rigorous stimulation from a girl before I could muster up a semi hard erection. I doubt there's ebony porn scene that I've not seen.

Below are what happened When I stopped masturbation for just 40 days for the first time in my 16 years of the act.
1. I was waking up with rock hard erection every morning
2. I was having random erection everytime of the day even when I was walking on the road.
3. Even the most ugliest girls became beautiful in my eyes. And I just began to love girls and acknowledged they were humans too not the
sex abject I projected they were in my brain because of too much porn
4. I was able to retain my erection all through the entire duration of sex and I lasted longer than I usually lasted Before.
5. Like OP said, I just began to notice how my facial structure had reshaped to enhance my handsomeness. And my skin was glowing.

I almost entirely lost all these Benefits when I relapsed. I'm still fighting to abstain from it till now..

Finally, like I said don't ever doubt a masturbation addict when they outline the disadvantages of masturbation that they have experienced nor compare masturbation to sex if you cannot have sex 4 to 5 times everyday in a month.

Chloraseptic:
The most people compare sex to masturbation is because they don't masturbate all the time.

Don't contest anything a masturbation addict say if you have not been in his shoes
Try masturbating 3 times a day everyday for one month straight and see if you won't experience one of the worst cases of ED or PE.

I've been there and I have masturbated 5 times a day before. During this period I cum as soon as I penetrated and I easily lost erection halfway through whenever I didn't cum quick.

All through these years I never for once had morning wood. Even the most beautiful girl wasn't beautiful enough in my eyes because porn actresses had set a standard for beautiful girls in my brain. There had to be a rigorous stimulation from a girl before I could muster up a semi hard erection. I doubt there's ebony porn scene that I've not seen.

Below are what happened When I stopped masturbation for just 40 days for the first time in my 16 years of the act.
1. I was waking up with rock hard erection every morning
2. I was having random erection everytime of the day even when I was walking on the road.
3. Even the most ugliest girls became beautiful in my eyes. And I just began to love girls and acknowledged they were humans too not the
sex abject I projected they were in my brain because of too much porn
4. I was able to retain my erection all through the entire duration of sex and I lasted longer than I usually lasted Before.
5. Like OP said, I just began to notice how my facial structure had reshaped to enhance my handsomeness. And my skin was glowing.

I almost entirely lost all these Benefits when I relapsed. I'm still fighting to abstain from it till now..

Finally, like I said don't ever doubt a masturbation addict when they outline the disadvantages of masturbation that they have experienced nor compare masturbation to sex if you cannot have sex 4 to 5 times everyday in a month.

I’m glad to see someone who was in same shoes with me saying same thing. People who say masturbation doesn’t cause PE and ED are not chronic masturbators. Talking about you losing interest in girls, you are so right on that also. When you are addictive to porn and masturbation it plays a huge psychological effect on you. Infact it got to a point I totally lost interest in girls even when some were coming close. I was in love with cherokeedass, as I was always masturbating to her porn videos lool. You can’t be masturbating everyday for 2 months without suffering ED and PE. It’s not possible.

emmyluizzz:
we live in a world where masturbation is a big sin and evil while adultery and fornication is better


op keep decieving yourself



I will rather masturbate than rape somebody daughter

Did you hear me talk about sin here ? Did I say you shouldn’t have sex ?
Did you read my write up well at all ??

Why must you even rape when you can just get a girlfriend in the first place ??

I’m talking about the harmful effects of excessive masturbation. Everyone who masturbates excessively experiences these things I’m talking about. I’m only putting it up here so others will learn, instead of thinking they are having fun. Yea it’s sweet though, but the destructive effects is more than what you think.

If you wanna continue masturbating, good luck to you then. But stop making others believe it’s something good.

I remember My previous thread here. One guy was telling me his Fiancée had to cancel their wedding plans because he was suffering from ED and PE all because of excessive masturbation for over 16 years. She did that because she doesn’t want to end up cheating on him in the marriage since he can’t perform on bed.

I can’t keep a relationship because of this also.

That’s how terrible this thing is.

Too much sex or masturbation or anything could have negative effects on a man.

Chloraseptic:
The most people compare sex to masturbation is because they don't masturbate all the time.

Don't contest anything a masturbation addict say if you have not been in his shoes
Try masturbating 3 times a day everyday for one month straight and see if you won't experience one of the worst cases of ED or PE.

I've been there and I have masturbated 5 times a day before. During this period I cum as soon as I penetrated and I easily lost erection halfway through whenever I didn't cum quick.

All through these years I never for once had morning wood. Even the most beautiful girl wasn't beautiful enough in my eyes because porn actresses had set a standard for beautiful girls in my brain. There had to be a rigorous stimulation from a girl before I could muster up a semi hard erection. I doubt there's ebony porn scene that I've not seen.

Below are what happened When I stopped masturbation for just 40 days for the first time in my 16 years of the act.
1. I was waking up with rock hard erection every morning
2. I was having random erection everytime of the day even when I was walking on the road.
3. Even the most ugliest girls became beautiful in my eyes. And I just began to love girls and acknowledged they were humans too not the
sex abject I projected they were in my brain because of too much porn
4. I was able to retain my erection all through the entire duration of sex and I lasted longer than I usually lasted Before.
5. Like OP said, I just began to notice how my facial structure had reshaped to enhance my handsomeness. And my skin was glowing.

I almost entirely lost all these Benefits when I relapsed. I'm still fighting to abstain from it till now..

Finally, like I said don't ever doubt a masturbation addict when they outline the disadvantages of masturbation that they have experienced nor compare masturbation to sex if you cannot have sex 4 to 5 times everyday in a month.

You guys confused so one like me. I have seen several masturbator complaining that it is bad to masturbate. Though every reasons given by them just like yours doesn't make sense to me at all. Some say they have low self esteem because of masturbation. How for God's sake? I have read an article in which a medical practioner explains that there is no side effects to masturbating only fallacy spread by guys who don't know what is wrong with their sexual life so blame it on masturbation. I don't masturbate because I have no need for it since I can easily get a girl to have sex with. Someone said Masturbation make his life miserable, and I was wandering how? You work and make money, then masturbate when you visit the rest room or on your bed before sleeping. How will masturbation now affect your life? Please someone should use this my last statement to explain better to me, not this gibberish you guys are typing for the cause of your misery.

sweetman2022:

You guys confused so one like me. I have seen several masturbator complaining that it is bad to masturbate. Though every reasons given by them just like yours doesn't make sense to me at all. Some say they have low self esteem because of masturbation. How for God's sake? I have read an article in which a medical practioner explains that there is no side effects to masturbating only fallacy spread by guys who don't know what is wrong with their sexual life so blame it on masturbation. I don't masturbate because I have no need for it since I can easily get a girl to have sex with. Someone said Masturbation make his life miserable, and I was wandering how? You work and make money, then masturbate when you visit the rest room or on your bed before sleeping. How will masturbation now affect your life? Please someone should use this my last statement to explain better to me, not this gibberish you guys are typing for the cause of your misery.

I don’t believe all those misery stuffs associated with masturbation. If you look at my posts I was only talking about the harmful side of it that affects one health. That doctor wasn’t saying the truth, I have seen countless videos like that encouraging it and that’s why most guys still engage in it. I once spoke with a Doctor at FMC Port Harcourt and he gave me details of what excessive masturbation does. In this context, I’m talking about EXCESSIVE MASTURBATION. Since you have never masturbated before then you might not understand the psychological effects and the damages in the long run.

VladimirPutiin:


I don’t believe all those misery stuffs associated with masturbation. If you look at my posts I was only talking about the harmful side of it that affects one health. That doctor wasn’t saying the truth, I have seen countless videos like that encouraging it and that’s why most guys still engage in it. Since you have never masturbated before then you might not understand the psychological effects and the damages in the long run.

See as an educated person I like listening to professional opinion on issue not in my jurisdiction. Let a medical personnel explain to us how masturbation affect the psychology and body chemistry of a masturbator. I just told you the one I have read. I don't want hear say or the masturbator using his laziness to blame masturbation.

VladimirPutiin:


I don’t believe all those misery stuffs associated with masturbation. If you look at my posts I was only talking about the harmful side of it that affects one health. That doctor wasn’t saying the truth, I have seen countless videos like that encouraging it and that’s why most guys still engage in it. I once spoke with a Doctor at FMC Port Harcourt and he gave me details of what excessive masturbation does. In this context, I’m talking about EXCESSIVE MASTURBATION. Since you have never masturbated before then you might not understand the psychological effects and the damages in the long run.

What do you tag excessive masturbation. Once you release won't you stop masturbating? Pls expain what you meant by excessive masturbation

sweetman2022:

See as an educated person I like listening to professional opinion on issue not in my jurisdiction. Let a medical personnel explain to us how masturbation affect the psychology and body chemistry of a masturbator. I just told you the one I have read. I don't want hear say or the masturbator using his laziness to blame masturbation.

I already modified my post and gave an example of what a medical practitioner told me. 99.9% of guys suffering from PE and ED are chronic masturbators. When masturbating you use your hand in stroking the penis aggressively. This act if done continuously affects the penis cap and it’s veins. And with masturbation you cum quickly so that same thing plays out with actual sex. You don’t masturbate so you won’t understand. I used to last long during sex until I became a chronic masturbator. Masturbate everyday for 2 months then come back and tell us the result.

sweetman2022:

What do you tag excessive masturbation. Once you release won't you stop masturbating? Pls expain what you meant by excessive masturbation

3 times a day. Once you release you continue again. Sometimes with the aid of porn. And when masturbating you cum quickly. If this continues for months everyday the penis will be getting damaged.

VladimirPutiin:


3 times a day. Once you release you continue again. Sometimes with the aid of porn. And when masturbating you cum quickly. If this continues for months everyday the penis will be getting damaged.

Does anyone even masturbate like this..anyone doing masturbation like this need psychological evaluation because such person does not have good state of mind. You are supposed to masturbate reasonably just like having sex. Once you release, you relax then energize yourself for another day or time. I guess most doing it like this must be jobless. A busy person won't have the time to masturbate anyhow..that's my point

sweetman2022:

Does anyone even masturbate like this..anyone doing masturbation like this need psychological evaluation because such person does not have good state of mind. You are supposed to masturbate reasonably just like having sex. Once you release, you relax then energize yourself for another day or time. I guess most doing it like this must be jobless. A busy person won't have the time to masturbate anyhow..that's my point

Even 4 times in a week is excessive. You must not be jobless to be masturbating always. Like every other addiction, once you are a chronic masturbator you will find yourself doing it anywhere. Even if you work in the office, you can go to the toilet and masturbate. And it’s makes you lose interest in sex. Like you said up there a chronic masturbator needs psychological evaluation. And that’s what I’m doing by posting these stuffs here for those who are currently addicted to it.

OP, if you didn't go back masturbating before 1years, make I bend. The only way to stop masturbation completely is to marry.

abdulskulboy:
OP, if you didn't go back masturbating before 1years, make I bend. The only way to stop masturbation completely is to marry.

abdulskulboy:
OP, if you didn't go back masturbating before 1years, make I bend. The only way to stop masturbation completely is to marry.

Lol.. that’s your opinion. And who told you married men don’t masturbate ??

Even when I had a girlfriend I was still masturbating because I was addicted. It’s just a thing of the mind bro.

VladimirPutiin:


Lol.. that’s your opinion. And who told you married men don’t masturbate ??

Even when I had a girlfriend I was still masturbating because I was addicted. It’s just a thing of the mind bro.

Having a girlfriend is different from having a wife. You won't always come back home to meet your girlfriend.

abdulskulboy:


Having a girlfriend is different from having a wife. You won't always come back home to meet your girlfriend.

Some married men still masturbate. It is a bad addiction.

sweetman2022:

You guys confused so one like me. I have seen several masturbator complaining that it is bad to masturbate. Though every reasons given by them just like yours doesn't make sense to me at all. Some say they have low self esteem because of masturbation. How for God's sake? I have read an article in which a medical practioner explains that there is no side effects to masturbating only fallacy spread by guys who don't know what is wrong with their sexual life so blame it on masturbation. I don't masturbate because I have no need for it since I can easily get a girl to have sex with. Someone said Masturbation make his life miserable, and I was wandering how? You work and make money, then masturbate when you visit the rest room or on your bed before sleeping. How will masturbation now affect your life? Please someone should use this my last statement to explain better to me, not this gibberish you guys are typing for the cause of your misery.

You have never masturbated to know what an addicted masturbator is going through yet you are debunking their claims.

You are simply the one confusing yourself.

emmyluizzz:
we live in a world where masturbation is a big sin and evil while adultery and fornication is better


op keep decieving yourself



I will rather masturbate than rape somebody daughter

This is totally far off from the message op is conveying and that's how you guys fail exam. Op is writing about its effects causing erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation but you've written something unconnected as a chronic masturbator with some likes and shares from your company in misery goons. Lol

VladimirPutiin:


I’m glad to see someone who was in same shoes with me saying same thing. People who say masturbation doesn’t cause PE and ED are not chronic masturbators. Talking about you losing interest in girls, you are so right on that also. When you are addictive to porn and masturbation it plays a huge psychological effect on you. Infact it got to a point I totally lost interest in girls even when some were coming close. I was in love with cherokeedass, as I was always masturbating to her porn videos lool. You can’t be masturbating everyday for 2 months without suffering ED and PE. It’s not possible.

True

sweetman2022:

You guys confused so one like me. I have seen several masturbator complaining that it is bad to masturbate. Though every reasons given by them just like yours doesn't make sense to me at all. Some say they have low self esteem because of masturbation. How for God's sake? I have read an article in which a medical practioner explains that there is no side effects to masturbating only fallacy spread by guys who don't know what is wrong with their sexual life so blame it on masturbation. I don't masturbate because I have no need for it since I can easily get a girl to have sex with. Someone said Masturbation make his life miserable, and I was wandering how? You work and make money, then masturbate when you visit the rest room or on your bed before sleeping. How will masturbation now affect your life? Please someone should use this my last statement to explain better to me, not this gibberish you guys are typing for the cause of your misery.

Experience is the best teacher. You have not masturbated but someone who's in the shoes is sharing life experience and you're writing rubbish of what you read.
Masturbate 4-5days a day for a month, i want to check something.

Dishing things you don't do is deceptive. Do the act of you believe it is not harmful if not shut the fcvk up

sweetman2022:

Does anyone even masturbate like this..anyone doing masturbation like this need psychological evaluation because such person does not have good state of mind. You are supposed to masturbate reasonably just like having sex. Once you release, you relax then energize yourself for another day or time. I guess most doing it like this must be jobless. A busy person won't have the time to masturbate anyhow..that's my point

You're daft, sorry to say. Masturbation is an addiction. There is no middle ground in that. And like other addictions is prone to a repeat

Tunjibalogun:

This is totally far off from the message op is conveying and that's how you guys fail exam. Op is writing about its effects causing erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation but you've written something unconnected as a chronic masturbator with some likes and shares from your company in misery goons. Lol

It’s really funny bro. Many don’t even read to understand. They just rush to reply.

Tunjibalogun:

This is totally far off from the message op is conveying and that's how you guys fail exam. Op is writing about its effects causing erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation but you've written something unconnected as a chronic masturbator with some likes and shares from your company in misery goons. Lol

I have always known Yoruba people to be very stupid....you just proved me right

emmyluizzz:



I have always known Yoruba people to be very stupid ....you just proved me right

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