On this date August 6 2022.A day I can’t ever forget in my life about immatured nasty Attitude of my wife put up with me. I left my phone at the bedroom while i went to her shop to sell her goods to customers.on coming back inside the room I heard my phone beeping since and I quickly rushed to pick it up and I have seen about 6 missed calls of hers.As a matured man I dialed her number back and immediately she picked it up instead of asking me in a polite manner as a well cultured and manner wife .she responded arrogantly and disrespectfully to me her husband and I was totally disappointed and let down that a woman I was dieing for couldn’t appreciate my input but yet was about hurling insult at me and I responded I was inside your shop selling for you since and I expected that courtesy will tell you to atleast ask me in a warm and respectful manner where were you since.And I told her I am coming to pick you now as i said.Then i hurried into my car and drove straight to her shop and on getting to her shop .I met her shop closed and totally off her shop.I was totally disappointed and hugely disrespected.when I called her she said I cut off her call was the reason for the chidish and mannerless attitude she put up.I just drove back home and just decided to be looking at her cos I can see her disdain brainless attitude.I just left her to her detested mannerism.

They’ll be praying for husbands, humble at the beginning. Once you mistakenly put a ring on it, boom their real unscrupulous attitude pops up.

Chairman, manage her like that.

Naso we too dey manage our own.

Patience bro, patience.

Has she apologized?

So u didn't see this attitude when u both were dating

Patience and cash are two keys to managing a woman.

If you don’t have cash, have a lot of patience.

But don’t fall into the same trap Eve set for Adam.....

This one don go marry zee world wife material your wife go like zee world past anything

You and ur wife dey play hide and seek.
But just that u r taking ur own part too serious.
Learn to relax and don't let ur anger make u intolerant .
Women wahala plenty.

You have always been a simple man, hence the disheartening manners she is starting to put forth.

My Ado: decrease the level of attention given to her daily and see other ladies; not cheat. Then watch ur value increase.

Ok

gasparpisciotta:
Patience and cash are two keys to managing a woman.

If you don’t have cash, have a lot of patience.

But don’t fall into the same trap Eve set for Adam.....

I have been a very tough man as a once upon a time a soldier stationed at ikeja cantoment but I left the job cos of her and my life safety because of issue of boko haram.But I choose to be a nice and gentle man with her cos I see her as my baby I loved her and she proclaimed she loved me but she has no iota of respect for me upon just trivial things

thorpido:
Has she apologized?

she didn’t at all.she was still coming to me that will i eat from the food she brought from her shop and I just didn’t under a word to her and she went back to the bedroom and I remained in the sitting room.

gasparpisciotta:
Patience and cash are two keys to managing a woman.

If you don’t have cash, have a lot of patience.

But don’t fall into the same trap Eve set for Adam.....

I have had alot of patience

coinwarrior,it obvious you just open this tread to boast because i don't see the need of you explaining what you did for your wife's family.

The way you wrote this without proper formatting thus torturing us in the process.
You're probably a disorganized husband to begin with.

I didn't bother to read that thing without formatting.

Are you sure?

Anyway, I'm talking from experience. Women doesn't regard good men. So you must not be a SIMP.

Just reduce the attention you are giving to her and if she misbehaves, please change the game for her immediately

Coinwarrior:
she didn’t at all.she was still coming to me that will i eat from the food she brought from her shop and I just didn’t under a word to her and she went back to the bedroom and I remained in the sitting room.

You say she is pregnant right?Could she just be be having pregnancy blues?

Okay, we're waiting to hear from the wife; to hear her own side of the story.

virginprincess:
coinwarrior,it obvious you just open this tread to boast because i don't see the need of you explaining what you did for your wife's family.

oh you are that gender.you yourself look at your sloppy reasoning.Did you see me boasting there? Female gender is sth else.I only highlighted all those to show how a responsible husband I have been so as to erase the opinion of some people that maybe i have not being responsible enough was the reason she was behaving that way.

Talk to her, that you don't like the disrespect, or how are you scared of her?

PerfectStranger:
They’ll be praying for husbands, humble at the beginning. Once you mistakenly put a ring on it, boom their real unscrupulous attitude pops up.

Comr sir, u see all these daughters of eve ehhh, dem go dey disturb Jah for husband and when Jah answer them, that's when u go begin dey see d dark side of them. Sometimes is not about seen d red flag during courtship, d raw truth is that if a woman see say u get kolo for head, she go melow down, but if u show her gentleness she go bring d dark side.
For example, look at d garden of eve, when eve was created, she was calm until she cum get small balance kasala boost. Jah even regretted creating woman. D only creature Jah regretted creating

Marriage is sweet, enjoy it and stop disturbing us single, non understanding, bitter and frustrated men. Is that too hard to ask bikonu?

. Wat a post. No head no substance

Omoh, you don try oooo... This the reason why ladies loose good and responsible men till when they loose him their eyes go clearly. I have come to learn don't over love a woman, love her but don't over do it. They can take it for granted and begin to misbehave, a lady needs to be constantly out in check both in relationship and in marriage. Your respect in her eyes is not tied to all the sacrifices you have made for her and her family. Obviously I have also come to learn that those we make much sacrifices for see us nothing but someone to take advantage of. You love too much and you have directed it to your wife too much to the point that your value in her eyes has reduced despite all you have done for her. Understand the psychology of a woman, love her but put her in check on her toes, when you constantly show a woman you can take nosense to your own detriment she will keep dishing you out nonsense. A woman you bank roll her school and family misbehaving... Set the rules and let her play by the rules. Love her but let her know her boundaries and we're she can not cross the line with you. Once a woman looses her respect for you, 90% of the time she has lost her love for you or she will soon loose that love for you. You have to constantly have your respect intack by the woman you feed, cloth and accommodate in your house.

Coinwarrior:
It is not that I am poor.I am rich ,I have build 7 houses for myself in total.I married this lady in 2020 when i met her as a nurse apprentice.I made her finish her nursing apprenticeship by bankrolling it and I made her learn patent medicine ,bankrolled her and opened a pharmacy store for her and bought 1 plot of land for her so far and made her living a very comfortable life above her peers and even her mother who had been married to her father for 40years ago.she is just checking pregnant now.And i am planning to send her to midwifery school once she gave birth.She has shop at home and at metropolis.I did everything for her.Here is a girl that would have been living an inglorious life if i had not met her because the guy that she was dating by the time I met her just want to Bleep and dump her and that guy is a serial cheat.My presence in her family has been a blessing cos I still bought a bus for her father 2.2mln to do away with the old bus the father was using to fend for his family.So what else I’m i doing wrong

Now...are you going to tell us what happened or you want to continue speaking grammar...??

I’m sorry bro but dem no Dey love women like that. Dem no make sacrifice for women, and most importantly , dem no Dey let women see person finish

There was a thread someone asked if it's okay to marry a 22 years old girl, I believe and hope it won't result to this kind of thread?

Back to you OP, you should register your dismay towards the abysmal and profanity of your wife to herself with immediate alacrity. Tell her how disgusting and intolerance of disrespect you are. I don't like what I hate.

Learn to check your woman whenever she disrespect you. Just because you're providing for her and her family might not be enough. who knows if what she is craving for is for you to stand up to her, put her in her place etc. Note a woman that marry for love will complain about money, a woman that marry for money will complain about love and a woman that marry for love and money will complain about something else

Ahmed0336:
Chairman, manage her like that.

Naso we too dey manage our own.

Patience bro, patience.

I dey tell you bro, dem get McManaman for head sometimes, one without patience can't possibly live with that gender. And at times they'd be the best thing you ever wanted.

Brainless f°°l

virginprincess:
coinwarrior,it obvious you just open this tread to boast because i don't see the need of you explaining what you did for your wife's family.

[quote author=Coinwarrior post=116420925]On this date August 6 2022.A day I can’t ever forget in my life about


1) You've given her Financial freedom, Once a lady have her financial freedom she start thinking she does not need to accord a man with his full respect again, That may be the cause
SOLUTION:: Reduce the financial freedom and only give her what she need and not more than she needed until she realize her error

2) You're showing her too much Love, pampering her, being too nice to her.
SOLUTION; Add little strong face to your attitude, Set boundaries, let her know what you like and what you don't. Let your body language start doing the talking.

3) She may actually be feeling different due to her present predicament (pregnancy)
SOLUTION: Talk to her, ask her what she want, how she want to be treated during pregnancy period, Ask her if there's something she's having in mind to get for the unborn kid. Women are babies, please try to peg your wife during pregnancy no matter her behavior. E get why.

4) Hope you're still performing in the other room sha?
SOLUTION:: Don't think because she's pregnant she won't need to be rough handle ooo, Women are weird creatures, so please keep giving her the hottest S!x that will reset her into default setting.