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What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by Mikester: 10:36pm On Sep 06, 2022
The old chess players’ and wargamers’ maxim is: If you think your situation is bad, look it at the other side of board. That of your opponent usually looks downright desperate.

Men’s world is aggressive and violent.

90% of all violent crimes (felonies, robberies, assaults, homicides, bullying etc) have men as their victims. In my youth, schoolyard bullying was considered a normal thing, (boys will be boys, you know) and if a boy complained that he had been beaten up into pulp, he was chastized for being effeminate. There is no single Finnish male who had not gotten a kick on his genitals at least once in his life. The geography of fear. Men live in constant danger of thugs beating them up - just to get kicks and a testosterone surge and rise in the pecking order, and rob their belongings. Boys learn very young to avoid certain routes to school to avoid thugs and bullies.


Mens’ lives are worthless unless he provides

This is a trope - Men Are the Expendable Gender. Consctiption is, of course, the trope maker, but this comes by and by in every circumstance. Nobody will shed a tear for a man whose life is cut short.
Men’s feelings count nothing. All boys learn very young that crying is a sign of weakness and emotional instability (or if they don’t learn, they will be beaten up). Likewise, a man displaying emotions is a signal he cannot control himself - extinguishing them is called “manning up”. No matter how bad or turmoil or desperate it feels inside, a man must not display his emotions, and God forbid if he seeks professional help - that is an absolute no-no and a sign of contemptible weakness. It is no secret many women prefer psychopaths as their spouses as they demonstrate no weaknesses and their feelings are not genuine.

Men are the insulted and loathed gender.

Men are taken as potential criminals, potential rapists, potential thugs and potential wife-beaters. Men get no compassion and no emotional support on behalf of the society. Women can openly loathe all men and call them “trash” - female hate on males is no crime. You can falsely accuse a man of something he didn’t do and send him to prison. It is almost guaranteed the accuser (be he either female or male) will get all the compassion on behalf of the society. And if you get caught and your story is proven a fraud, you can expect a slap on your wrist. The worst thing is that if you are a man and like children, you are automatically taken as a paedophile and a child molester.

Men’s social and sexual role is far narrower than that of women.

Men has only one social role - that of a provider, a workaholic, a payer, a protector and a leader. If you cannot provide, you are a failure. Even if you get divorced, abandoned and kicked away, you are expected to pay through the nose the living of your ex - a marriage is judicially an extremely bad contract for men in this case.

Conversely, there is no such thing as a female failure. Women’s roles in the society and in the life are far broader and far more flexible compared to that of men.

Men are automatically taken guilty unless proven innocent.

Men’s lives are shorter and men are more likely to end up in prison, poorhouse, mental instution or commit suicide. Men’s lives are also more dangerous than those of women and men are more likely to abuse alcohol and illicit substances. Some 95% of people who die from workplace accidents are men. Getting plastered or getting comfortably numb with heroine are the only acceptable (although socially loathed) way for men to deal with their feelings.

Hereditary diseases and genetic defects manifest themselves either solely or primarly on males.

The hallmark examples are haemophilia (bleeding disease) and colour blindness. They are inherited via the X chromosome and do not appear on women except only as de novo mutants.


Male privilege? Now what the heck is that?


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Re: What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by ePoster: 10:41pm On Sep 06, 2022
Everyone feels under-priviledged. Men and women.

Isn't it a man's world? Aren't men the superior sex? Didn't god order women to respect their husbands, treat them like their lords?

Men contradict themselves. You can't claim superiority then complain. With power comes responsibility.
Re: What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by Mikester: 10:42pm On Sep 06, 2022
This was a comment from a woman.

She would hate it, but it’s easier for them to be women, follow feminism or some other man hating ideology, than to deal with the bullshit men have to go through.

Women have nowhere near the amount of injustices men face.

Sure, men are more than likely to head a Fortune 500 company, that’s their argument. But this has literally zero to do with the average male, who comes nowhere near as close to this level of fortune and success.

Feminism belongs in the trash bin of history, it’s time to work on mens rights and it’s been time for a while now.

There is very few women’s rights issues.

Unlike men, they have some level of control over a pregnancy.

Unlike men, they are favored during a divorce. This is huge and a gross injustice in which there is nothing a women of today can compare to.

Women choose men more than the reverse. In dating, women have major advantages. Women in dating are major hypocrites. You have to accept their flaws, or you’re a jerk, but they refuse to accept even minor things with a man, and it’s considered a “women has choices”.

Women are punished less for crimes.

Women are believed over men in regard to sexual encounters. Even if both consents, are both over 18, if she cries rape, then he gets charged, regardless. Even if he doesn’t, it may still ruin his life. And I’m sorry, but if you consent you consent, end of story.

In age gaps. If a women messes with a younger man, barely a punishment, the reverse? Hang him at the stake.

In jobs and careers there is a major push for women in careers and universities which again they are given the advantage, even more so with women taking up a majority of human resource positions.

Women can bitch about men until the cows come home, even if what they say is false. No one bats an eye, a man tells the truth of modern women, he is attacked as a sexist.

Anti-feminist and proud.
Re: What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by Mikester: 10:42pm On Sep 06, 2022
ePoster:
Everyone feels under-priviledged. Men and women.

Isn't it a man's world? Aren't men the superior sex? Didn't god order women to respect their husbands, treat them like their lords?

Men contradict themselves. You can't claim superiority then complain. With power comes responsibility.

This post isn't about complaining. Read to understand.
Re: What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by Ballzproblem2: 10:44pm On Sep 06, 2022
bullshit article get a life
Re: What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 06, 2022
All these gender talks na wa!

Gender used to be something so "simple" but it's now so complicated that there's even debate and conflict over "What a woman is" or "How do you define a woman?"

Of course, this is as a consequence of the fact that people give extreme power to their desires in this presently prevailing civilization instead of submitting to divine and natural law.

But God willing, The emperor, the reformer, "The Unity" is coming soon and will establish his New Era and things will start getting back in proper shape.

We await the coming of "The Unity"

PS: This is not to support any side of the argument or matter addressed on this thread.
Re: What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by ePoster: 10:51pm On Sep 06, 2022
1. A man's world is violent. You forgot to add that men are usually the victims of other men, not women. Men commit over 70 percent of all violent crimes.

2. Men's lives are worthless unless they provide. Same goes for women. Unless she's a mother, he life is worthless. Women are more likely to be victims of violence by men. Reason they are given much attention. There are children who harm adults but it's rare, that's who there's more attention given to children than adults.

3. Men are the insulted and loathed gender. You make it seem like men are being lynched. No one cares, get off social media. Men have been treated like royals, even a male child is cherished. Men have been educated, allowed to work, hold political positions, decide the fate of millions. People only hate mem who take advantage of their privilege to commit evil; rape and such.

4. Men’s social and sexual role is far narrower than that of women. Are you serious? Women aren't expected to be wives? Mothers? To be submissive? Quiet? A sexually active woman is shamed by the men who have sex with her. A man can decide to never have kids and no one would care.

5. Men are automatically taken guilty unless proven innocent. Same way whites are automatically accused of being racists. When the vast majority of men have proven to be violent, people tend to assume all men are. It's wrong but it's a human quality to generalise. People think all Muslims are jihadists too, don't they?

6. Women too. Pick a textbook

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Re: What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by godofuck231: 11:25pm On Sep 06, 2022
This is the reality of a woman who has a bleeped up orientation or from a poor class of family, most women who are well bought up hardly see themselves going through such stressful philosophy about life , its a theme for strife and painful experiences

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Re: What Are The Reasons Why A Woman Would Hate Being A Man? by nightfox01(m): 11:38pm On Sep 06, 2022
Oga life is hard for everybody both women and men I concur with all of your above points but life is also hard for some women ugly women are equated to men in this harsh life u Don carry pregnancy so no cap

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