There is this lady I am dating .
We've been talking for over a year ,she was serving somewhere in the Niger delta ,although she lives in Lagos and so do I.

After her service she returned back to Lagos.

We have not seen for a like a year ..and before now ,our relationship was not intimate nor sexual ,just calls and chats .

She came around my place some 3 weeks ago and we had sex..
She just came and took of her clothes ,hung her clothes outside and was walking around my house in this crazy bum short, Sunday morning..

We had sex , I used a condom of course .. but while at it , while having sex with her ,the condom burst....(after that day we haven't had sex again)

Now I asked her if she had any medical condition and she said no she doesn't ..

I also went to her family house and asked her the same question "babe do you have any medical condition"? She said no ..

Because I was sure of myself ,I don't have any medical condition because I do full medical check up like every 3 months and all the results are in my house here .

So I told her to prepare herself for us to visit any reputable laboratory and have both ourselves checked .

I told her we would do the following tests :
1) HIV test
2) Shyphilis test
3) hepatitis test..

This lady is 26yrs old ,matured and a graduate .

But since I told her this ,she has been hiding and dodging . Giving me one stewpid reason or another ..

I have dated ladies before I met her ,and those ladies do not hesitate when I tell them I want a medical check up .they obliged me and we did the test together ,bills on me ..


So guys ,what do you think girl is trying to achieve by running away from a medical checkup?

Is she diseased and know it?

Is she probably taking lifelong drugs to treat an terminal disease in her body maybe viral disease ?

What could be the reason for an educated young lady to be running away from medical check up..

Medicine after death.

Oga syphilis, congratulations in advance.

This one hook you for throat, how easy it is for people to have sex still amaze me. Arrest her and drag her to the lab

Oga, your lady was probably into runs during in her service years and she might have carried one infection or the other ...if not , why would she dodge the tests?

See, I will strongly advise that you leave her alone and move on. After all, she is not the only fish in the pond ,and no be today you don dey change babe. It is better you deal with someone who is transparent than someone whose motives will always be questioned

She don give you disease via her flash share

She might be disease free make fear just dey catch am onto different raw knackings... Na women like and always initiate raw sex pass (please don’t even argue this)…..

Condom dey always burst for Nairaland guys during sex as if they have better priq.

Go and take HIV medication

She's had a lot of raw sex with many people so she's not confident to come out clean.
Or she's been having weird symptoms she's scared to investigate the cause.

Find other means to drag her to the lab if you can. Not just for your sake, but other guys waiting in line.

I usually insist on medical check up whenever I find someone I want to date for a long time. They all run away 40% of the time. The last one that ran said I'm too scared, but it was clear she's the scared one

The medical check up is it to continuing the fornication?

Hypocrites everywhere.. After having sex with her you now want medical check up, guy you be complete mumu. And if she is dodging then move on its not by force to drag somebody against her wish to do medical Check up. Better rest if the other ladies that followed you are good enough why did you leave them.. Your just a confused egocentric rat, looking to control women because you have some light change in your account and you feel your ego has been dealt with because she refused to dance to your stewpid tune.

OP you have come to the right place for sexological advice from the Nairaland panel of experts.

Now, you have supplied some relevant information and made some useful statements without going to any police station, BUT you have FAILED to publish the picture of that woman wearing bum-shorts to render vivid imagery that captures the REASON why you were left with no option but to hang pipe on that fateful day, with the result that you are now expressing worries about STDs and pregnancy.

Kindly do the right thing immediately by publishing closeup pictures of the offending bum shorts that CLEARLY show the camel toes and the toto topography, so that we can bury our noses DEEP into this problem in order to proffer solutions that will be acceptable to the woman you shagged mercilessly that day, to her irate parents, to the DPO of police, and to the police dog used to catch suspects, in addition to the Nairaland diaspora.

Thank you and God bless Argentina.

ChocolateWine:
The medical check up is it to continuing the fornication?

not really

Jakumo:
OP you have come to the right place for sexological advice from the Nairaland panel of experts.

Now, you have supplied some relevant information and made some useful statements without going to any police station, BUT you have FAILED to publish the picture of that woman wearing bum-shorts so that a full picture that captures the REASON that you were left with no option but to hang pipe on that fateful day, with the result that you are now expressing worries about STDs and pregnancy.

Kindly do the right thing immediately by publishing closeup pictures of the offending bum shorts that CLEARLY show the camel toes and the toto topography, so that we can bury our noses DEEP into this problem in order to proffer solutions that will be acceptable to the woman you shagged mercilessly that fateful day, to her parents, to the DPO of police, and to the police dog used to catch suspects, in addition to the Nairaland diaspora.

Thank you and God bless Argentina.

Costs her nothing for her to submit herself for checkup .. I am the one footing the bills afterall

Tickles001:
She's had a lot of raw sex with many people so she's not confident to come out clean.
Or she's been having weird symptoms she's scared to investigate the cause.

Find other means to drag her to the lab if you can. Not just for your sake, but other guys waiting in line.

I usually insist on medical check up whenever I find someone I want to date for a long time. They all run away 40% of the time. The last one that ran said I'm too scared, but it was clear she's the scared one

Of course she must do this test by Monday ... I've told her already ..and made her understand,enough!!!

Jakumo:
OP you have come to the right place for sexological advice from the Nairaland panel of experts.

Now, you have supplied some relevant information and made some useful statements without going to any police station, BUT you have FAILED to publish the picture of that woman wearing bum-shorts so that a full picture that captures the REASON that you were left with no option but to hang pipe on that fateful day, with the result that you are now expressing worries about STDs and pregnancy.

Kindly do the right thing immediately by publishing closeup pictures of the offending bum shorts that CLEARLY show the camel toes and the toto topography, so that we can bury our noses DEEP into this problem in order to proffer solutions that will be acceptable to the woman you shagged mercilessly that day, to her irate parents, to the DPO of police, and to the police dog used to catch suspects, in addition to the Nairaland diaspora.

Thank you and God bless Argentina.

Lol, u no see 9ja girl for a year and u still dey call am gf, people wey dey see steady sef dem still dey Bleep dem on a low talkless of unna wey no see for a year, guy dem don run that mileage up, and don’t be surprised if she come tell u se she is pregnant ooo, if that happens u sha know what to do unless u no too wise like some guys

Omo.. I cannot even dream let alone think of chooking my prick inside any woman's vag in lagos state until i marry!

Cutehector:
Omo.. I cannot even dream let alone think of chooking my prick inside any woman's vag in lagos state until i marry!

All work and no puna make Jack a dull boy.

Jakumo:


All work and no puna make Jack a dull boy.

omo..e better make i be dull boy for puna matter in lagos. God forbid.. I reject it.

Cutehector:
omo..e better make i be dull boy for puna matter in lagos. God forbid.. I reject it.

Go buy raincoat and take am dey shook dem anyhow no shaking. Time wait for no man. Half toto better dan no toto at all.

Jakumo:


Go buy raincoat and take am dey shook dem anyhow no shaking. Time wait for no man. Half toto better dan no toto at all.

na lie o. I no dey do till i marry! EOD!

Jakumo:
OP you have come to the right place for sexological advice from the Nairaland panel of experts.

Now, you have supplied some relevant information and made some useful statements without going to any police station, BUT you have FAILED to publish the picture of that woman wearing bum-shorts so that a full picture that captures the REASON that you were left with no option but to hang pipe on that fateful day, with the result that you are now expressing worries about STDs and pregnancy.

Kindly do the right thing immediately by publishing closeup pictures of the offending bum shorts that CLEARLY show the camel toes and the toto topography, so that we can bury our noses DEEP into this problem in order to proffer solutions that will be acceptable to the woman you shagged mercilessly that day, to her irate parents, to the DPO of police, and to the police dog used to catch suspects, in addition to the Nairaland diaspora.

Thank you and God bless Argentina.

Solutions acceptable to the Police Dog!