There is this babe that we've been together for past three years now(DATING) I took her as my serious babe Anyway.

Since few months now, I have been having problem with my body system because of this babe, My heart beat so fast to an extent I start feeling like my BP is above normal level.

We don't stay in the same City presently, but she comes to visit me on regular bases.
My fear is that I am Beginning to OVER LOVE this babe, Any thought of her makes me weak and Make my heartbeat to rise. Infact its worse to an extent that I feel unhappy anytime I just have a thought of she breaking my heart or betraying me.

Guy's please this babe was the one running and dying for me before in term of Love, But seems I am now into competition with her.

I'm SACRED she might have Charmed me, My instinct does not use to lie, Infact I can't explain my situation, How do I overcome this issue. I don't want to LOVE her to this extent, I don't want to have my heart troubled again, It feels like I'm dying already sef.

Again things I read hear on Nairaland has contributed into my situation, I can't just breathe normal, Unless I use all my strength.

Maybe I will break up with her sef, I am tired of this situation

Please help me with a solution.

I use to date girls and break up with them without having issues like this, But this girl is just like an OGBANJE in my life.

Please Guy's I am tired, Any thought if her cheating like this, MY Body will start shaking and my Blood pressure will just Rise unnecessarily.

She's the only one I am dating, I stop dating Two women or more at a time since last year, Due to my personal decision.

calm down, it happens to everyone, u are just crushing on her.

even the NL version redpillers and feminists go through this.

common FALING IN LOVE is something that you cannot handle?!?!

This happened to me some months ago .
Do this and be free
1.get busy ,yes ,get a job that will keep you very busy
2.get another babe that is finer or hot like her

I did this and am okay now

She is not an ogbanje.
It's just that you getting obsessed with her.
So many thoughts about her on ya mind!!
Focus ya energy, strength and mind on other things.
You will get a relaxed mind.

We don't give a fvck
Solve your problem yourself


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Michelle70:
calm down, it happens to everyone, u are just crushing on her.

even the NL version redpillers and feminists go through this.

Thought as much

Sirangle12:
This happened to me some months ago .
Do this and be free
1.get busy ,yes ,get a job that will keep you very busy
2.get another babe that is finer or hot like her

I did this and am okay now

I am working and infact she helps me to handle some of my works.

I don't want to double date base on spiritual stuff and the expenses, Man gats to smart in this economy

You’ve just met your poison, enjoy it peacefully

fman:
She is not an ogbanje.
It's just that you getting obsessed with her.
So many thoughts about her on ya mind!!
Focus ya energy, strength and mind on other things.
You will get a relaxed mind.

..


I fall in love with my Work the more, But her thought is a serious issue sincerely speaking.

I am tired

Rozross:
You’ve just met your poison, enjoy it peacefully

I'm afraid I may have to turn into a SimP, once she finds out I am Loving her more than expected.

OMOJOHN001:
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I fall in love with my Work the more, But her thought is a serious issue sincerely speaking.

I am tired

Like I told you
You think much about her.
You need to engage more in activities that will make you think less about her.
Else if u r served break fast..
Na serious HB u go get!

OMOJOHN001:


I'm afraid I may have to turn into a SimP, once she finds out I am Loving her more than expected.

All men will at one point in their women’s life turn simps, even with your redpill awareness, there’s a simp stage which you can’t escape before you gradually apply your redpill rules on her. Stop worrying yourself over nothing , nairaland Redpillers are in our dms with another monika, e go shock you.

OMOJOHN001:


I'm afraid I may have to turn into a SimP, once she finds out I am Loving her more than expected.

look, simping is not a death sentence like the redpillers make it look.

Do not be afraid of simping, .

To understand and appreciate redpill, u must understand simping

Thoses who insults simps are not redpillers, they are just misogynists.

listen to whay that rozross said

Rozross:
You’ve just met your poison, enjoy it peacefully

^{Poison by Beyonce}
You're just like poison
Slowly moving through my system
Breaking all of my defenses but time
You're just like poison and I just don't get it
How can something so deadly feel so right?
I'm not sure of what to do it's a catch with it to
Cause the cure is found in you I don't want it but I do
You're just like poison
My affliction, I'm addiction, I can't lie
Kiss me one more time before I die

Commenters above don dey package simping as a blessing give this OP. I pity him in advance.

Love is a beautiful thing. Most search for it all through their lifetimes without even getting a scent of it.

If your story is genuine and what you feel is not due to some other undiagnosed health problems, you should embrace it and embrace her.

Do not seek to displace what you feel. Luxuriate in it and let her know know exactly how you feel. "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is more important than fear".

It takes a real man to show a woman love, despite the possible negative consequences in the future. But remember that love and foolishness are two very different things. So, don't be foolish in your love. That is where regret will lie, if you guys break up in the future.

At least you can say that you have loved. Not many will be fortunate to say that in their old age.

OMOJOHN001:


I'm afraid I may have to turn into a SimP, once she finds out I am Loving her more than expected.

Rozross:
All men will at one point in their women’s life turn simps, even with your redpill awareness, there’s a simp stage which you can’t escape before you gradually apply your redpill rules on her. Stop worrying yourself over nothing , nairaland Redpillers are in our dms with another monika, e go shock you.

I really appreciate this response, Will surely work on that. Thanks

Rozross:
All men will at one point in their women’s life turn simps, even with your redpill awareness, there’s a simp stage which you can’t escape before you gradually apply your redpill rules on her. Stop worrying yourself over nothing , nairaland Redpillers are in our dms with another monika, e go shock you.

You ehn!

Michelle70:
look, simping is not a death sentence like the redpillers make it look.

Do not be afraid of simping, .

To understand and appreciate redpill, u must understand simping

Thoses who insults simps are not redpillers, they are just misogynists.

listen to whay that rozross said

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

mariahAngel:


Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

This your long laughter ehn

control ya feelings because feelings come and go...

Rozross:
This your long laughter ehn

That comment was just so funny.

Happy Sunday dear.

mariahAngel:


That comment was just so funny.

Happy Sunday dear.

Thanks a lot. Enjoy your day

OMOJOHN001:
There is this babe that we've been together for past three years now(DATING) I took her as my serious babe Anyway.

Since few months now, I have been having problem with my body system because of this babe, My heart beat so fast to an extent I start feeling like my BP is above normal level.

We don't stay in the same City presently, but she comes to visit me on regular bases.
My fear is that I am Beginning to OVER LOVE this babe, Any thought of her makes me weak and Make my heartbeat to rise. Infact its worse to an extent that I feel unhappy anytime I just have a thought of she breaking my heart or betraying me.

Guy's please this babe was the one running and dying for me before in term of Love, But seems I am now into competition with her.

I'm SACRED she might have Charmed me, My instinct does not use to lie, Infact I can't explain my situation, How do I overcome this issue. I don't want to LOVE her to this extent, I don't want to have my heart troubled again, It feels like I'm dying already sef.

Again things I read hear on Nairaland has contributed into my situation, I can't just breathe normal, Unless I use all my strength.

Maybe I will break up with her sef, I am tired of this situation

Please help me with a solution.

No solution bro. You have entered into the bond already. Pray it doesn't consume you.

I understand that feeling perfectly, when I was much younger there was this ugly girl that love me die, her folks were rich and she would get me whatever I wanted, I understood she wanted a relationship and I played with her feelings and toyed with her emotions, during this period we never had sex because I wasn't sexually attracted to her,there was an unfortunate day I was soo wasted on alcohol and weed and felt extra konjified, babe was looking very fuckable at that point, I knack knack craze and was shocked she matched my energy.
If I don't see her a whole day I start suspecting she's fvcking some other guy. My friends felt she had a hex on me with the sudden way I'm into her. The pussy was just damn too good and I wanted it all to my self. Alas after many knacks I got back to my senses sha.
We went back to how it was.

You better go do medical check-up and know what's wrong with you.