I might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please

See wetin religion dey cause.
That man saw nothing,he just dey use your matter advertise his scam FMT.
Your lady should have used her brain,well baba move on.

Two things dey involved either the pastor talk am true true or your babe dey use that one cover up

Same shit happened to me last year Nov. Just dust your shoes and move on. It's not really easy putting yourself together after all the marriage plans you had going on. Life goes on. The family does not deserve you. MOVE!

Take heart bro. God knows the best.

concho:
I might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her . I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up . I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years . Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused. Someone should help me please

So what did your galfriend decide? Did she decide to go with her mog in this then? If yes, prepare yourself and know that you are not losing anything if she walks away as a result of this. I think it is a lot worse to end up with a mog's puppet/sheep for a partner.

I would call off the wedding if the person I cared for thinks her pastor's words supercedes what we shared...without thinking twice!

Maybe she is not the right one for you...

concho:
I might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please

Hmm.... What have you personally seen about her by divine means and vice versa? Have you personally prayed about your relationship with her? God created man for intimacy and fellowship, to be able to talk to Him and obtain a feedback. Gone should be the days when all one has as information from God is what a pastor or any one occupying a ministerial position tells you. Sadly, your relationship may end based on incorrectness of information allegedly gotten divinely.

concho:
I might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .
I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .
I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .
Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused
Someone should help me please

which help exacty are you seeking here? the dude told her you are not the one and she came to tell you this nonsense.... so let her go marry her yeye pastor and jejely walk away from this persn.

All is well

concho:
I might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please

Depends on how you want to proceed. If you think you can live with this person as your spouse then I suggest going together with her to the pastor to find out more. You can also take her to your pastor to talk to her.

Ultimately though the choice is hers to make really, she's the one who needs to make up her mind. So let her know what you are down for and let her make up her mind.

To be clear I don't believe there are any supernatural vision seers so such talk wouldn't sway me if I have weighed my options well.

concho:
I might not type well because I lack coordination right now .
My girlfriend of 4 years came back from a one week church program to tell me that the Man of God said I’m not the right person for her .

I am already making marriage plans before she brought this up .

I would actually just walk away on a norm, but she is actually the best thing that has happen to me over the years .

Don’t even know how to start going about this , I am very confused

Someone should help me please

Marriage is in no way connected to salvation or mokṣa. Salvation means the liberation from your worldly bonds when you have worldly bonds. Escaping from developing any worldly bonds and thinking that you have got salvation is a bogus salvation.
It is just like saying that you never failed in the examination because you never wrote the examination! Having developed worldly bonds, when you are able to come out of those worldly bonds due to your attraction to God, it is the true liberation from the worldly bonds and is called salvation. Mere salvation without any attraction to God is not only foolishness, but is also a waste.

Due to the attraction to God, the existing worldly bonds should naturally drop away, without any force. That is the real salvation. There should be a competition between your bond with God and your worldly bonds. In that game, the bond with God should win over the other worldly bonds. How can you use the word salvation or liberation unless there are worldly bonds that bind you? When you are not bound, where is the question of liberation?

As a soul, you must pass through the path stipulated by God for souls. You should not compare yourself with Śaṅkara or Ṛṣyaśṛṅga. Śaṅkara was the Incarnation of God Śiva. So, there was no question of salvation in His case. Even Ṛṣyaśṛṅga, got married to the daughter of King Daśaratha called Śānti. It was only in his childhood that he was brought up isolated from the rest of the world and women.
But when youth came, he got married to Śānti. Sage Jaratkāru was advised by his departed ancestors to get married and produce children, otherwise, they would fall down into hell. Sage Jaratkāru got married and produced a son called Sage Āstīka, who became a very important sage.

If you get married, you may produce a great son like Śaṅkara, Rāmānuja, Madhva or Vivekānanda. The duty of the soul is to get married and produce children, so that the human race is extended in the service of God.

When God descends on earth as an Incarnation, there must be co-actors and plenty of audience to serve God by giving Him entertainment. Hence, it is the duty of every soul to get married and have children. As per the commandment of the Veda given to souls, every soul should get married and produce children (Prajātantum mā vyvatchetsīḥ…—Veda).

Even God Hanumān, the purest celibate, got married to Suvarcalā, when His departed ancestors advised Him to get married and produce children. They warned Him that salvation is not possible unless one gets married. The meaning of this is that unless one is tied by a rope, where is the question of liberation from the bond? Mokṣa means the liberation from bonds. God has created this system of forming bonds and subsequently getting liberation from them. Getting bound is like entering the game and getting liberation is like winning the game.
God comes to this world in human form to preach and uplift us. He is called Human incarnation of God. One shall meet the present human incarnation and learn divine knowledge from Him.



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