Hello nairalanders. Hope your day went well.
Please I need advice.

I met my girlfriend some years back and she has been a good girl to me through all these while.

She comes from a large family of 7. Her father had stroke in 2018 and her mother left them all and ran away, leaving only the sick dad to Carter for the whole family.

She gained admission same year and I stood by her side from her first to final year in the university , sending her money on a weekly basis and sent more money to her when there's need for more money in school.

She has finally graduated last month but the truth is that her demands are becoming increasingly difficult for me and her sick father has become broke as a result of spending without getting back.

I won't really say she's a burden but mehn, it's been too much lately.

I am 27 and I plan to get married at 30 and I honestly don't need this sort of setback.

Dear redpillers, I know I've been a simple man but please I need advice from everyone right now.

Seun Lalasticlala
Mynd44 nlfpmod

Mr Simpleton, run as your two legs can carry you

On a second thought, when last did you send money to your parents?

Oga wise up and stop being Simp !!

At 27 yrs of age , you have already sponsored a girl through university.... hope you are also a graduate ? If not definitely you are going to be a guest at her wedding soonest. Hope your parent aren't suffering

When she's done with you she would leave you for another guy, if she demands more money get her a job and teach her how to make money herself, the mother escaped from her children and husband na you wan come open chest for 50 caliber bullet ? Be wise and let your reasoning take control not your emotions , we men reason before we decide

I'm just laughing...

A girl that will leave this guy's sorry arsé soon.

Bros you need to advise your self, Take a close look at the family your girlfriend is from and you still want to pick your wife from.
The father has stroke, the Mother who is supposed to stand by him in his trying time Ran awayy, did you ask yourself why her father developed a high Blood Pressure that Led to his present condition. Possibly through constant financial demands and nagging from his wife that took away rest and peace of mind from the man ...
Over to you
Aside seeing your girl through school, she is still demanding, and I'm sure she will nag you out taking away your peace till you give in to her denands. Bros she will ensure you have little or nothing to take care of yourself not even your health.
I pity you, it won't be long you too will come down with stroke or better still early grave... And by then she will leave you.
Ahn ahn!! When do you want to have Sense bayii?

Maturity is not In number o.....
I'm sure your friends and sisters would have asked you for help that you refused them. You better Wise up

One rule of thumb for marriage/relationship: Never date or marry anyone you are his/her helper.
If you must help/rescue anyone, please help/rescue the person without any form of entanglement.
Know this and know peace.

According to an advice from my father to my brothers "when you wish to marry a girl of ur taste, watch out for the mother's character towards her father"

Thank God you acknowledged you are a SIMP. No need to overflog that again.

My question now is; Why is her demands getting more difficult after school?

Is she using your money to train her younger ones through school now that she's done with hers?

LatestgistTv:
Hello nairalanders. Hope your day went well.
Please I need advice.

I met my girlfriend some years back and she has been a good girl to me through all these while.

She comes from a large family of 7. Her father had stroke in 2018 and her mother left them all and ran away, leaving only the sick dad to Carter for the whole family.

She gained admission same year and I stood by her side from her first to final year in the university , sending her money on a weekly basis and sent more money to her when there's need for more money in school.

She has finally graduated last month but the truth is that her demands are becoming increasingly difficult for me and her sick father has become broke as a result of spending without getting back.

I won't really say she's a burden but mehn, it's been too much lately.

I am 27 and I plan to get married at 30 and I honestly don't need this sort of setback.

Dear redpillers, I know I've been a simple man but please I need advice from everyone right now.

Seun Lalasticlala
Mynd44 nlfpmod

You are just helping the family and God can send anyone to help anyone in distress

You have tried so much, out of sympathy to assist her through school and support her dad's ill health

Now that she has graduated
You have to take a decision that will end the relationship in a friendly manner or take a decision to take the relationship to the alter

As for your girl, she knows her family condition and hee demands are more than what her family can afford

Now is the time to put a stop to nonsense else, you will carry the cross of every member of that family

Be wise and use your wisdom to decide what you want to do with the relationship

You have really tried for them

You have invested where their is no financial profits but God will bless you for getting this far

Who ever you are, Where ever you are God will continue to Bless you with more wisdom and more for this contribution

nifemi25:
At 27 yrs of age , you have already sponsored a girl through university.... hope you are also a graduate ? If not definitely you are going to be a guest at her wedding soonest. Hope your parent aren't suffering

Please op, answer the people's comments so that they may know where and how to advise you.

I just hope your girlfriend have a good heart and appreciate all you do for her.

A simple advice: pretend you do not have to give her and see her reaction if it bear semblance with that of her mom.

You know what to do from there.

TINUBUISMAD:

Mr Simpleton, run as your two legs can carry you

On a second thought, when last did you send money to your parents?

Oga wise up and stop being Simp !!

Bro, I do send my mother and kid sister money every week

Some people can’t read a SimPle text, he needs advice.
To tell you the SImPle truth mr OP you should have used part of the money to setup a business or put her in a trade while she was still going to school. Person wey no suffer make money no dey value money, she knows you’ll always give hence the wotowoto upgrade on demand. Let her learn to do it herself now, you’ve tried no be like say you marry am.

Give more details, how is she demanding too much?

Does she genuinely love you, cos you've invested a lot

Guy, flee, avoid her like plague before she runs u dry.
When she finally runs u dry, she will discard u like pure water sachet and move to the next guy.
U have sense, make use of it.

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LatestgistTv:
Hello nairalanders. Hope your day went well.
Please I need advice.

I met my girlfriend some years back and she has been a good girl to me through all these while.

She comes from a large family of 7. Her father had stroke in 2018 and her mother left them all and ran away, leaving only the sick dad to Carter for the whole family.

She gained admission same year and I stood by her side from her first to final year in the university , sending her money on a weekly basis and sent more money to her when there's need for more money in school.

She has finally graduated last month but the truth is that her demands are becoming increasingly difficult for me and her sick father has become broke as a result of spending without getting back.

I won't really say she's a burden but mehn, it's been too much lately.

I am 27 and I plan to get married at 30 and I honestly don't need this sort of setback.

Dear redpillers, I know I've been a simple man but please I need advice from everyone right now.

Seun Lalasticlala
Mynd44 nlfpmod

Good. You need online redpillers' advise. Good luck. I am out of here.

Well as far as I know, a human being - a grown adult responsible human first of all ensures that himself and his plans for life i.e education, work, business, skills e.t.c are first taken care of. He directs his resources and capabilities to that direction first.

Then he now moves to other people of utmost importance to him i.e his family which includes his wife (I said wife oo, not some girlfriend) then friends and so on.

As for the girlfriend relationship, na you Sabi. Such a relationship is not recognized in the New Era to be established by the great emperor "The Unity". It is not recognized in the sacred law. A girlfriend or boyfriend has no rights. Una just dey play ni.

However as a fellow human to human, between you and that girl, if you have catered for yourself and your plans first, then you may extend some help to her.

If you don't have the capacity to help, then you SHOULD SERIOUSLY CONSIDER not parting with anything.

Na girl wey go marry person go marry am. If you like break your back for some girls, it won't mean they'll eventually marry you.

Use your brain. Be wise.

Helpout12345:


Good. You need online redpillers' advise. Good luck. I am out of here.

Please send in your own advice, I'll appreciate. I just need advice from everyone.

The truth is, You've been used, played and quashed. You've paid the ultimate price of being a SIMPle nice guy.
I hope you come out strong, mate

I don't know what to do bro. If I leave now, then all I've done for her in the past becomes useless.

You said this..
Honestly, this is why some client are still paying some yahoo boys because they're too invested and they just don't know when to stop again..
The best time to stop whatever you're doing is now..
She knows you're finding it hard to break up with her.. Do it before she does.
It's going to be painful, but you'll be fine.

tell her the truth and be done with the headaches.

Thank you all for the advice. I really appreciate

LatestgistTv:
Thank you all for the advice. I really appreciate

You took up unnecessary financial responsibilities over the years which you ought not to have gotten involved.

The relationship is causing you distress and it is for your own good, you cut it off immediately as you are not her and her family's "messiah". You have enabled her sense of entitlement thus her confidence in demanding more from you, probably feeling since she offers you sex in return then she is justified

Don't waste your youth on a mirage.