CHARACTER + BRAIN + BEAUTY

That is the exact order. I will rather be with an easy going, clean, cheerful and well mannered non virgin than with a bad mannered, rude and bitter virgin claiming to be a Saint. Virginity is not a ticket to be a STUPID WOMAN. A stupid and foolish virgin is the who is foolish enough to think that her virginity is what will make a home. The foolish virgin that does not know she needs extra OIL IN HER LAMP. Yes even in the Bible parables there were FOOLISH VIRGINS. VERY FOOLISH ONES. Your virginity you have kept for years is taken in one night and less than a few seconds, if your husband does not even know how to disvirgin you. And then you aren’t a virgin any more. It becomes “ I get am before no be property”. Your virginity must be complimented by sound Character+ Feminity + Loyalty + Submission + Resourcefulness + Proper Manners etc.

Where a woman lacks Character, Manners, Resourcefulness, Loyalty and submission she will quickly realize that the average man only wants her for the bragging rights of taking her virginity. If women understood a lot of things about men, they would not have issues. That a girl is a virgin doesn’t mean her husband does not get tired of her vagina even in her/their marriage. He only has a little bit of extra assurance that he was her first and that she is a little hard to get and posses a strong will power to stay chaste. And like people will argue it could have simply been an issue of lack of opportunities. That is all. There is nothing extra again in being a virgin. Being a virgin does not replace good character, morals and manners. Men look beyond the unbroken hymen in the entrance to a woman’s vagina. Men look at the kids too. What type of children will she raise with and for me? What will my neighbors and relatives think of this Virgin Bush Fowl that I have kept at home? What type of household will she create for me? Can I peacefully come home after a hard day and get peace? Is she properly domesticated and can handle her business? Is she a good companion that can offer me support and wisdom to guide me in taking decisions for the family?

Ladies, listen, Virginity is good. Do not have sex or give your virginity to low quality men or loose it due to bad irresponsible decisions. However, also note that in Marriage your VIRGINITY only gives the man a only little bit more assurance about the strength of your will power in rejecting the advances of other men. The man is just a little bit assured that no other man can easily just get In between your thighs and plant seed. To any right thinking man, his wife’s thighs and body are his Personal and Special place and thing meant only for him.

That virgin will be shocked that after marriage and disvirgining her, the man looks for peace and sanity in the bosom of another non virgin who is just a well behaved and well mannered woman. With your virginity, please have some sense to compliment it.

Southernigbo:
She will gradually get normalised

Normalised as in how?

Some bad characters in Pple are like Foul-smelling Odour...

It NEVER goes away..

temitope27:
it's part of good character

character is in you, if you want to be bad or good it depends on your minds not being a virgin

yyba:
Being Virgin those not guarantee she be a good wife

Exactly

Zonefree:

At bolded, so hilarious

Seems you're presently dating olosho.


Never convert a hoe to a wife, for the sake of your sanity... please.

Never bro. U miss that rule as a man u miss out on life 100%

Zonefree:

But, it will guarantee peace of mind unlike when you settle with a retired Olosho.

Bro i will disagree on that. A girl might be a virgin but it doesn't mean she will give u peace of mind eventually because of the status. What I'd her character is questionable? Being a virgin is good when she's really true with her character and not being shady. Make i tell u. Some 5 /6 years back I met some small uni girls like 100 - 300 level girls who were real virgins as in hymen and vagina sealed but guess what. Their asses and mouths substituted for that. They're damn nasty girls who pop pills and smoke stuff that will make u run wild and naked in the market. But if u see their faces u will swear with ur soul these pretty little angels are innocent. So character and not virginity comes first abeg

yyba:
Being Virgin those not guarantee she be a good wife

Same way ,being a non virgin doesn't garrantee good wife. Who will choose a car from the factory over Nigerian used car,even though we know all cars fit involve for accident (God forbids) ?

Op ,there are non arrogant and well behaved virgins. That's what we should pray for.. If you be guy wen don disvirgin girl before, go marry that one. You no deserve another virgin.. Have I made myself clear? And if I hear pem,your mind go dey..

BigYash:
Same way ,being a non virgin doesn't garrantee good wife. Who will choose a car from the factory over Nigerian used car,even though we know all cars fit involve for accident (God forbids) ?

Op ,there are non arrogant and well behaved virgins. That's what we should pray for.. If you be guy wen don disvirgin girl before, go marry that one. You no deserve another virgin.. Have I made myself clear? And if I hear pem,your mind go dey..

hehehe but you end up typing rubbish na hehehe .

yyba:
hehehe but you end up typing rubbish na hehehe .

Ahahaha,kikikiki.
You see it as rubbish, cux your brain can't process meaningful things. Ahahahaha,kikikiki

BigYash:
Ahahaha,kikikiki.
You see it as rubbish, cux your brain can't process meaningful things. Ahahahaha,kikikiki

but you didn't post any meaningful thing

yyba:
but you didn't post any meaningful thing

But your brain can't process meaningful things nau?

Vinnie2000:
We know that most Guys would actually want a Virgin wife.

We all want to be the First to invade that Juicy Hole and Colonize it..

But If you start Dating a young Lady and somehow discover She is a Virgin but She is Rude, disrespectful and has very Bad Character?

Will you put her in mind for Marriage?

Nplfmod

Nooooooooooo

The obsession for virgins on nairaland is cringeworthy. What you should look out for in a wife is good character. Ps- a girl can give and recieve mouth action plus allow a man in through the back and claim to be virgin, for those obsessed with virgins just pray a small geh doesnt scam you.

I prefer to settle with a retire olosho to a virgin that will turn to coded olosho! Tomorrow.

BigYash:
But your brain can't process meaningful things nau?

Slashboy:
I prefer to settle with a retire olosho to a virgin that will turn to coded olosho! Tomorrow.

Having a Retired Olosho Wife is NOT for small boys o!

detectivejones:
The obsession for virgins on nairaland is cringeworthy. What you should look out for in a wife is good character. Ps- a girl can give and recieve mouth action plus allow a man in through the back and claim to be virgin, for those obsessed with virgins just pray a small geh doesnt scam you.

Well said..

Virgins are not rude, proud, and arrogant. These words are antithesis and should not be in the same sentence. In fact, if a virgin is rude and arrogant, it is still tolerable than a woman who has seen more deek than a doctor being rude and arrogant.

Can't someone decide to marry a virgin in peace for this forum?
Op why can't I have the good, humble and kind virgin?

yyba:
character is in you, if you want to be bad or good it depends on your minds not being a virgin

are you not saying rubbish now? For you to stay as a virgin, is it not determination from ur mind?

Uhm, replace her with humble, not arrogant virgin.

Zonefree:
Let's be frank to ourselves, it's mostly non virgin broke and wretched Nigerian evening newspapers that exhibit these characters you mentioned.

Siofra, Jennyclay, RozRoss etc, will attest to what I just said.

Buhari should draft non virgin Nigerian girls into the Army to help fight insurgency. That's the only way they can be useful to the society.


#Teamvirgin.
God bless all slim virgin Nigerian girls.

Used goods are desperate to advertise themselves. Men are finally having standards and it's biting hard.

JOACHINpedro:
Can't someone decide to marry a virgin in peace for this forum?
Op why can't I have the good, humble and kind virgin?

Bros, most of the so called good and humble Girls are ALWAYS bleeped b4 marriage.
Yahoo boys and Sharp guys always ensure dis!

But there are some rude, Stubborn ladies who just dont like sex and even Guys.

It is such category i am referring to.

BigYash:
Same way ,being a non virgin doesn't garrantee good wife. Who will choose a car from the factory over Nigerian used car,even though we know all cars fit involve for accident (God forbids) ?

Op ,there are non arrogant and well behaved virgins. That's what we should pray for.. If you be guy wen don disvirgin girl before, go marry that one. You no deserve another virgin.. Have I made myself clear? And if I hear pem,your mind go dey..

Will u prefer a used 2021 Benz GLE 4MATIC or new Toyota Corolla 1999. Be honest.
That's exactly how this virgin wife thing be to men looking for wife.
No man makes virginity number one priority when choosing a spouse. I repeat, no man. All this 'virgin wife or no marriage' na social media noise.
In real life, virginity is addendum that men consider amongst other virtues when considering a woman to marry.
Character, beauty n good morals are the utmost in the mind Nigerian men when searching.

SIRTee15:


Will u prefer a used 2021 Benz GLE 4MATIC or new Toyota Corolla 1999. Be honest.
That's exactly how this virgin wife thing be to men looking for wife.
No man makes virginity number one priority when choosing a spouse. I repeat, no man. All this 'virgin wife or no marriage' na social media noise.
In real life, virginity is addendum that men consider amongst other virtues when considering a woman to marry.
Character, beauty n good morals are the utmost in the mind Nigerian men when searching.

How about a new Benz?

JOACHINpedro:

How about a new Benz?

So as u admit, it's not about a new car but the brand. The spec of car trumps new/used car. That's the point of this thread.
If virginity is the greatest virtue to finding a wife, u would have gone for the new 1999 Toyota Corolla.

SIRTee15:


So as u admit, it's not about a new car but the brand. The spec of car trumps new/used car. That's the point of this thread.
If virginity is the greatest virtue to finding a wife, u would have gone for the new 1999 Toyota Corolla.

Well, we all have our standards.

JOACHINpedro:

Well, we all have our standards.

Your standard is good. Shows u are a man of great taste. But know that soup wey sweet, na money kill him.
High valued women are not easy to come by.

SIRTee15:


Your standard is good. Shows u are a man of great taste. But know that soup wey sweet, na money kill him.
High valued women are not easy to come by.

You don't know what's going on

temitope27:
are you not saying rubbish now? For you to stay as a virgin, is it not determination from ur mind?

being virgin those not guarantee she will be a good wife, don't let anyone fool you to marry her because of being virgin. If she has bad behaviour you are finished.lastly stop smoking weed before you read my comment

SIRTee15:


Will u prefer a used 2021 Benz GLE 4MATIC or new Toyota Corolla 1999. Be honest.
That's exactly how this virgin wife thing be to men looking for wife.
No man makes virginity number one priority when choosing a spouse. I repeat, no man. All this 'virgin wife or no marriage' na social media noise.
In real life, virginity is addendum that men consider amongst other virtues when considering a woman to marry.
Character, beauty n good morals are the utmost in the mind Nigerian men when searching.

If the Benz is damaged beyond repair (any girl above two body count) I will gladly choose the corolla. Atleast if fault enter,then I will easily know where its coming from.. Why its good to add virginity to your properities these days,its because of the way girls now trade themselves. I believed you won't open your eyes to marry a girl who has been gang b*anged over four times. A girl who has all sort of infections or faulty womb cause of her stupid life style. A girl who sees her body as tourist site for every tom ,dick harry. A girl exposed to all sorts of hard drugs during sexual and non sextual activities. Most of these non virgins are basically the definition of those factors I just listed. They will pretend to have the character you so much desire,but just marry her first. You wonder why divorce cases keep increasing and the unfaithfulness among partners? Its this your mindset. Used product ,is used product. The first user understands it more and make the best use of it. That's how I see it.. Why I go carry Benz when over 50persons don drive anyhow.. Someone use am go farm ,carry load.Some use am carry cement. Then spray it,and put for sale. Meanwhile, new corola dey .. Bros I will choose corolla over the used Benz,a million times..

UnusualEmissary:
Hey! There's this brand new phone. But the features of the phone - both hardware and software - are of very poor quality

Will you use it?

Lolss...See funny Analogy..

Meaning u Prefer a Sharp, Functional Phone BUT has been Sold and resold to like 9 to 10 persons?