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Does This Happen To You by martin2699: 8:52pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
Ok nairalanders I need your help on this. I have a serious problem with women. I easily fall out of love with any woman I date. When I get a new girlfriend things start off smoothly and before i know it, I lose all feelings and then a breakup follows. It's not a use and dump situation because in some cases i've fallen out of 'love' even before any intimacies. I'm currently in a relationship but im begining to get tired of the whole thing again. Ive been contemplating breaking up but then for how long will I continue like this. It really troubles me because I don't want to this to affect me when I get married. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Nobody: 8:55pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
It doesnt happen to me! But of cases i've encountered Something usually leads to this kind of feelings! Probably a lady DUMPED you early in life and YOU SWORE NEVER TO LOVE AGAIN? Was that your own case too? |
Re: Does This Happen To You by r231(m): 8:57pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
you have a big problem o i will advise you to see pastor chris ASAP |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Nobody: 9:01pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
r231:Trust me! That FAKE AS[b]S[/b] doesnt have ALL the ANSWERS! |
Re: Does This Happen To You by amblors(m): 9:02pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
Em, this doesn't happen to me. It could be caused by how you view relationships, just a thought maybe you view it as a short term thingy you shouldn't consider marriage until youve fixed this. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by MMM2(m): 9:03pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
op u should be happy u re a big boy, keep it on. D CENSUS CONTINUE. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by omega25red(m): 9:09pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
poster you are very normal. you are still finding yourself as a person so its only natural that you will date around a bit. Start figuring out what you are looking for in a mate that way you wont get into these "relationships" just because a girl looks good. once you know what you are looking for the rest will fall in place (maybe) |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Dyt(f): 9:13pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
Happens 2 me 2 get tired so easily mayb cos of 2much wantin or nonchalancy well jst tk ur tym sha wen next u want a partner mk sure s one u can always do wit in terms of troublsm n mute |
Re: Does This Happen To You by BABE3: 9:17pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
@ OP; O/E normal baje! You're perfectly normal. The problem is that you've not found the right one. Infact, you're even luckier than most people. You don't waste your time and investment(s) on your "potential partners". Keep smiling. You're good. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by martin2699: 9:32pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
I appreciate all ur replies cos the thing was secretly troubling me. @dyt its good to know uve had similar experience. @babe! Im sure going to keep smiling and focus on more important things. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Goldieluks: 9:36pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
You need prayers too. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by deniyor: 10:18pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
Absolutely normal. Nothing to worry about. You haven't met the right one yet. It could be cos you get bored of people easily or smth. Also You know being in a relationship takes a lot of work on both ends. You have to work hard to keep the love fresh at all times. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Dondav(m): 10:21pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
Happened to me before! I know dat feeling, |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Tricici(f): 10:43pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
Take ur time, don't rush into a relationship just for d sake of it or to know how long u r stayin in this time. When u'll meet the right lady for u trust you won't let het go, & feelings won't fade away like the previous times |
Re: Does This Happen To You by 195(f): 10:44pm On Aug 14, 2011 |
^prisicillia is that you |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Nobody: 12:11am On Aug 15, 2011 |
Re: Does This Happen To You by 195(f): 12:12am On Aug 15, 2011 |
Re: Does This Happen To You by tpia5: 5:09am On Aug 15, 2011 |
maybe you dont like commitment. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Nobody: 7:00am On Aug 15, 2011 |
^ TRUE! |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Chrisplus(m): 7:16am On Aug 15, 2011 |
probably ur gay |
Re: Does This Happen To You by martin2699: 9:17am On Aug 15, 2011 |
@ chrisplus, that one no follow oo. I'm straight like ruler. Im attracted to women like every other regular guy. I just get tired in my relationships too quickly. So no homo |
Re: Does This Happen To You by LongOne1(m): 9:59am On Aug 15, 2011 |
Yeah, I’m a bit like that too, can’t commit myself to anything for long…I like being free, a natural wanderer, and routine bores me silly. I hope Babe! and Tricici are right. Bottom-line, you are not alone, so no worries. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by lindabon: 10:15am On Aug 15, 2011 |
BABE!:fact! tpia@:so true! |
Re: Does This Happen To You by dammytex: 10:25am On Aug 15, 2011 |
Unbelievable, so Nairalanders could be this warm, helping and supportive without mis-yarning. Better days Poster, I think you are dating them for the wrong reasons, probably physical. If its that, it'll probably continue like this. You are a good person to identify that its wrong and you'll like to correct that. Look out for other qualities in women apart from appearance. Try intelligence, friendliness, good companionship, exposed, informed, funny, goal-oriented, smartness etc. These features keep you coming back and busy with them even when the beauty fades. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by martin2699: 6:27pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
Big shout out to Dammytex, Lindabon, Babe!, Tpia, Long One, Chrisplus, sexkillz, 190, Mr president, tricici, Dondav, deniyor, Goldieluks, dyt, Omega25red, MMM, Amblors,r32. Really appreciate ur comments. U guys are the best. |
Re: Does This Happen To You by 195(f): 6:32pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
^I didnt say anything ooh was only looking for priscillia |
Re: Does This Happen To You by Nayah(f): 6:40pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
Hi Martin, in French we call that "coeur d'artichaut" equivalent to the expression "to be fickle", in fact I think you 're a bit confused between "like" "appreciate" "and love" because for me and this is just an opinion, love comes with time, time to know more, time to hang out, time to see his/her surroundings, his/her behaviour in public, temper and so on I think you should take distance when you meet someone talking, chating, and take your time and then you would see if it's love when you can explain why do you love her, something special ( much more than physical appearence) which attracks you then you would be able to separate love from "appreciate" |
Re: Does This Happen To You by martin2699: 6:43pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
Lol, 190 im not arresting u na. See how quick u wash ur name from the matter. Like someone the 9ja police has asked to be a witness. Its fine though |
Re: Does This Happen To You by 195(f): 6:44pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
Re: Does This Happen To You by ronkebp(f): 6:46pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
it is just because you have not seen that ONE that would capture your heart and your wholebeing, |
Re: Does This Happen To You by mamacy: 8:17pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
@OP, check urself, u probably ve pride and think no woman is best for u, if its pride, deal with it before it ruins ur happiness, all da best |
Re: Does This Happen To You by alstarmayo(m): 8:28pm On Aug 16, 2011 |
sexkillz: who are you to a Pastor fake WATCH YOUR MOUTH |
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