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What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by goodmike7: 8:14pm On Oct 03, 2022
I have this so called friend who sees me as a competition or wants to prove a point to me when it comes to women. Thus guy has literally bleeped over 6 of my girls(random chicks), right now he is dating my ex girlfriend. I met a girl one night and sent him the picture, just a random girl, but along the line, i jokingly told him I like this girl he must keep off,he said he was deleting her from his contact(mind you, i have never slept with any of his oloshos even when i can).

fast forward to 2 months ago, I was with this girl in question and he walked into the lounge, then we werent in good terms, something just asked me to tell the girl your bf is here, she asked who and i pointed at his direction, she said she has never met him before and cant even recognize him...nigga called to make amends with me since we werent in ggod terms and he said,he has been fucking the girl and even that night i asked her about him, she told him and texted him that moment.

Now it dawned on me that this guy wants all my kind of women, I was very sad and furious, i waited till the next day and sent him a very long text,telling him i cant be friends with a man who sees me as a challenge with women, or wants to prove a point, i told him,this is how it gets started and he would one day want to make a move on my serious girlfriend or wife in future..I was very clear that i have left the girl for him once again but I will never trust him around my girls and he has soured this relationship.

I sent a text message to the girl too, to avoid me anywhere she sees me as i do not take lies and betrayals lightly, I did not mention his name but she should know better, then blocked her on all platforms.
Have you ever been friends with such people before please share and tell me your opinion and advise.
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by SRichard1: 8:32pm On Oct 03, 2022
A case similar to mine. I have this close pal I roll with right from back in the days till date. I found out that he is in secret competition with me but I am too big for such.
I once introduced him to one of my good female friend, whom I was trying to build a bond with through friendship. Note: he knows the feeling between my female friend and I was mutual.
A time came when I travelled, went online one day on WhatsApp and saw a creepy post about my pal on my female friend status. Instantly, I knew something was amiss. No room for flimsy explanation. I deleted the girls digit and locked her out for good. As for my pal, he was waiting for me to confront him about it, buh if only he knew I was an Alpha grin

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Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by goodmike7: 8:48pm On Oct 03, 2022
SRichard1:
A case similar to mine. I have this close pal I roll with right from back in the days till date. I found out that he is in secret competition with me but I am too big for such.
I once introduced him to one of my good female friend, whom I was trying to build a bond with through friendship. Note: he knows the feeling between my female friend and I was mutual.
A time came when I travelled, went online one day on WhatsApp and saw a creepy post about my pal on my female friend status. Instantly, I knew something was amiss. No room for flimsy explanation. I deleted the girls digit and locked her out for good. As for my pal, he was waiting for me to confront him about it, buh if only he knew I was an Alpha grin

What you mean creepy? were they smashing?
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Michelle70(m): 8:52pm On Oct 03, 2022
OP, its time to look at ur contact list again and do some amendment.

Ur threads are always about ppl hurting u
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Sweetvie: 8:54pm On Oct 03, 2022
Bad friend lipsrsealed
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Streetmovement(m): 9:02pm On Oct 03, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

That year have been friends with someone who low key saw me as a competition but this one was deep rooted cuz it's was basically about everything I breath on, only got to find out when we started staying together in an apartment we jointly contributed money for.

Hence the betrayal that follow up

That's the nigga I almost put an end to his street light, since then have been very selective when it comes to people I Bleep with.

The circle so tight bruv
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by SRichard1: 9:05pm On Oct 03, 2022
goodmike7:


What you mean creepy? were they smashing?
I didn't bother to know because it won't count for me and for the sake of my own sanity.

She had no justifiable reason to even post him at the first place. Writing an epistle of love caption. E clear
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by marlow1962(m): 9:48pm On Oct 03, 2022
Cast am lost.
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Clinghton: 9:52pm On Oct 03, 2022
Set a bait with a girl infected with HIV.
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Sammy101111(m): 10:42pm On Oct 03, 2022
A friend of mine came back from Kenya 2017 I accommodate him he as nothing on him I feed him I bought him clothes . Can you imagine this nigga as been doing me wicked he was asking my babe out lowkey . The day my baby revile everything to me on what’s app I was so disappointed this my nigga even had the Mind to take picture of me with another babe and send to my own babe as I found out I sent him off packing .

After helping a nigga na my babe they sweet am to knack .
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Perfectskills01(m): 11:19pm On Oct 03, 2022
goodmike7:
I have this so called friend who sees me as a competition or wants to prove a point to me when it comes to women. Thus guy has literally bleeped over 6 of my girls(random chicks), right now he is dating my ex girlfriend. I met a girl one night and sent him the picture, just a random girl, but along the line, i jokingly told him I like this girl he must keep off,he said he was deleting her from his contact(mind you, i have never slept with any of his oloshos even when i can).

fast forward to 2 months ago, I was with this girl in question and he walked into the lounge, then we werent in good terms, something just asked me to tell the girl your bf is here, she asked who and i pointed at his direction, she said she has never met him before and cant even recognize him...nigga called to make amends with me since we werent in ggod terms and he said,he has been fucking the girl and even that night i asked her about him, she told him and texted him that moment.

Now it dawned on me that this guy wants all my kind of women, I was very sad and furious, i waited till the next day and sent him a very long text,telling him i cant be friends with a man who sees me as a challenge with women, or wants to prove a point, i told him,this is how it gets started and he would one day want to make a move on my serious girlfriend or wife in future..I was very clear that i have left the girl for him once again but I will never trust him around my girls and he has soured this relationship.

I sent a text message to the girl too, to avoid me anywhere she sees me as i do not take lies and betrayals lightly, I did not mention his name but she should know better, then blocked her on all platforms.
Have you ever been friends with such people before please share and tell me your opinion and advise.


What someone has done before will be done again and again. That is human nature.

Your friend will continue to compete your women with you. The choice is yours whether to end your friendship with him or still continue
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Marvyx(m): 11:33pm On Oct 03, 2022
It's time we start calling ourselves out as guys. We only bash females to mask our own rubbish. Some guys are satanically purely evil. No class, no integrity, rnothing nothing. Tufia..

Same guys that will be trying other people's girlfriends and wives can't withstand breakfast. What's so hard in respecting your fellow man's territory? It's sickening to be honest.

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Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by culf: 11:45pm On Oct 03, 2022
yeah, in school, but not exactly like your situation. I don't know, but the opposite sex usually have this likeness for me (I no be fine boy ooo), and I don't do all these guys deceiving babes thing just to nack, I wasn't really interested in sex or relationship, just freestyle my thing. So this my very close friend, we are always together will want to use me to nack this babes that are coming my way, he also want me to help him run things with them but I know he is not serious, he just want to sex and move so I didn't. He should do his thing himself
we continue like that until one day, I went to visit a friend, NK, that girl like me then ehh, and she no dey hide am, she was also serious with fellowships then. Babe was asking me if its true, that my guy said why is she wasting her time on me and not giving him attention even after following her for a long period, that I am not what she thinks, that I drink, I party etc. I replied her, told her yes, I drink and party but I know my limit and can't and won't be influence, I love music and dancing (but I no sabi).
Na so I go sent my guy text wey reach 4 pages. Say if na person I kill now, na so he for go cast me because of p*ssy? he apologise but the tight friendship ended. Make I even try call him, know how he dey self, haven't heard from him for over 5 years now.

some guys dey elfup sha, all because of watin self?
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Nobody: 12:10am On Oct 04, 2022
Depraved and sex oriented boys.
Imagine them debating girls as if they don't v sisters and mothers.
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by goodmike7: 5:49am On Oct 04, 2022
Sweetplum:
Depraved and sex oriented boys.
Imagine them debating girls as if they don't v sisters and mothers.

Be like this one get mental problem oo
who is discussing about girls here?
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by goodmike7: 5:50am On Oct 04, 2022
Sammy101111:
A friend of mine came back from Kenya 2017 I accommodate him he as nothing on him I feed him I bought him clothes . Can you imagine this nigga as been doing me wicked he was asking my babe out lowkey . The day my baby revile everything to me on what’s app I was so disappointed this my nigga even had the Mind to take picture of me with another babe and send to my own babe as I found out I sent him off packing .

After helping a nigga na my babe they sweet am to knack .

These are the men that enjoys sleeping with their friends wives.
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by goodmike7: 5:51am On Oct 04, 2022
Marvyx:
It's time we start calling ourselves out as guys. We only bash females to mask our own rubbish. Some guys are satanically purely evil. No class, no integrity, rnothing nothing. Tufia..

Same guys that will be trying other people's girlfriends and wives can't withstand breakfast. What's so hard in respecting your fellow man's territory? It's sickening to be honest.

Asin nigga..its best we call them out anf avoid them totally.
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by goodmike7: 5:52am On Oct 04, 2022
culf:
yeah, in school, but not exactly like your situation. I don't know, but the opposite sex usually have this likeness for me (I no be fine boy ooo), and I don't do all these guys deceiving babes thing just to nack, I wasn't really interested in sex or relationship, just freestyle my thing. So this my very close friend, we are always together will want to use me to nack this babes that are coming my way, he also want me to help him run things with them but I know he is not serious, he just want to sex and move so I didn't. He should do his thing himself
we continue like that until one day, I went to visit a friend, NK, that girl like me then ehh, and she no dey hide am, she was also serious with fellowships then. Babe was asking me if its true, that my guy said why is she wasting her time on me and not giving him attention even after following her for a long period, that I am not what she thinks, that I drink, I party etc. I replied her, told her yes, I drink and party but I know my limit and can't and won't be influence, I love music and dancing (but I no sabi).
Na so I go sent my guy text wey reach 4 pages. Say if na person I kill now, na so he for go cast me because of p*ssy? he apologise but the tight friendship ended. Make I even try call him, know how he dey self, haven't heard from him for over 5 years now.

some guys dey elfup sha, all because of watin self?

Na wa ..
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Nobody: 6:02am On Oct 04, 2022
goodmike7:


Be like this one get mental problem oo
who is discussing about girls here?
[b]You dey ment![\b]
Am I your mate?
No be girls matter Una dey discuss? You this NFA (No Future Ambition).
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by goodmike7: 6:43am On Oct 04, 2022
Sweetplum:

[b]You dey ment![\b]
Am I your mate?
No be girls matter Una dey discuss? You this NFA (No Future Ambition).

Go take your pills..oloriburuku
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Nobody: 6:52am On Oct 04, 2022
goodmike7:


Go take your pills..oloriburuku
Omo ofo
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Shadysen: 8:03am On Oct 04, 2022
culf:
yeah, in school, but not exactly like your situation. I don't know, but the opposite sex usually have this likeness for me (I no be fine boy ooo), and I don't do all these guys deceiving babes thing just to nack, I wasn't really interested in sex or relationship, just freestyle my thing. So this my very close friend, we are always together will want to use me to nack this babes that are coming my way, he also want me to help him run things with them but I know he is not serious, he just want to sex and move so I didn't. He should do his thing himself
we continue like that until one day, I went to visit a friend, NK, that girl like me then ehh, and she no dey hide am, she was also serious with fellowships then. Babe was asking me if its true, that my guy said why is she wasting her time on me and not giving him attention even after following her for a long period, that I am not what she thinks, that I drink, I party etc. I replied her, told her yes, I drink and party but I know my limit and can't and won't be influence, I love music and dancing (but I no sabi).
Na so I go sent my guy text wey reach 4 pages. Say if na person I kill now, na so he for go cast me because of p*ssy? he apologise but the tight friendship ended. Make I even try call him, know how he dey self, haven't heard from him for over 5 years now.

some guys dey elfup sha, all because of watin self?
pussy
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Wizywiz(m): 8:17am On Oct 04, 2022
Sammy101111:
A friend of mine came back from Kenya 2017 I accommodate him he as nothing on him I feed him I bought him clothes . Can you imagine this nigga as been doing me wicked he was asking my babe out lowkey . The day my baby revile everything to me on what’s app I was so disappointed this my nigga even had the Mind to take picture of me with another babe and send to my own babe as I found out I sent him off packing .

After helping a nigga na my babe they sweet am to knack .
so bad
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by TheFinesseKid: 9:43am On Oct 04, 2022
Sweetplum:

[b]You dey ment![\b]
Am I your mate?
No be girls matter Una dey discuss? You this NFA (No Future Ambition).
calm down na haba
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Nobody: 9:59am On Oct 04, 2022
TheFinesseKid:
calm down na haba
I v calm down.
Re: What Wiil You Do To Your Friend??? by Nonexisting1: 10:08am On Oct 04, 2022
Some vaginarians can mumu sha. Most of them that my friends fucck give me green lights whenever our paths cross. My friends say I am tough but appear appealing too which is why them dey flirt around me. If not for my strict adherence to bro code,I for dey fucck them silly. The nigga is not your friend and has never been one so forget him.

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