@feminist35:
She wrote

Shut up. Broke man. Is it not men that are spoiling women deceiving them and sleeping with them? Or you think we're Happy we're above 30 and not married? If men refuse to commit, what more can we do? Only Nigerian men think like this, Men in the US don't care




And I replied:

You want to tell me that a serious man did not approach you when you were 18 or 20?

You want to tell me that a lot of men did not come to you when you were 23?

You did not settle with them because you think you had time.
You played them like piano.

You played with their emotions.
You wanted them to worship you.
You gave your body to boys who lived a flashy lifestyle thinking you're a big girl.

You felt like a princess. Like an angel.
You enjoyed the attention and didn't settle for anyone of these serious men.
You think your beauty will last forever (you miscalculated).

Now your time is passed!
The attention is not there anymore.
Your beauty is fading and suitors are not forth coming only those who want to fvck and go.
Now you have changed from a sweet girl to a desperate girl.

You think God is a fool? Oh you foolish girl.
Your pains have only started.
No man will ever honor you. Not even in marriage.
If you're lucky to get a man, he will cheat on you with younger girls and frustrate you.

You're paying for wasting your time.

EVERYONE PAYS EVENTUALLY!


Ladies learn from this and quickly hold a man while you're young.

Ok

Yur topic is very deep but the girls in on dis 20's century will think differently
Once a woman have good home training how to treat a man she wins all
Many untrained children have become parents Now how do u expect to train der own children
Na feminists dey come dey claim after failed relationship

OP when you have a kid force her into a relationship when she gets to 18-23


Ipray God doesn't give you a girl child so you don't ruin her life...

Candidlady:


OP when you have a kid force her into a relationship when she gets to 18-23


Ipray God doesn't give you a girl child so you don't ruin her life...

That's what you and other Nigerian girls said when Regina Daniel married ned but many girls are wishing to be her now.

Girls marry early if you can dont be deceived

Dangrace01:


That's what you and other Nigerian girls said when Regina Daniel married ned but many girls are wishing to be her now.

Girls marry early if you can dont be deceived

An old broke man comes to ask for your daughter's hand in marriage


What would be your response mr "GIRLS MARRY EARLY IF YOU CAN DON'T BE DECEIVED"

Candidlady:



A broke old man comes to ask for your daughter's hand in marriage


What would be your response mr "GIRLS MARRY EARLY IF YOU CAN DON'T BE DECEIVED"

Broke is temporal

Poor is eternal

If he's broke today but he's hardworking and smart and he loves my daughter

Why not


Stop seeing being broke as a crime.

Dangrace01:


Broke is temporal

Poor is eternal

If he's broke today but he's hardworking and smart and he loves my daughter

Why not


Stop seeing being broke as a crime.

Funny how you skipped the OLD in what iposted


Again

Broke old man comes for your daughter


She is 18 and the man is in his late 50s

Candidlady:



Funny how you skipped the OLD in what iposted


Again

Broke old man comes for your daughter


She is 18 and the man is in his late 50s

I used regina daniel as a response to your 18-23 point of view

My point is it is wiser for a girl to marry early.

A girl can get married at 23 its even better for her

Candidlady:



Funny how you skipped the OLD in what iposted


Again

Broke old man comes for your daughter


She is 18 and the man is in his late 50s

Bloody liar and manipulatress

No 50 year old broke man will come to ask for the hand in marriage of any young girl. For an oldman to be able to get the attention of a girl as young as that, money and influence has to be his forte. And most of them know that

So madam how many broke 50 year olds asked for your hand in marriage from 18 to 21? From at age 18 to 25 guys that approach you are mostly from 24 to 39. Some of whom are still building their lives, some are averare earners, some are just above average but you can't call them rich while some are up there i.e very wealthy (mostly 35-40).

The problem with you ladies at a young age is that you set very unrealistic expectations which are rarely ever met. You want over 6 foot tall man(90% of Nigerian men are below 6 feet), you want the one earning above one million naira a month (forgetting that only 0.1 percent of young men earn that amount) . So if 100% of spinsters jostle for 1% of the "desirable men" we will be left with so many unmarried women over 30s and even 40s women.

The thing is that being broke 80% of the time is a temporary thing. If we start asking these over 30s about all the dudes that asked you out in your prime and wanted something serious but you termed boring or a nerd or too bookish most of them have climbed to top levels in their careers. But they won't mention that. They always want to make it seem that no reasonable person came forward. Most of the first ladies of governors and even president in Nigeria didn't meet their husbands driving Rolls Royce, most wives of top general overseers of churches in Nigeria didn't meet their husbands living in a Porsche duplex in Banana island and using an iPhone 30. But you modern ladies are so superficial and spiritually blind because of the evil and atrocities you engage in. If you were not blind you can spot a man of zeal and a promising future and build an empire together. Most of you won't get married and there's nothing anybody can do about it. You miss your God sent husband once then the end. Maybe another would come but the marriage will just be work and endurance and lack marital bliss, love and harmony.

OP, you don't have to tell her the truth, for Nigerian girls do not often appreciate it.

tell them

Candidlady:


OP when you have a kid force her into a relationship when she gets to 18-23


Ipray God doesn't give you a girl child so you don't ruin her life...

U Northerners do worse. They give out their daughters from 9 to 12yrs to marriage. I know that the same was done with u.

Truvelisback:
U Northerners do worse. They give out their daughters from 9 to 12yrs to marriage.

I know that the same was done with u.

Ayfr

Iam trying as much as possible not to insult you for that last paragraph of yours

icandidlady will/would never support underage marriage north or no north

Please be guided


Do have a lovely day

Wotoporiously Speaking

Op louder cuz with the way you're going you'll be up for the awards for the best graduating student in vawulence very soon which is set to take place at the O2 arena in London by the end of the year 27th of December to be precise

https://www.nairaland.com/7367490/online-money-sweet-god-bless

Check my signature

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LalastiklaIa:


Bloody liar and manipulatress

No 50 year old broke man will come to ask for the hand in marriage of any young girl. For an oldman to be able to get the attention of a girl as young as that, money and influence has to be his forte. And most of them know that

So madam how many broke 50 year olds asked for your hand in marriage from 18 to 21? From at age 18 to 25 guys that approach you are mostly from 24 to 39. Some of whom are still building their lives, some are averare earners, some are just above average but you can't call them rich while some are up there i.e very wealthy (mostly 35-40).

The problem with you ladies at a young age is that you set very unrealistic expectations which are rarely ever met. You want over 6 foot tall man(90% of Nigerian men are below 6 feet), you want the one earning above one million naira a month (forgetting that only 0.1 percent of young men earn that amount) . So if 100% of spinsters jostle for 1% of the "desirable men" we will be left with so many unmarried women over 30s and even 40s women.

The thing is that being broke 80% of the time is a temporary thing. If we start asking these over 30s about all the dudes that asked you out in your prime and wanted something serious but you termed boring or a nerd or too bookish most of them have climbed to top levels in their careers. But they won't mention that. They always want to make it seem that no reasonable person came forward. Most of the first ladies of governors and even president in Nigeria didn't meet their husbands driving Rolls Royce, most wives of top general overseers of churches in Nigeria didn't meet their husbands living in a Porsche duplex in Banana island and using an iPhone 30. But you modern ladies are so superficial and spiritually blind because of the evil and atrocities you engage in. If you were not blind you can spot a man of zeal and a promising future and build an empire together. Most of you won't get married and there's nothing anybody can do about it. You miss your God sent husband once then the end. Maybe another would come but the marriage will just be work and endurance and lack marital bliss, love and harmony.

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Epistle of trash to the corinthians

Candidlady:


Epistle of trash to the corinthians

Olodo rabata

I know you are very uncouth. Evening newspaper in the making

Candidlady:


Epistle of trash to the corinthians

I knew you were not going to have anything same to respond to him... I expected it and sadly, i was not disappointed ...

I'll leave you with a quote your response reminded me of...

"When an average or below average female has nothing coherent to say, she'll result to insults, emotional blackmail and/or demeaning remarks"

Fahvvy:


I knew you were not going to have anything same to respond to him... I expected it and sadly, i was not disappointed ...

I'll leave you with a quote your response reminded me of...

"When an average or below average female has nothing coherent to say, she'll result to insults, emotional blackmail and/or demeaning remarks"

Icant be wasting my time reading whatever he wrote... imade my point clear..


Before you come at me with bs

Are you married?
Have you ever dated a lady hoping it leads to marriage?
Why ain't you married?
How old are you now?
And lastly do you have what it takes to get married?

Men can stay ages without the thoughts of marriage but when a lady decide to stay single. Y'all will conclude she used up her time when she was young

How stewpid


Whatever y'all choose to think of me. Truth is idont care .. Idont know y'all and y'all don't know me.. hyfr we might never even cross paths. . So abeg miss me with that bs of yours


Allah sukaruwa

LalastiklaIa:


Olodo rabata

I know you are very uncouth. Evening newspaper in the making

Why you chose to call me evening newspaper is what idont understand

Why call me evening newspaper? Kos ichose to stay by myself and not have y'all fruitless and incompetent beings in my life


You tag a lady who is barely 30 evening newspaper
But tag a man who is in his late 40s player player


What a waste of oxygen

Candidlady:


1. Icant be wasting my time reading whatever he wrote... imade my point clear..


Before you come at me with bs

Are you married?
Have you ever dated a lady hoping it leads to marriage?
Why ain't you married?
How old are you now?
And lastly do you have what it takes to get married?

2. Men can stay ages without the thoughts of marriage but when a lady decide to stay single. Y'all will conclude she used up her time when she was young

How stewpid


3. Whatever y'all choose to think of me. Truth is idont care .. Idont know y'all and y'all don't know me.. hyfr we might never even cross paths. . So abeg miss me with that bs of yours


Allah sukaruwa

1. You didn't read and yet you responded? Wowwwwwwww, no wonder your response was so full of sense ....

2. Really??
Like you're comparing men and women?
Probably you think men and women are the same ...

Oya let's play this comparison game...
A woman can be broke and wretched and yet she'll go through life without any societal backlash, but if a man is broke and wretched, he'll be called names...

A woman can be a jobless wife, no issues, but if a man loses his job at any point in time or if his wife is the one paying the bills, he'll be called names...

Sweetheart...
MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT....
And we don't play by the same set of rules!!
There are things that a woman will do without any backlash, but if a man tries it, he will hear it and vice versa...

So all this one you're talking doesn't hold water at all!! ....

And the only reason why you're triggered is because this is one of those things that doesn't favour your gender ...

3. Sweetheart, nobody here cares about you, atleast i know that i don't ...
If you disable your account now, I prolly wouldn't even notice it so rest ...



And please before you respond to this, abeg READ, if you know you can't read it, don't bother to respond bikonu

Fahvvy:


1. You didn't read and yet you responded? Wowwwwwwww, no wonder your response was so full of sense ....

Read only third paragraph .. threw the rest outta the window

The poster iresponded to was comparing Regina and neds... and my point was,.... without money/affluence that relationship won't work. Hence, my question AS A FATHER WOULD HE GIVE HIS DAUGHTER TO A BROKE OLD MAN?

2. Really??
Like you're comparing men and women?
Probably you think men and women are the same ...

1. Oya let's play this comparison game...
A woman can be broke and wretched and yet she'll go through life without any societal backlash, but if a man is broke and wretched, he'll be called names...

You lie mister. . Even the broke ladies are called broke. How can you say someone male/female would be broke and wretched and wouldn't go through societal backlash

this is a lie

Y'all make it feel like we ladies are having it easy

A woman can be a jobless wife, no issues, but if a man loses his job at any point in time or if his wife is the one paying the bills, he'll be called names...

Bros easy with this your lies abeg... on this platform alone Ihave read unprintable things you people call ladies that are jobless.. so say something else

Sweetheart...
MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT....
And we don't play by the same set of rules!!


There are things that a woman will do without any backlash, but if a man tries it, he will hear it and vice versa...

So all this one you're talking doesn't hold water at all!! ....

And the only reason why you're triggered is because this is one of those things that doesn't favour your gender ...

@bolded 1
we are all different... even twins do not have the same personalities

@bolded 2
Vice versa there ended the convo (no arguments)

3. Sweetheart, nobody here cares about you, atleast i know that i don't ...
If you disable your account now, I prolly wouldn't even notice it so rest ...

Trash

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You are here defending your gender.... lemme ask you one thing

Why do you guys call ladies evening newspapers?

Candidlady:


1. Read only third paragraph .. threw the rest outta the window

The poster iresponded to was comparing Regina and neds... and my point was,.... without money/affluence that relationship won't work. Hence, my question AS A FATHER WOULD HE GIVE HIS DAUGHTER TO A BROKE OLD MAN?



2. You lie mister. . Even the broke ladies are called broke. How can you say someone male/female would be broke and wretched and wouldn't go through societal backlash

this is a lie

3. Y'all make it feel like we ladies are having it easy


Bros easy with this your lies abeg... on this platform alone Ihave read unprintable things you people call ladies that are jobless.. so say something else


@bolded 1
we are all different... even twins do not have the same personalities

@bolded 2
Vice versa there ended the convo (no arguments)







4. Trash

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5. You are here defending your gender.... lemme ask you one thing

6. Why do you guys call ladies evening newspapers?

1. No wonder ....

2. Lie? Really??
Lemme ask, how often are ladies called "broke" as compared to males?

And besides, if men call a person broke, it's because they are better off than that person, but y'all ladies who call men broke can't even afford sani.tary pad.s without men, so what are we saying ...


3. In some regards, ladies have it SUPER EASY ...

4. Hit a spot here, didn't i ...
Pele o ...

5. My gender? Okay o, lemme keep supporting my "gender" ...

6. Please ask this question to those who use that phrase, I honestly don't know what it means ...

Candidlady:



Ayfr

Iam trying as much as possible not to insult you for that last paragraph of yours

icandidlady will/would never support underage marriage north or no north

Please be guided


Do have a lovely day

Insult? Lol, it's ur normal thing.

Fahvvy:


1. No wonder ....

2. Lie? Really??
Lemme ask, how often are ladies called "broke" as compared to males?

And besides, if men call a person broke, it's because they are better off than that person, but y'all ladies who call men broke can't even afford sani.tary pad.s without men, so what are we saying ...


3. In some regards, ladies have it SUPER EASY ...

4. Hit a spot here, didn't i ...
Pele o ...

5. My gender? Okay o, lemme keep supporting my "gender" ...

6. Please ask this question to those who use that phrase, I honestly don't know what it means ...

2. Where do you guys met all these kinda ladies .. can't afford sanitary pad without men you need to change the circle of ladies you move with


3. What do you mean by in some regards

4. Wish Ihad a spot you could hit...

Do have a lovely Wednesday Fahvvy

Truvelisback:
Insult? Lol, it's ur normal thing.

Whatever yaro

Idonot support underage marriage let it be known

Have a lovely Wednesday Truvelisback

Candidlady:


Whatever yaro

Idonot support underage marriage let it be known

Have a lovely Wednesday Truvelisback

Alright, but it's common among the Northerners.

Candidlady:




2. Where do you guys met all these kinda ladies .. can't afford sanitary pad without men you need to change the circle of ladies you move with


3. What do you mean by in some regards

4. Wish Ihad a spot you could hit...

Do have a lovely Wednesday Fahvvy

You too...

Truvelisback:
Alright, but it's common among the Northerners.

And did idispute that

Moreover it is a global thing just that some chose not to hide it


Again Idonot support underage marriage

Candidlady:



And did idispute that

Moreover it is a global thing just that some chose not to hide it


Again Idonot support underage marriage

Alright, but wait ooo. Why are u now acting like one nice girl in ur comment? Ofcourse, u know u aren't. Abi na whineing or ur previous kind of games?

Truvelisback:
Alright, but wait ooo. Why are u now acting like one nice girl in ur comment? Ofcourse, u know u aren't. Abi na whineing or ur previous kind of games?

How do you mean acting nice

Iabhor men don't mean Iam a MEAN person

Candidlady:



How do you mean acting nice

Iabhor men don't mean Iam a MEAN person

Lol, u abhor men for what reason?