I brought it here on nairaland last week about me and my girlfriend situation who got pregnant for me.
However, the issue on ground now she has refused to abort and I have persuaded her but she refused, she said she's scared.
This girl is my perfect taste, fvcking beautiful, nice ass and all that she's 18+ and I am very okay as a guy money couldn't be my problem. But my problem is her family I can't afford to raise a kid in that family.
Her mom is fvcking careless and wayward doesn't care, her mom is greedy, she likes guys with rides approach her daughters. i met this girl when me and my guy went to buy alcoholic drinks from her mom shop, immediately I sighted her I got attracted to her because of her calmness and beauty. Her mom was so hospitable when we were there I never thought na eyes service she dey dey do so i got captivated by that love and I collected her daughter's number. First day her mom was asking me if I was the one that parked that car there I was like ahhh what's wrong, this woman is so materialistic, I come dey feel na mom convinced her to get pregnant for me. Though I love this girl she's so young and innocent and she loves me but my problem is her family and there's no how all the daughters won't take after their mom.
Even one of her sisters has already taken after their mom as Yoruba adage says "Owu iya lōmō ngbòn". I just don't feel it's alright to raise kid in this shitty family.

Right now I'm thinking of inviting her over and force her to take pills but she has refused to visit me since cos she sense what I'm going to do.

Somebody advice me

You rode her raw... Now the probable result has shown and you wanna risk her life in trying to clear your mess. Allow that baby to grow. Pregnancy isn't even a precondition to marriage.

You want to commit murder and you haver the guts to come out to seek public opinion, are you normal? There's always a reward for carelessness and this is your own reward,so enjoy it.

Hmmmm.

It was sweeting you but now paining you?

thunder fire you there,you want to force her to take pills shameless dog,come on be a man take responsibility

nobody knows tomorrow. Might be ur only child in the future. Shit happens and i have seen many scenarios like that play out. If the girl is down with u like u are with her, why not wife her. Not all daughters are cool with thier mothers wayward behaviours. Sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her. Diamonds comes with rough edges.

Welcome to fatherhood...
If you love her, wife her amd forget about her mother

Let her keep the baby, turn her to a baby mama.

Oga, you need punching, smacking and slamming.
When you were ramming, did you inform us?
When you locked the door, windows and turned on the music, while banging, it was in secret.
When GOD now answer the prayers of all that stress, you want our opinion to damage it.

It is your cross, carry it.

That baby must not die.

And if you don't want the baby, DM me, I'll raise it as mine.

And I just went through your previous post, which shows she is a virgin until you deflowered her.

Bro, don't dump that girl.

Pls don't insult this guy, just reset how he thinks.
They won't insult you, bcoz I have made them to understand that all the mentioned red flag were not in ur mind when u were doing it raw, and they understand that anybody can forget anything.
Pẹ̀lẹ́

Crazychris:
I brought it here on nairaland last week about me and my girlfriend situation who got pregnant for me.
However, the issue on ground now she has refused to abort and I have persuaded her but she refused, she said she's scared.
This girl is my perfect taste, fvcking beautiful, nice ass and all that she's 18+ and I am very okay as a guy money couldn't be my problem. But my problem is her family I can't afford to raise a kid in that family.
Her mom is fvcking careless and wayward doesn't care, her mom is greedy, she likes guys with rides approach her daughters. i met this girl when me and my guy went to buy alcoholic drinks from her mom shop, immediately I sighted her I got attracted to her because of her calmness and beauty. Her mom was so hospitable when we were there I never thought na eyes service she dey dey do so i got captivated by that love and I collected her daughter's number. First day her mom was asking me if I was the one that parked that car there I was like ahhh what's wrong, this woman is so materialistic, I come dey feel na mom convinced her to get pregnant for me. Though I love this girl she's so young and innocent and she loves me but my problem is her family and there's no how all the daughters won't take after their mom.
Even one of her sisters has already taken after their mom as Yoruba adage says "Owu iya lōmō ngbòn". I just don't feel it's alright to raise kid in this shitty family.

Right now I'm thinking of inviting her over and force her to take pills but she has refused to visit me since cos she sense what I'm going to do.

Somebody advice me

My lil advice:
Buy baby clothes now before it becomes more expensive


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

You ain't a father figure.. the amount of fvck alone in your write up says alot. Look at you castigating the family telling the whole world how messed someone else's family is

if your family had trained you well ibet you won't have written all those trash.

iwonder what ladies see in these things called men

I feel your pain, bro. You should have looked before you knacked. Same thing happened to my brother and the bro is still bearing the brunt till now. Indeed, òwú ìyá gbòn...

Candidlady:



You ain't a father figure.. the amount of fvck alone in your write up says alot. Look at you castigating the family telling the whole world how messed someone else's family is

if your family had trained you well ibet you won't have written all those trash.

iwonder what ladies see in these things called men

I bet you didn't read all what I wrote up there

Why are you wailing now?

Didn’t you see the signs before you slept with her?

You Men ehn, it’s like your semen block your senses.

This one doesn't know
That if she abort and something goes wrong, you, and the person who you bought the drugs for are going to jail for a very long time....
Guy if you like her marry her
If you don't let her give birth simple and start paying child support

She is 18 so you can control her with a firm Hand. Don't start that young girl down the road to abortions. If you force her to kill your baby, its on YOU. not her wayward mom, YOU!
marry her, take her out of her mothers influence and groom her into the sort of lady you want to spend your life with and one day, you will look back at the time you almost made her kill your beautiful kid and you will shake your head.

Bro, let me be very honest with you.
The family you marry from is equally important as the girl you marry .
90% chances are that she will pick after her mother especially if she was the one that single-handedly raised her( single mother). If there’s a perfect way to convince her and take her to a competent doctor to remove the pregnancy then please do. But if you’re not able to do that , just chill till she delivers. By this time, you would have known much about the girl and her family , if they’re good and MANAGEABLE, run DNA then go ahead and wife her. If they’re not manageable, please collect your pikin or pay her child support.


Next time , don’t fail to use contraception, you can buy put for house, the moment you cum inside, you must ensure she uses the pill. See, sometimes if I don’t have the pill , I will over mumu for the girl till I come back from pharmacy and she swallow it then I switch back to myself , I know raw sex Dey sweet, nobody likes sweet with nylon but then you should know the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.

Person never marry from such family, e Dey get problems, what if you come marry from there.
Please save yourself from eternal depression. Cheers

Why can't your family help raise the baby since you have issues with her family?

And you said money is not an issue, haven't you heard of nannies before

Crazychris:
I brought it here on nairaland last week about me and my girlfriend situation who got pregnant for me.
However, the issue on ground now she has refused to abort and I have persuaded her but she refused, she said she's scared.
This girl is my perfect taste, fvcking beautiful, nice ass and all that she's 18+ and I am very okay as a guy money couldn't be my problem. But my problem is her family I can't afford to raise a kid in that family.
Her mom is fvcking careless and wayward doesn't care, her mom is greedy, she likes guys with rides approach her daughters. i met this girl when me and my guy went to buy alcoholic drinks from her mom shop, immediately I sighted her I got attracted to her because of her calmness and beauty. Her mom was so hospitable when we were there I never thought na eyes service she dey dey do so i got captivated by that love and I collected her daughter's number. First day her mom was asking me if I was the one that parked that car there I was like ahhh what's wrong, this woman is so materialistic, I come dey feel na mom convinced her to get pregnant for me. Though I love this girl she's so young and innocent and she loves me but my problem is her family and there's no how all the daughters won't take after their mom.
Even one of her sisters has already taken after their mom as Yoruba adage says "Owu iya lōmō ngbòn". I just don't feel it's alright to raise kid in this shitty family.

Right now I'm thinking of inviting her over and force her to take pills but she has refused to visit me since cos she sense what I'm going to do.

Somebody advice me

crazychris, the points you raised ain't enough reason not to marry her.

If she is going to live with you then those reasons you brought up won't fly.

You mentioned her good points which is good.

I will advise you to carry on with her but draw a line concerning her mom..... but what I see here is that mother wants her daughter to suffer.

Or you get a nanny or let your family raise the kid. It's unacceptable to blame her for the perceived flaws of her mom. She ain't her mom

If she ain't promiscuous.......

It's a goal for you.

seanwilliam:
Bro, let me be very honest with you.
The family you marry from is equally important as the girl you marry .
90% chances are that she will pick after her mother especially if she was the one that single-handedly raised her( single mother). If there’s a perfect way to convince her and take her to a competent doctor to remove the pregnancy then please do. But if you’re not able to do that , just chill till she delivers. By this time, you would have known much about the girl and her family , if they’re good and MANAGEABLE, run DNA then go ahead and wife her. If they’re not manageable, please collect your pikin or pay her child support.


Next time , don’t fail to use contraception, you can buy put for house, the moment you cum inside, you must ensure she uses the pill. See, sometimes if I don’t have the pill , I will over mumu for the girl till I come back from pharmacy and she swallow it then I switch back to myself , I know raw sex Dey sweet, nobody likes sweet with nylon but then you should know the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.

Person never marry from such family, e Dey get problems, what if you come marry from there.
Please save yourself from eternal depression. Cheers

Yes that's what I'm even thinking bro but the issue now is, she has refused to visit me since cos she sensed I'm going to force her to abort

Crazychris:
I brought it here on nairaland last week about me and my girlfriend situation who got pregnant for me.
However, the issue on ground now she has refused to abort and I have persuaded her but she refused, she said she's scared.
This girl is my perfect taste, fvcking beautiful, nice ass and all that she's 18+ and I am very okay as a guy money couldn't be my problem. But my problem is her family I can't afford to raise a kid in that family.
Her mom is fvcking careless and wayward doesn't care, her mom is greedy, she likes guys with rides approach her daughters. i met this girl when me and my guy went to buy alcoholic drinks from her mom shop, immediately I sighted her I got attracted to her because of her calmness and beauty. Her mom was so hospitable when we were there I never thought na eyes service she dey dey do so i got captivated by that love and I collected her daughter's number. First day her mom was asking me if I was the one that parked that car there I was like ahhh what's wrong, this woman is so materialistic, I come dey feel na mom convinced her to get pregnant for me. Though I love this girl she's so young and innocent and she loves me but my problem is her family and there's no how all the daughters won't take after their mom.
Even one of her sisters has already taken after their mom as Yoruba adage says "Owu iya lōmō ngbòn". I just don't feel it's alright to raise kid in this shitty family.

Right now I'm thinking of inviting her over and force her to take pills but she has refused to visit me since cos she sense what I'm going to do.

Somebody advice me

lucky you! People don do that thing for 10-20 years no results.go and do the needfuls.carry ur wife far from them, educate and train her.happy family!!!

Bunnybee:
Why are you wailing now?

Didn’t you see the signs before you slept with her?

You Men ehn, it’s like your semen block your senses.

Damn too harsh!
Take it easy

Crazychris:
I brought it here on nairaland last week about me and my girlfriend situation who got pregnant for me.
However, the issue on ground now she has refused to abort and I have persuaded her but she refused, she said she's scared.
This girl is my perfect taste, fvcking beautiful, nice ass and all that she's 18+ and I am very okay as a guy money couldn't be my problem. But my problem is her family I can't afford to raise a kid in that family.
Her mom is fvcking careless and wayward doesn't care, her mom is greedy, she likes guys with rides approach her daughters. i met this girl when me and my guy went to buy alcoholic drinks from her mom shop, immediately I sighted her I got attracted to her because of her calmness and beauty. Her mom was so hospitable when we were there I never thought na eyes service she dey dey do so i got captivated by that love and I collected her daughter's number. First day her mom was asking me if I was the one that parked that car there I was like ahhh what's wrong, this woman is so materialistic, I come dey feel na mom convinced her to get pregnant for me. Though I love this girl she's so young and innocent and she loves me but my problem is her family and there's no how all the daughters won't take after their mom.
Even one of her sisters has already taken after their mom as Yoruba adage says "Owu iya lōmō ngbòn". I just don't feel it's alright to raise kid in this shitty family.

Right now I'm thinking of inviting her over and force her to take pills but she has refused to visit me since cos she sense what I'm going to do.

Somebody advice me

It's prolly one of her lil' messy hatin'-ass friends bein' evil
I ain't stressin' 'bout it, she'll come around when she wanna eat it up

Crazychris:
I brought it here on nairaland last week about me and my girlfriend situation who got pregnant for me.
However, the issue on ground now she has refused to abort and I have persuaded her but she refused, she said she's scared.
This girl is my perfect taste, fvcking beautiful, nice ass and all that she's 18+ and I am very okay as a guy money couldn't be my problem. But my problem is her family I can't afford to raise a kid in that family.
Her mom is fvcking careless and wayward doesn't care, her mom is greedy, she likes guys with rides approach her daughters. i met this girl when me and my guy went to buy alcoholic drinks from her mom shop, immediately I sighted her I got attracted to her because of her calmness and beauty. Her mom was so hospitable when we were there I never thought na eyes service she dey dey do so i got captivated by that love and I collected her daughter's number. First day her mom was asking me if I was the one that parked that car there I was like ahhh what's wrong, this woman is so materialistic, I come dey feel na mom convinced her to get pregnant for me. Though I love this girl she's so young and innocent and she loves me but my problem is her family and there's no how all the daughters won't take after their mom.
Even one of her sisters has already taken after their mom as Yoruba adage says "Owu iya lōmō ngbòn". I just don't feel it's alright to raise kid in this shitty family.

Right now I'm thinking of inviting her over and force her to take pills but she has refused to visit me since cos she sense what I'm going to do.

Somebody advice me

Please do not pressure her to have an abortion. You can gently tell her how you feel about her pregnancy and being a father but don't force your opinion on her. The decision to abort or not is one that only she can make. The truth is as a man, you don't really have that much of a say in it. If you knew you didn't want a child then you should have been more responsible about sex by using condoms and made sure she was on some form of contraceptive. Now it's too late so if she wants to have the baby you should just take responsibility and support the it. After all you did say money isn't a problem for you.

Next time use a condom, e no cost

First of all, u said the girl is your kind of girl, what stops u from allowing her have the baby and train the child under your roof.

u have clearly said money is not your problem, then allow her stay in your house and the both of u play your role and Mom and Dad to that innocent child

Bring her to u house and mould the perfect character u want, u never know u might later love the girl and decide to pay for her head as your wife

Just an advice though

Samantha123:
Why can't your family help raise the baby since you have issues with her family?

And you said money is not an issue, haven't you heard of nannies before

ah family, I don't even have mom or grandma again, my mom just died of recent only my dad remain if my mom still dey she would have raised the kid herself. But concerning nannies, do you really think it's right someone who you barely know someone that's not your family raising your kid for you?

There are some professional nannies who are good at what they do.

But if you feel uncomfortable leaving the baby all alone with the nanny, you can install some cameras in the house to keep an eye on her while you guys are not around.

Crazychris:
ah family, I don't even have mom or grandma again, my mom just died of recent only my dad remain if my mom still dey she would have raised the kid herself. But concerning nannies, do you really think it's right someone who you barely know someone that's not your family raising your kid for you?