Quite frequently, we read about the woman making efforts to have a good and peaceful marriage. Even the Bible says: 'A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands' - Prov. 14:1.

But this is for you, the man. And if you think it's about feminism, you're not likely to get the point.

When there's a call for prayers, we see the number of women that attend; when there's a call for marriage seminar, we see the number of women that turn up! Whatever happened to our men?�

This 'I am a man' syndrome is fast spreading and causing serious issues. Yes, we know and understand that you're the man, and by nature, God made you a leader. But you can either remain there (as the leader) or drop down.

There is nothing evil or demeaning in listening to a woman's correction, preaching or teaching, absolutely nothing! It doesn't bite neither does it make you less of a man.�

One of the major issues with the man is our mothers. The use of the parlance "it is following you to your husband's house" has caused more damage than good. We are no longer in the era where anything is 'following anybody'. Mothers should also do well to tell the man "you are bringing someone into your own house, is this how you will treat her?

Even though a wise woman is expected to build her home, there's need for a wise man to protect 'the builder'. If you don't treasure this builder and make her feel secured physically and spiritually, you will end up frustrating the builder (wise woman) and might damage some, if not all the 'building materials'.�

You don't even know you're such man, right? Check out these symptoms to see if you have any. You should go for 'treatment' if you do.

1. Pride: I cannot say sorry to her even when I am wrong, I'm a man. When you start using that line, it is pride! There's no way I can be with her in the kitchen or assist her with laundry, no way, I'm a man!

2. Commitment: How do you expect me to be committed to a woman? Women are not to be trusted, yet you want her to be submissive? If you want a submissive woman, be a committed man! Thinking it is her work to make the marriage work is a problem.

3. Ungodly attitudes: I'm a man, I can date different ladies, it doesn't matter because it's a man's world. Real men aren't polygamous in nature, they're faithful in nature. Do you even know or love God?

How can you want a lady with enough wife material to sew Agbada when the husband material in you cannot sew an ordinary bow-tie? Be who you want as partner! Flirting around doesn't make you a man, being a player, drinking or having nonchalant attitudes do not either.

Some of these symptoms also include being a dictator, being adamant to correction, ego, dishonesty, stinginess, insecurity. Being a male doesn't make you a man, real men are not selfish, they see and treat others well and they are Christ centered.

If these symptoms persist for more than 3 days, you should visit your doctor. ✌️

Women initiate divorce in marriage the most, and not to forget women cheat the most.
When are you going to advice your fellow women and hold them accountable?