Aareakinwunmi:
Do has you deem fit

TooMuchJuice:
You can't change adults, unfortunately.

Since you know this is how she is,
either reduce the amount of things you share with her,
or stop telling her things completely.

Fisiryorh:
I wish to take drastic actions like cutting her off(not completely but eating with her with a verrryy long spoon)..for example, telling her about my marriage (if I do get married Sha oo) 24hrs to the event..if she like make she come, if she like make she no come.I DON TIRE...
Please oh, my country people. Make Una drop me some advice (matured and sensible advice/s coz this issue Don activate my dragon mode and any mistalk sé, u go collect)....I'm quarter to lossing it all towards my mother...

budaatum:
Your problem is you never learn, and you are irresponsible, or you wouldn't continue to tell your secrets to a person you know would leak them.

Can you not see that you yourself can not keep your own secrets, yet want others to keep your secrets for you?

One day, not keeping your own secrets will cost you so much that you'd eventually learn to keep your own secrets.

Helpout12345:
You don't have a problem. Believe me. Though you didn't mention the specific things she leaked out.

Just don't tell her what you intend to keep as secrets.

Do NOT cut her off or over react. She is your mother and above all, a woman. Many women cannot keep secrets.

Kobojunkie:
I don't have the same problem with my own mother so why again do you assume your issue with your own mother somehow is the issue I also have with my own mother? Why in the world are you trying to make your problem our problem as if we all have leaky-mouth like you obviously do as well?

Whatever you decide to do in your relationship with your own mother is your own business, not mine.

Kajaard:
Learn to keep your secrets to yourself. There is a reason they are called SECRETS.

She is your mum and you know her faults so I believe you already have an answer.

Fisiryorh:

It is my fault that u don't have an honest relationship with Ur mother?...

Kobojunkie:
I don't have the same problem with my own mother so why again do you assume your issue with your own mother somehow is the issue I also have with my own mother? Why in the world are you trying to make your problem our problem as if we all have leaky-mouth like you obviously do as well?

Whatever you decide to do in your relationship with your own mother is your own business, not mine.

budaatum:


I wonder if you started this thread to complain about my mother leaking your secrets to her housemaid.

Was it my mother you were talking about when you wrote, "the main problem is that this woman CANNOT just keep her mouth shut..she cannot in anyway keep a secret which is terrible as a mother"?

Was it my mother that you "have screamed, shouted, quarlled, qouted pages of the Holy Books to her about guarding secrets but all I get is "YOUNG MAN, SHUT UP.. I'M YOUR MOTHER AND I KNOW IT ALL"?

Was it my mother that you wrote was "too hard headed"?

Was it my mother that you "wish to take drastic actions like cutting her off(not completely but eating with her with a verrryy long spoon)..for example"?

Is it my mother that you are confused about or your own mother?

As I said, you refuse to learn and are irresponsible, and I'm now adding that you like telling yourself lies.

Fisiryorh:


Alaye, carry your smelling mouth go follow Ur mama talk oh...

Termite..

budaatum:


I feel you. Truth hurts some people.

Fisiryorh:


Lol...Mr truth sayer...
The truth u have said has increased Ur bank account Abi?..

Geeraraahere child...

budaatum:


As in, made me have 2 bank accounts instead of one?

Don't mind child me. If I had not opened a thread to complain that your mouth leaks to my mother your secret would have been kept by me.

Fisiryorh:


Dumb dumb.... keep on trolling Ur mother okay..I'm done with u...

Bird brain...

Fisiryorh:
Good day folks.

I'm not here to dis mother's(especially mine) but them too get wahala (especially mine)..

Over the years, I have had issues where I sit down and discuss with my mom about it.the main problem is that this woman CANNOT just keep her mouth shut..she cannot in anyway keep a secret which is terrible as a mother.

I resorted to telling her only the nessecities and even with abeg abeg, the woman would still leak it..to make matters worst, she can discuss secrets with anybody including a house maid(I'm telling you,it's that bad)..

I have screamed, shouted, quarlled, qouted pages of the Holy Books to her about guarding secrets but all I get is "YOUNG MAN, SHUT UP.. I'M YOUR MOTHER AND I KNOW IT ALL"... she's too hard headed (Yes,her ITK too much...imagine her claiming omniscience as a mere mortal that she is)..I have done this for over 15years with no change from her and I am tirrrrrreeddddd....

I wish to take drastic actions like cutting her off(not completely but eating with her with a verrryy long spoon)..for example, telling her about my marriage (if I do get married Sha oo) 24hrs to the event..if she like make she come, if she like make she no come.I DON TIRE...

Please oh, my country people. Make Una drop me some advice (matured and sensible advice/s coz this issue Don activate my dragon mode and any mistalk sé, u go collect)....I'm quarter to lossing it all towards my mother...

Thanking ya'll...

Cc: lalasticlala

frozen70:


You know what

Just respect yourself by avoiding any confrontational issues with your mother

If you are leaving with her and seeing all those nonsense, then pack out honorably

If you tell her secrets and she leaks them, then she doesn't need to know about it

Tell her things only when you know that you have concluded that plan and doesn't need her input both words and finance

Dont even let her notice your withdrawal from her

budaatum:


I wonder if you started this thread to complain about my mother leaking your secrets to her housemaid.

Was it my mother you were talking about when you wrote, "the main problem is that this woman CANNOT just keep her mouth shut..she cannot in anyway keep a secret which is terrible as a mother"?

Was it my mother that you "have screamed, shouted, quarlled, qouted pages of the Holy Books to her about guarding secrets but all I get is "YOUNG MAN, SHUT UP.. I'M YOUR MOTHER AND I KNOW IT ALL"?

Was it my mother that you wrote was "too hard headed"?

Was it my mother that you "wish to take drastic actions like cutting her off(not completely but eating with her with a verrryy long spoon)..for example"?

Is it my mother that you are confused about or your own mother?

As I said, you refuse to learn and are irresponsible, and I'm now adding that you like telling yourself lies.

Fisiryorh:


Bless you...