Hi Nairalanders,

I have been hoping to ask this question in response to different posts about men or women not willing to commit in a relationship without sex.

https://www.nairaland.com/7387136/relationship-survive-without-sex

I then asked men around if they would be willing to commit to NO SEX in a relationship either during normal relationship or the ones on the condition that it will only happen after marriage but quite a number of them asked the rhetoric question of whether a woman too can commit to a relationship without much financial commitment from the man or perhaps a split bill.

What's your take on this?

cc: MODS

No one wants to marry a broke nigga.

Definitely Not if the male is the broke one

NO,a relationship can never survive without money.

Look at them broke shaming niggas.

Reason most men don’t stay faithful to their spouses when they finally make it out of trenches.

virginprincess:
NO,a relationship can never survive without money.

So can we say money is the only lifeline of a relationship? What about other aspects? Our forefathers survive without these MONIES

Moony45:
So can we say money is the only lifeline of a relationship?

No,it isn't only money but you and i know money is very important not only relationship but in every aspect of our life.

Base on assumption it will survival but, in reality capital NO it won't. Don't fool yourself oo

yyba:
Base on assumption it will survival but, in reality capital NO it won't. Don't fool yourself oo

Then we can say the concept of a relationship is give and take

So before the relationship you mean to say the lady was not taking caring herself right?

Moony45:
So can we say money is the only lifeline of a relationship? What about other aspects? Our forefathers survive without these MONIES

Next time don't refer to forefathers era we are in a new era

This question is meant for a lady who is lazy and broke;and for a man who wants to date her

Medianna:
So before the relationship you mean to say the lady was not taking caring herself right?

Awesome question here...
If she can take care of herself before the relationship, then she should be able to take care of herself DURING the relationship too! And not turn someone's son into an ATM ...

And let's be real here...
The major reason why most women go into a relationship is MONEY and the major reason why most men go into a relationship is S.EX...

So if the woman is getting what she wants (a man to spend on her), why can't the man also get what he wants too?

Seeing that a relationship is supposed to be "mutual" and not parasitic, will it be fair if only one party is benefiting from the relationship and the other isn't? ...

Virginprincess is there saying "money is very important in a relationship" and by money, she means a man's money...

Because in well over 95% of relationships, it's the man who is doing the spending and not the woman...

And what's worse is that, the man isn't getting ANY VALUE that is commensurate with what he's spending...

And by value here, I mean, Respect, support, acceptance, great advice, loyalty etc..

But rather, what he gets is headaches, billing, unnecessary drama and childish behavior ...

So in summary...
If you expect a man to spend on you (and he has been doing so), then you should also be willing to grace his bed just as often...

And let's do a quick reversal here...
If you grace a man's bed as frequently as he wants...

If you respect him and you're loyal to him...

If you're giving him what he wants and you're meeting his needs...

And he doesn't take care of you...

He doesn't spend on you or meet your own needs, will you still be in that relationship?

I guess not ...

So why then will you expect a man to just be in a se.xless relationship with a woman who doesn't meet his own needs when he meets hers!!!!

So if the woman is not a virgin...
If the woman makes incessant demands...
If the woman doesn't reciprocate value...

NO MAN SHOULD BE IN A SE.XLESS RELATIONSHIP WITH HER ...

Nope
Love doesn’t pay bills.
You can’t eat love
You can’t sleep under a love house
You can’t wear love clothes or drive a vehicle paid with love.
You can’t even survive dating a girl without money talkless of a relationship.

Moony45:
So can we say money is the only lifeline of a relationship? What about other aspects? Our forefathers survive without these MONIES

Says who ! It wasn’t the ideal way to live knowing your creditors could take the shirt off your back in a blink of an eye.

All parasites parading themselves as daughters of eve. Aside sex, what do women offer? Then, sex is damn overrated.
I hv being asking myself dis question, is their any special thing in sex?

LoveTalk:
No one wants to marry a broke nigga.

Lmfao No one wants to have anything to do with a broke b!tch looking for who will take her out of poverty. Talk more of marriage

virginprincess:
NO,a relationship can never survive without money.

But it can survive without sex abi. Lmfao

PerfectStranger:
Look at them broke shaming niggas.

Reason most men don’t stay faithful to their spouses when they finally make it out of trenches.

How you wanna stay faithful where all them hoes wanna do is have their own share of your affluence? Why you stuck with one hoe when your money can fetch you a bunch in a sec. No naw

No biitch will stay faithful if you broke. So why stay faithful when you are made? No naw

Personally i dey fear relationship this days.
Almost everyone is becoming selfish

Fahvvy:


Awesome question here...
If she can take care of herself before the relationship, then she should be able to take care of herself DURING the relationship too! And not turn someone's son into an ATM ...

And let's be real here...
The major reason why most women go into a relationship is MONEY and the major reason why most men go into a relationship is S.EX...

So if the woman is getting what she wants (a man to spend on her), why can't the man also get what he wants too?

Seeing that a relationship is supposed to be "mutual" and not parasitic, will it be fair if only one party is benefiting from the relationship and the other isn't? ...

Virginprincess is there saying "money is very important in a relationship" and by money, she means a man's money...

Because in well over 95% of relationships, it's the man who is doing the spending and not the woman...

And what's worse is that, the man isn't getting ANY VALUE that is commensurate with what he's spending...

And by value here, I mean, Respect, support, acceptance, great advice, loyalty etc..

But rather, what he gets is headaches, billing, unnecessary drama and childish behavior ...

So in summary...
If you expect a man to spend on you (and he has been doing so), then you should also be willing to grace his bed just as often...

And let's do a quick reversal here...
If you grace a man's bed as frequently as he wants...

If you respect him and you're loyal to him...

If you're giving him what he wants and you're meeting his needs...

And he doesn't take care of you...

He doesn't spend on you or meet your own needs, will you still be in that relationship?

I guess not ...

So why then will you expect a man to just be in a se.xless relationship with a woman who doesn't meet his own needs when he meets hers!!!!

So if the woman is not a virgin...
If the woman makes incessant demands...
If the woman doesn't reciprocate value...

NO MAN SHOULD BE IN A SE.XLESS RELATIONSHIP WITH HER ...

Fahvvy:


Awesome question here...
If she can take care of herself before the relationship, then she should be able to take care of herself DURING the relationship too! And not turn someone's son into an ATM ...

And let's be real here...
The major reason why most women go into a relationship is MONEY and the major reason why most men go into a relationship is S.EX...

So if the woman is getting what she wants (a man to spend on her), why can't the man also get what he wants too?

Seeing that a relationship is supposed to be "mutual" and not parasitic, will it be fair if only one party is benefiting from the relationship and the other isn't? ...

Virginprincess is there saying "money is very important in a relationship" and by money, she means a man's money...

Because in well over 95% of relationships, it's the man who is doing the spending and not the woman...

And what's worse is that, the man isn't getting ANY VALUE that is commensurate with what he's spending...

And by value here, I mean, Respect, support, acceptance, great advice, loyalty etc..

But rather, what he gets is headaches, billing, unnecessary drama and childish behavior ...

So in summary...
If you expect a man to spend on you (and he has been doing so), then you should also be willing to grace his bed just as often...

And let's do a quick reversal here...
If you grace a man's bed as frequently as he wants...

If you respect him and you're loyal to him...

If you're giving him what he wants and you're meeting his needs...

And he doesn't take care of you...

He doesn't spend on you or meet your own needs, will you still be in that relationship?

I guess not ...

So why then will you expect a man to just be in a se.xless relationship with a woman who doesn't meet his own needs when he meets hers!!!!

So if the woman is not a virgin...
If the woman makes incessant demands...
If the woman doesn't reciprocate value...

NO MAN SHOULD BE IN A SE.XLESS RELATIONSHIP WITH HER ...

Interesting take