Mama T I can't do it, I can't face them, they will laugh at me, they know my story yenyenyen...

And so? You heard that right, and so? To be honest, no one has the right to judge you. People may have heard your stories, and they may think they know you, but they can’t feel what you are going through; they aren’t living YOUR life.

As long as you are not where you used to be and have settled with God, biko live your life and fulfil purpose.

Forget what they think and say about you, focus on how God feels and how you feel about yourself, and keep walking the path that feels best under your feet (in tune with God, BTW).

If someone calls you something and it’s not true, it’s not your problem. What matters is what you call yourself, and who you decide to become.

I was called several names you can think of, I am not what they called me, I am who God calls me and that is why I can tell you this.

Christians, Church leaders and members, please resist the urge to point (accusing) fingers or be judgmental. If it matters so much to you, pray for the person, don't go about spreading rumours!

Raise your head up, pick up your life. Let God use your mess as a message.

T for tainks