Why are people fapping?

Because.. well it's a Good feeling. Your brain releases Dopamine, Too Much Dopamine.

Is this Dopamine healthy and good for you? No, not at all. And that's the funny thing.
If you are bored, sitting in the Bus you can play the most boring and fucke.d up game and still be entertained, that's because your dopamine level is so low that every smallest thing giving a bit more dopamine is interesting for you.

And now ask yourself, what do you want in life?
And what helps you more, having high dopamine or low dopamine -standards?

Dopamine is everything, Dopamine is the thing that brought the human race to the place it is now. Dopamine is the strongest Weapon, evolution did to maintain life.

And now the question is do you want to have this energy against, or for you?

The natural way to release semen is through sex, not masturbation. If you build up an excess, your body will release it while you sleep.
No Fap is more about the mental effects and psychological health benefits to not watching porn or indulging yourself instead of seeking real intimacy.
So, Rewire your brain to ejaculate in the natural way.

If you disagree with my assertions, can you try If you can complete a 30 to 90-day challenge then you're free to choose to fap or not in your life.


Feel free to share your thoughts.

Pornography, especially in guys, The brain is a Learning Prediction Machine. And if your brain learns to be aroused by watching other people have sex, it is not necessarily going to carry over to the ability to get aroused when you are one on one with somebody else, I’m not saying Pornography as a stimulus is bad or good.
What I’m saying is, in its availability and its extreme forms, It’s a Very Potent Stimulus. And a Very Potent Stimuli of any kind, extremely palatable food, extreme pornography, extreme experiences like bungee cord jumping.
Those set a threshold for Dopamine release, The Higher the Dopamine Peak, the Bigger the Drop afterwards, And it’s not that you drop to the Baseline, you Drop Below the Baseline.
The Crash that comes afterwards feels painful, and all that we need to do in order to return to a Baseline of Dopamine, renew that resource, is to wait and make sure we don’t try and trigger yet more Dopamine in that time.

Interesting thread. Most porn addict don't listen until its too late.

Maynman:

The natural way to release semen is through sex, not masturbation.

I don't understand what you mean. What is unnatural about masturbation?

Nice and educative thread

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LordReed:


I don't understand what you mean. What is unnatural about masturbation?

What’s masturbation?

Maynman:


What’s masturbation?

Please don't do the answer question with question thing. Answer my question then ask me a question.

LordReed:


Please don't do the answer question with question thing. Answer my question then ask me a question.

The definition of masturbation already shows it’s not a natural way of releasing semen.

Maynman:

The definition of masturbation already shows it’s not a natural way of releasing semen.

It's not different from penetrative sex. The sensations are the same except of course it's more intense in masturbation and they both are done by body parts so I don't see what is unnatural about it. Granted the dopamine hit is faster and provides a relatively instant release, that still doesn't mean it is unnatural. Even animals masturbate so it is strange to me to call it unnatural.

LordReed:


It's not different from penetrative sex. The sensations are the same except of course it's more intense in masturbation and they both are done by body parts so I don't see what is unnatural about it. Granted the dopamine hit is faster and provides a relatively instant release, that still doesn't mean it is unnatural. Even animals masturbate so it is strange to me to call it unnatural.

Self pleasure is not the same as sex with another person. Your body knows the difference and releases different chemicals in reaction to it.

LordReed:


I don't understand what you mean. What is unnatural about masturbation?

Watch this video by Jordan Peterson and Andrew Hubermann. They talked about the negative effects of releasing dopamine via masturbation.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GbCnr4gBjE

spartan117:

Watch this video by Jordan Peterson and Andrew Hubermann. They talked about the negative effects of releasing dopamine via masturbation.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GbCnr4gBjE

So?

Maynman:


Self pleasure is not the same as sex with another person. Your body knows the difference and releases different chemicals in reaction to it.

Really? What chemicals are released during penetrative sex that are not released during masturbation? Or vice versa.

LordReed:


Really? What chemicals are released during penetrative sex that are not released during masturbation? Or vice versa.

Masturbating and having sex feels the same to you?

LordReed:


So?

Nothing.

Stop watching po*n
Stop jerking off
Stop pleasing yourself
Your hands is not the same as the good wet pussy

You deserve a good wet pussy from a real girl

Porn women are professional actors

Porn teaching you to be a spectator

Everybody get choice but chose Nice things

spartan117:

Nothing.

Ok.

Maynman:


Masturbating and having sex feels the same to you?

Answer my question first.

LordReed:


Answer my question first.

You still haven’t given me the definition of masturbation, and earlier you said “ masturbation Is not different from penetrative sex. The sensations are the same except of course it's more intense in masturbation” Really?
Self pleasure gives more sensation than real sex?

Maynman:


You still haven’t given me the definition of masturbation, and earlier you said “ masturbation Is not different from penetrative sex. The sensations are the same except of course it's more intense in masturbation” Really?

Masturbation is the stimulation of the genitals with the hand for sexual pleasure. What makes this different from penetrative is only in the exact manner in which sexual pleasure is achieved, in this case hand as opposed to rubbing it within the vaginal canal. The mechanism is the same, the sensation is the same, the outcome is the same.

You claimed there is a difference in released chemicals tell us what the difference is.

LordReed:


Masturbation is the stimulation of the genitals with the hand for sexual pleasure. What makes this different from penetrative is only in the exact manner in which sexual pleasure is achieved, in this case hand as opposed to rubbing it within the vaginal canal. The mechanism is the same, the sensation is the same, the outcome is the same.

You claimed there is a difference in released chemicals tell us what the difference is.

How is Vaginal canal the same with the hand?
How is it the same mechanism and sensation ?

You claimed masturbation has more sensation than real sex, please tell us how you arrived at that.

Maynman:

How is Vaginal canal the same with the hand?

You claimed masturbation has more sensation than real sex, please tell us how you arrived at that.

LoLz! I said this:

What makes this different from penetrative is only in the exact manner in which sexual pleasure is achieved, in this case hand as opposed to rubbing it within the vaginal canal.

Clearly showing that they are not the same.

Read what I wrote properly:

The sensations are the same except of course it's more intense in masturbation.

Can you now tell me the difference in chemicals released.

LordReed:


LoLz! I said this:

What makes this different from penetrative is only in the exact manner in which sexual pleasure is achieved, in this case hand as opposed to rubbing it within the vaginal canal.

Clearly showing that they are not the same.

Read what I wrote properly:

The sensations are the same except of course it's more intense in masturbation.

Can you now tell me the difference in chemicals released.

It goes more than the “exact manner” sir.
Vaginal canal is very much different from hand. It feels different and it gives different results.
Masturbation is not SEX!.
This statement is very wrong from you “ The mechanism is the same, the sensation is the same, the outcome is the same.”

How is the sensation more intense in masturbation than actual real sex?

Lol the “intense” is the problem in my statement.

Maynman:

It goes more than the “exact manner” sir.
Vaginal canal is very much different from hand. It feels different and it gives different results.
Masturbation is not SEX!.
This statement is very wrong from you “ The mechanism is the same, the sensation is the same, the outcome is the same.”

How is the sensation more intense in masturbation than actual real sex?

Lol the “intense” is the problem in my statement.

Still waiting for you to tell me the difference in chemicals released.

LordReed:


Still waiting for you to tell me the difference in chemicals released.

Vaginal canal and hand; “The mechanism is the same, the sensation is the same, the outcome is the same.”
Lol

Maynman:

Vaginal canal and hand; “The mechanism is the same, the sensation is the same, the outcome is the same.”
Lol

LoLz. So you have no answer. Bwahahahahaha.

LordReed:


LoLz. So you have no answer. Bwahahahahaha.

Yes I don’t.
Vaginal canal and hand; “The mechanism is the same, the sensation is the same, the outcome is the same.”
Bwahahahah

Maynman:


Yes I don’t.
Vaginal canal and hand; “The mechanism is the same, the sensation is the same, the outcome is the same.”
Bwahahahah

Yet you can't say what the difference is. Just articulate exactly what the difference in sensation, mechanism and outcome is between masturbation and penetrative sex.

LordReed:


Yet you can't say what the difference is. Just articulate exactly what the difference in sensation, mechanism and outcome is between masturbation and penetrative sex.

There’s no difference between hand and vaginal canal, understood sir.

Sometimes, some of you guys say things you have no knowledge of just because you want to become a talker.
You guys say things you have no knowledge about and if I may ask you so called specialist of none jerking off topics, what do you know about “jerking off” & it’s medical implications?

Maynman:


There’s no difference between hand and vaginal canal, understood sir.

Where did I say that?

My question is quite simple: tell us the difference in mechanism, sensation and outcome between achieving sexual pleasure via masturbation versus via penetrative sex.

Omen100:
Sometimes, some of you guys say things you have no knowledge of just because you want to become a talker.
You guys say things you have no knowledge about and if I may ask you so called specialist of none jerking off topics, what do you know about “jerking off” & it’s medical implications?

What do you know of the medical implications?