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Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Towncrier007(m): 2:48pm On Oct 21, 2022
If you have been having financial challenges,you put in deliberate and strategic plans into making money and you still do not get results,then my brother you need to change everything with and around you,change your mindset for better, change your circle,even gf or bf,give them chance for a while,this is the reason....

Some people's energies do not match with yours,even God had to seperate Joseph from his brothers to bless him,and God also seperated Abraham from his father's land


Work on these things and inform no one about your next move,even your achievement do not make it known,then watch you win queitly

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by HyperCoaster: 4:17pm On Oct 21, 2022
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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by marlow1962(m): 5:14pm On Oct 21, 2022
Normally. But to me, I will say “cut of the useless ones in your life”
Ppl dy enter ppl life for 3 reasons
1=to make u move higher in life.
2=to make you stagnant in life.
3=to finish you completely in life.
It’s better to have 2 beneficial contacts , than to have 500 useless ppl (ppl wer u no dy benefit anything from, yes some ppl are like dat, dem dy answer friend just fr friendship sake, nothing reasonable in them)e

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by okoroemeka(m): 5:34pm On Oct 21, 2022
Towncrier007:
If you have been having financial challenges,you put in deliberate and strategic plans into making money and you still do not get results,then my brother you need to change everything with and around you,change your mindset for better, change your circle,even gf or bf,give them chance for a while,this is the reason....

Some people's energies do not match with yours,even God had to seperate Joseph from his brothers to bless him,and God also seperated Abraham from his father's land


Work on these things and inform no one about your next move,even your achievement do not make it known,then watch you win queitly
if you are having financial problems and still have friends then the problem has not yet reached critical level because if it is you will not see anybody beside you

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 21, 2022
Real talk

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Yxxx: 7:21pm On Oct 21, 2022
Towncrier007:
If you have been having financial challenges,you put in deliberate and strategic plans into making money and you still do not get results,then my brother you need to change everything with and around you,change your mindset for better, change your circle,even gf or bf,give them chance for a while,this is the reason....

Some people's energies do not match with yours,even God had to seperate Joseph from his brothers to bless him,and God also seperated Abraham from his father's land


Work on these things and inform no one about your next move,even your achievement do not make it known,then watch you win queitly

If the person is a spouse nko?
Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Tommymoses(m): 9:02pm On Oct 21, 2022
Let me shared some of my personal experiences about this topic..

I was struggling in Lagos state, even though my salary then was 55k plus fedding allowance coz I was working as a private driver.

To feed myself became problems nor to talk of sending money to my parents, my fiance shishi I no dey give her.

The only hope I get is I learn fashion stuff, non of my friends help my situation even my boss at work can't even support my career, I summons courage and said I want to leave Lagos to another state, ppl were saying no place can be like Lagos.

I left Lagos to another state, I thank God I made that drastic desition. Today though the road is not that smooth but I thank God for everything.
Till this moment non of my friend knew my precise location...

"If you want to move fast in life don't have friends"

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Divay22(f): 9:11pm On Oct 21, 2022
Tommymoses:
Let me shared some of my personal experiences about this topic..

I was struggling in Lagos state, even though my salary then was 55k plus fedding allowance coz I was working as a private driver.

To feed myself became problems nor to talk of sending money to my parents, my fiance shishi I no dey give her.

The only hope I get is I learn fashion stuff, non of my friends help my situation even my boss at work can't even support my career, I summons courage and said I want to leave Lagos to another state, ppl were saying no place can be like Lagos.

I left Lagos to another state, I thank God I made that drastic desition. Today though the road is not that smooth but I thank God for everything.
Till this moment non of my friend knew my precise location...

"If you want to move fast in life don't have friends"

Everyone need a friend or friends..
Just make sure they add something to your life..
Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Delight2014(m): 9:16pm On Oct 21, 2022
So nice

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Tommymoses(m): 9:22pm On Oct 21, 2022
Divay22:
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Everyone need a friend or friends..
Just make sure they add something to your life..
If you've being through thick and thin you would understand the phrase "bi oji bami loun"

(if you wake up meet me there)

I'll still repeat it, "if you know you want to go far in life don't keep friend"

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Towncrier007(m): 10:40pm On Oct 21, 2022
Yxxx:


If the person is a spouse nko?

Give them some space for the main time... The both energies may not match, this might result to backwardness of one
Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Towncrier007(m): 10:42pm On Oct 21, 2022
Divay22:
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Everyone need a friend or friends..
Just make sure they add something to your life..

Keep them afar, because of the energies of some people,life is spiritual
Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Streetmovement(m): 11:04pm On Oct 21, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

The only difference is when you're not making friends with people who can impact your life with good....

*People who don't want your progress
*People who see you as competition

Having a friend doesn't necessarily mean he must give you money anytime you're down, okay what if your friend doesn't have money? Does that make him a bad friend?

Friends who are there for you when times are hard and support you even when it's good and still want you to grow further, will you now Tag them bad friends because at a point in your life when you was down they couldn't provide you with the material help you needed? Forgetting that they are the ones who was there mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally....

What's your take on the above

And note you can still stay on your own even with all your hustle and still be broke as hell

Op I'm not disagreeing with what you said but know that shit works differently for everybody, I know sometime there are roads you need to take alone no family, no friends, just you and God, Been there done that but you can't just tell somebody to quit on everybody they know cuz you feel in a certain way it brings bad luck to em unless everybody the know is against him or her not progressing and you can't simply tell me that everybody you know or knew never wanted or want you to succeed.

I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from.

Peace

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Towncrier007(m): 7:37am On Oct 22, 2022
Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously cool speaking

The only difference is when you're not making friends with people who can impact your life with good....

*People who don't want your progress
*People who see you as competition

Having a friend doesn't necessarily mean he must give you money anytime you're down, okay what if your friend doesn't have money? Does that make him a bad friend?

Friends who are there for you when times are hard and support you even when it's good and still want you to grow further, will you now Tag them bad friends because at a point in your life when you was down they couldn't provide you with the material help you needed? Forgetting that they are the ones who was there mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally....

What's your take on the above

And note you can still stay on your own even with all your hustle and still be broke as hell

Op I'm not disagreeing with what you said but know that shit works differently for everybody, I know sometime there are roads you need to take alone no family, no friends, just you and God, Been there done that but you can't just tell somebody to quit on everybody they know cuz you feel in a certain way it brings bad luck to em unless everybody the know is against him or her not progressing and you can't simply tell me that everybody you know or knew never wanted or want you to succeed.

I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from.

Peace


First of all,you should not have a friend because if what they have to offer.... That's not true friendship, that's been manipulative,and secondly... the good book says that I shall bless anyone that blesses you and curse anyone that curses you,this means if you associate with a bless man then you shall be blessed,how do u know if a man is bless or not? You can't tell because the blessings ain't about the money or physical things u see,or will you say a ritualist is blessed ? Absolutely NO!!!

Things are not going well with you and you can't tell what's actually wrong,just clear up the whole field,and let the universe has it's space to enrich your pace.

Be alone with God... Remember Jesus out of all his disciples only John comes a bit close to Him.

Be friendly with everyone,but be careful of those you get close
Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by Streetmovement(m): 7:53am On Oct 22, 2022
Towncrier007:



First of all,you should not have a friend because if what they have to offer.... That's not true friendship, that's been manipulative,and secondly... the good book says that I shall bless anyone that blesses you and curse anyone that curses you,this means if you associate with a bless man then you shall be blessed,how do u know if a man is bless or not? You can't tell because the blessings ain't about the money or physical things u see,or will you say a ritualist is blessed ? Absolutely NO!!!

Things are not going well with you and you can't tell what's actually wrong,just clear up the whole field,and let the universe has it's space to enrich your pace.

Be alone with God... Remember Jesus out of all his disciples only John comes a bit close to Him.

Be friendly with everyone,but be careful of those you get close

Wotoporiously cool Speaking

Then we on the same page

Friendship should not be birth with the idea that you gonna gain somin' from it

Be careful who you hang with and who you call your blood.

Experience is the best teacher...

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Re: Cut Off Everyone You Roll With When You Experience Financial Challenges by ibechris(m): 10:57am On Oct 22, 2022
Tommymoses:
Let me shared some of my personal experiences about this topic..

I was struggling in Lagos state, even though my salary then was 55k plus fedding allowance coz I was working as a private driver.

To feed myself became problems nor to talk of sending money to my parents, my fiance shishi I no dey give her.

The only hope I get is I learn fashion stuff, non of my friends help my situation even my boss at work can't even support my career, I summons courage and said I want to leave Lagos to another state, ppl were saying no place can be like Lagos.

I left Lagos to another state, I thank God I made that drastic desition. Today though the road is not that smooth but I thank God for everything.
Till this moment non of my friend knew my precise location...

"If you want to move fast in life don't have friends"




"If you want to move fast in life don't have friends"

This is the best advise I have ever heard on this platform.

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