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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by thuxzwda1: 12:29pm On Nov 11, 2022
VeryWickedGoat:


1. You be worwor mgbeke
2. Thought you women claim to be good advisers? grin grin
3. You need a big prick to calm you down this period

DM me.


She has a big dick doing a very good work already...she's just looking for excuses to let go of the man

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by OgaDeyVex: 12:30pm On Nov 11, 2022
No Be Small Thing ooooo
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by baghera: 12:31pm On Nov 11, 2022
Show us you but blurr out the face!!!!!
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by raphroye: 12:32pm On Nov 11, 2022
I'll comment when I hear his own side of the story. Till then, I'll keep reading comments
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Reference(m): 12:32pm On Nov 11, 2022
Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

Godless homes, Godless lives.... just pain afer pain after pain...

You can have everything else, but that which matters most, peace....

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Versal: 12:33pm On Nov 11, 2022
Life2020:


I can't kick him out of a house I built with my own money, a land I brought in my own name

And please am a dark beauty, thank u very much
Hope u have a nice day
If only you've not had children. Smh!
Send those children 'away'. Be single again. Fine love. Live and enjoy your life.
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Terror48: 12:34pm On Nov 11, 2022
Shalommy:
Chaii.. Maybe that man is a nairalander. They have nothing to offer than sex.
You go collect soon

Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by deavicky(m): 12:34pm On Nov 11, 2022
Utespy:
Wahala.
I wish all you wrote is true. If yes, then move on.
I would have advised you to make amendments, but with another child from a woman outside is a NO.

Move on dear. Enjoy life while it lasts.
technical adviser!!!! Wait till u wear the shoe before u open ur mouth to talk watin go put u for trouble.
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by ransomed: 12:35pm On Nov 11, 2022
Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

OP, you are the one prolonging issue, allow him to do the needful by wearing him raincoat, thereafter, take the stuff to a competent lab for full analysis.
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by dazzlingd(m): 12:36pm On Nov 11, 2022
Rubbiish:

Are u sure u can do the bold?
It is not as easy as u think
Going by ur write up, u guys were young & really had nothing when he married u, saying he got married to u because of money is out of it.

The guy was young and foolish and married for wrong reasons, obviously he doesnt love the girl and he regrets marrying her, the bros has no choice and he has to keep hanging on and waking up to a woman he doesnt find attractive, the guy is definitely going through a lot of psychological pain.
It is advisable for guys to be properly matured before getting married.

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by goodheart01: 12:36pm On Nov 11, 2022
Jovialjune1:



And so what? Is it a crime? Didn't you read where she said the horseband has a child outside? Why the hell wouldn't she look for a brand new prick?

Get out abeg. See the way she carry am for head. All these vile bitter nairaland girls without manner

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Centurion101: 12:37pm On Nov 11, 2022
Okay
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by MrFly(m): 12:38pm On Nov 11, 2022
Long epistle....
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by nkwuocha: 12:39pm On Nov 11, 2022
Divorce him please.
Else he kills you and take your properties.

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Ireportlive: 12:39pm On Nov 11, 2022
Na big man dey worry your husband... He is comfortable next thing is to misbehave

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by greatermeme: 12:39pm On Nov 11, 2022
Shalommy:
Chaii.. Maybe that man is a nairalander. They have nothing to offer than sex.
angry
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by ignatiuschinedu(m): 12:39pm On Nov 11, 2022
Trust me I feel your pains,but truth be told nothing happened for nothing.firstly, you said you got married to him at an advanced age that alone need to explain to you the was an issue before you settle down with him
Secondly,I want you to look at it beyond human eyes,wish you could check the spiritual aspect of your life before marriage and during marriage before taking decision of kicking him out of the home.madam,I don't know you but my ernest advice is for you to seek the face of God to know the cause of the issue in your marriage....you can call me for further explanation 08054964699
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by IMPARTIAL: 12:40pm On Nov 11, 2022
What do you mean by kicking him out? To stay somewhere else? Divorce?

If you tell him to stay out, you are kind. Maybe you think he will change in the future.

If it's divorce, you are not to be blamed. Although divorce is not encouraged by the word of God, it is still ok if you divorce him because it is caused by infidelity. This is the only divorce supported by Jesus Christ. You can confirm this from the book of Matthew.

If I were you sha, and if I am sure I won't marry someone else, I will tell him to leave finally without the divorce. I can arrange for him to see his children without ever coming to my house. If he is coming, my family or close friends must be around. But if I am sure I will get married again, I will divorce him.

No be your fault.
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Sagamite(m): 12:41pm On Nov 11, 2022
Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

You selected a useless man.

It is good you are ending your mistake.

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by timiade446(m): 12:41pm On Nov 11, 2022
When she finally kicks him out grin

Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by charlesdinho7(m): 12:41pm On Nov 11, 2022
why not just forget about your husband foolishness and concentrate on your business and girls. believe me, your husband will regret his actions one day...

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by ponyonm: 12:41pm On Nov 11, 2022
Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

I am a man and if all you said is correct, pls kick the idiot out of your house. You don't deserve such an irresponsible being around you. Staying married is not by force most especially, when you're married to a complete idiot.

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Tegabadguy(m): 12:41pm On Nov 11, 2022
Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.
sending him parking
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by tiswell(m): 12:41pm On Nov 11, 2022
Jovialjune1:



And so what? Is it a crime? Didn't you read where she said the horseband has a child outside? Why the hell wouldn't she look for a brand new prick?
you are yet a very much young woman, issues like this big pass you sad

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Nobody: 12:42pm On Nov 11, 2022
A problem shared is half solved they say, but what are your true motives?

Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Spirit247: 12:42pm On Nov 11, 2022
You took the wrongest Decision. Why do people pretend as if they don't know that most of family-shattering problems are Spiritual, is what I don't understand. Simply going to MFM Church to do a 3 Days Dry Fasting Deliverance Prayer for your Husband would have Destroyed that Bewitchment that wants casted him away so that your Daughters would be easy preys. You better Receive him back quickly and then go for MFM Deliverance Prayer on his behalf. You will see the good Man that I AM THAT I AM Created him to be manifest forever if you pay the simple price of Prayer in Love for him.
Life2020:
Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.

The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.

The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.

Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.

Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.

I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.

Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.

Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids

Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy
little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.

I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos
honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by ngadaAwo: 12:43pm On Nov 11, 2022
Ireportlive:
Na big man dey worry your husband... He is comfortable next thing is to misbehave
shatap what do you know
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by Nobody: 12:43pm On Nov 11, 2022
goodheart01:


Get out abeg. See the way she carry am for head. All these vile bitter nairaland girls without manner

Dem sick perverted hoes.

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Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by goodheart01: 12:44pm On Nov 11, 2022
quentin06:


Dem sick perverted hoes.

Aswear bruh
Re: I'm Finally Kicking My Husband Out Of My House. Enough Is Enough by nkwuocha: 12:44pm On Nov 11, 2022
Life2020:


I can't kick him out of a house I built with my own money, a land I brought in my own name

And please am a dark beauty, thank u very much
Hope u have a nice day

If you don't leave that marriage now, you will definitely regret it later.

Build your life,divorce him please.

Go back to school.
There are so many divorced men, widowed men who are well to do and can start life all over married.
You Nigerian ladies should stop living a do die marriage life.

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