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My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Finnbaloroficia: 2:31am On Nov 14, 2022
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by bugatti02(m): 3:04am On Nov 14, 2022
Above all things na sex matter you carry for head.... if she enjoy an or not that should not be a problem. She go still cheat when time comes.... well-done. Sex kid.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Tzar91: 3:17am On Nov 14, 2022
Mtchew

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Nobody: 3:34am On Nov 14, 2022
Either she doesn't love you or was molested sexually as a child
Dump her now before she serves you breakfast

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Christiansimon: 3:48am On Nov 14, 2022
Guy That Hole Is Not For Kids Oh, even if u can't feel her pains try studying what breaking of virginity mean. is like someone using blade to cut your skin into two.so now u have done it,next time u want it, put her in the mood first and ask for her permission,don't just satisfy yourself alone,satisfy her too. "myownpointofviewnosimp"

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Munzy14(m): 5:35am On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.
You can't judge if she likes sex or not now..

She loves you for her to tell you it was painful and she didn't enjoy it..Of course she won't for now.

Currently, she needs the love you have for her more now. The petting, pampering, words of affirmation and tender care. Infact everything you know that please her about you, must come in handy now.

In summary she needs your assurance and re-assueance now.
This will help her navigate this stage.

And next time you make love, be very gentle and take time with pre-intimacy, explore her fantasies and don't rush to penetration please.
If need be, use approved lubricant (Kygel). To reduce friction.
Put her satisfaction first, before yours.

With time, na you go run cheesy when she becomes more confident and comfortable around you..sex may become regula and very enjoyable.

But don't ever run..Being her first man, you guys are tied...Unless she decided to leave the relationship on her own.

Wishing you both more love and strength.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Chloraseptic: 6:40am On Nov 14, 2022
She was a virgin, do you expect her to start reveling in joy of the dick or praising your djck game so you can begin to doubt if she's a virgin.

Even some legendary girls in sex matter still feign displeasure whenever they had sex but only to keep forcing their way back to the same djck that presumably gave them pain instead of pleasure.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Nostring: 7:08am On Nov 14, 2022
Oga go buy lube... No dey use saliva undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by aisha1314(f): 7:19am On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.

You said she was a virgin so that's probably why she didn't enjoy it that much. Just give her some time. If she said it hurt then maybe try using some lube (water based though) next time.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Zonefree(m): 7:23am On Nov 14, 2022
Where you waka go see a virgin Nigerian girl? God dey really ordain your footsteps, obviously

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by jamesversion: 8:14am On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.

How old is she??

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by dawnomike(m): 8:37am On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.
Wait till you are married... and next tjme, get a lubricant

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Natbrowny: 8:50am On Nov 14, 2022
Zonefree:
Where you waka go see a virgin Nigerian girl? God dey really ordain your footsteps, obviously


grin as funny as this is ehn. Walai dem dey. Once crushed on one razz babe like dis. She later gree. Omo the mooorf*cker na v-boot. Her skin like milk, smells nice.

I later pop d cherry. Vrigins na stress sha. She said she started acting razz when people always disrespect her coz she was too gentle.. Dat she got tired of insults n disrespect.

Same naija u see some so called razz gals say shit all d time even in public but in private dem fear pass chicken.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by motionarena: 8:56am On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.
Your diick is too small to satisfy her.

Pass your GF to me she will be coming back for after I dickmatize her

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Finnbaloroficia: 9:16am On Nov 14, 2022
motionarena:

Your diick is too small to satisfy her.

Pass your GF to me she will be coming back for after I dickmatize her
Something that is pain her and you are talking about being small, are you okay?

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by SirJerrie(m): 9:38am On Nov 14, 2022
She does.
Na you no sabi fork!!!

When next she come, focus more on pre-intimacy/pre-intimacy more... make it about her... forget about cummiing
if her body responds as it should, then na you no sabi fork!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by AbujaCitiBlog: 11:40am On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.
She is a Lesbian. Dump her now.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by KingMack(m): 11:48am On Nov 14, 2022
Christiansimon:
Guy That Hole Is Not For Kids Oh, even if u can't feel her pains try studying what breaking of virginity mean. is like someone using blade to cut your skin into two.so now u have done it,next time u want it, put her in the mood first and ask for her permission,don't just satisfy yourself alone,satisfy her too. "myownpointofviewnosimp"


Chair na Chair!!!! grin grin grin

Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Christiansimon: 12:00pm On Nov 14, 2022
KingMack:


Chair na Chair!!!! grin grin grin
grin grin cool cool
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Sammy07: 12:01pm On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.

She's a virgin na. You don't expect her to enjoy it at first
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Starboytwo(m): 3:45pm On Nov 14, 2022
Just don’t get her pregnant pls.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by BentizilL: 6:16pm On Nov 14, 2022
Zonefree:
Where you waka go see a virgin Nigerian girl? God dey really ordain your footsteps, obviously
Bro virgin plenty in Nigeria o, he dey shock me sef.. grin
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by TinubuShet(m): 6:59pm On Nov 14, 2022
Bro na so e dey be for fargin at a start, by time she will have more libido than you, for now be thrusting gently and buy aphrodisiacs for her

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by talk2hb1(m): 8:02pm On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.
Maybe She is Frigid
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by frozen70(f): 8:16pm On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.

*Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy*

You did not teach her enough about sex and you expect her to enjoy some thing she just started with you

You have to go back and play it right this time around

You can't be good at pre intimacy and she didn't enjoy it

How come
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Finnbaloroficia: 8:31pm On Nov 14, 2022
TinubuShet:
Bro na so e dey be for fargin at a start, by time she will have more libido than you, for now be thrusting gently and buy aphrodisiacs for her
What is aphrodisiacs?
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by Finnbaloroficia: 8:32pm On Nov 14, 2022
frozen70:


*Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy*

You did not teach her enough about sex and you expect her to enjoy some thing she just started with you

You have to go back and play it right this time around

You can't be good at pre intimacy and she didn't enjoy it

How come
Not like she didn't enjoy it, but it was more or pain then pleasure for her. I'm thinking maybe it's due to fear and anxiety undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by frozen70(f): 8:47pm On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:

Not like she didn't enjoy it, but it was more or pain then pleasure for her. I'm thinking maybe it's due to fear and anxiety undecided
Finnbaloroficia:

Not like she didn't enjoy it, but it was more or pain then pleasure for her. I'm thinking maybe it's due to fear and anxiety undecided

For the fact that she is having sex for the first time

You dont expect her not to be paranoid about it

It affects psychologically and it goes with the mindset too

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by wiseone28: 9:24pm On Nov 14, 2022
Finnbaloroficia:
Last month my girlfriend came visiting. She stayed for 1week. During her stay I broke her virginity. We had a lot of sex. Note that I'm very good when it comes to pre-intimacy.

So after her stay, this week we chat I discovered that she didn't enjoy the sex. It was more of pain than pleasure. Please house I want t know if it's the normal thing, because I wasn't happy that she didn't enjoy it.

Was it the normal thing. Is she going to start enjoying it very soon. I'm afraid because I had that some girls do not like sex, they don't enjoy it.

Please experienced people some help me.
Pain is love, so she enjoyed
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Enjoy Sex. by LIVINGICONREBOR: 9:33pm On Nov 14, 2022
Don't fret. it gets "better" and "easy" with time. angry

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