Hello, I’m 23(M) years old, in my final year in one of the federal universities. I lost my dad when I was 14, lost my my mum when I was 3. Dad never remarried. Only have one jnr sibling who’s the only person I actually talk to.


My problem now is I’m depressed and broke. Due to no help from family I was forced into street(yahoo), it was paying before, atleast I was able to sponsor myself from 100lvl-300lvl now everything is hard for me. The school isn’t even helping matters cause I’ve learnt literally nothing, I just block my way through the different levels. I just only realized I have no meaningful relationship (both friendship and girlfriend). I was too busy hustling for money to survive in life. I have no hobbies and no personality. Lately all I think about is money and how to make money, due to my being sickly and not having any skill, the only way I can think of making money if through fraud ( I really want to change this about me)

I have recently developed this fear that after university, I’ll have a very useless and unproductive life. I actually need advice from elderly once here as I have no one to advice me, I’m just living life without purpose.

I actually have more problems I’d like to voice out but society has made me bottle up my emotions as a man. If anyone really wants to advice me or help please I’d really appreciate it.

Ps: had to create this account today, cause I just had to voice out

Op you need to take charge of your life , there are a lot of people you're better than
You went to school and graduated
Dey get people way no see their parents

Forget the thoughts of money , be contented with you have

Learn a skill
It'll help you a lot might be a trade or digital skill


Join a Pentecostal church and be part of their activities
Join a unit there and make friends


Use social media to document your story and connect with people in high places


Shun away from bad influence and friends
You're the average of the people you spend your time with ( make friends with older folks very necessary for your growth )


Money will come eventually
Just focus on a trade or digital skill
You can do this very easily without paying anything


Internet is here to help you
Make use of it and better yourself by adding value to yourself

Strive to be a better person and change your story

There are lots of skills to learn


Tailoring

Mason

Electric engineering

Carpentery

Plumbing

A c repairs

Driving

U can aswell work at a factory to be engaged meaningfully

Stay away from fraud

Passpands:

I have recently developed this fear that after university, I’ll have a very useless and unproductive life. I actually need advice from elderly once here as I have no one to advice me, I’m just living life without purpose.

Na, I never faced this problem. When I was broke and forced on to the streets, I sold eggs and coke to fund me through my secondary education which I concentrated on because I knew that's what would ensure I had a purposeful and productive life.

All I could think of at the time was how to improve my grades in school, so what money I made was spent in buying books instead of paying teachers to pass me for work I never did.

There's a vast difference between a certificate you bought and one you studied for, and it's one you can't hide.

The posters before me have given good advice.

Passpands:
Hello, I’m 23(M) years old, in my final year in one of the federal universities. I lost my dad when I was 14, lost my my mum when I was 3. Dad never remarried. Only have one jnr sibling who’s the only person I actually talk to.


My problem now is I’m depressed and broke. Due to no help from family I was forced into street(yahoo), it was paying before, atleast I was able to sponsor myself from 100lvl-300lvl now everything is hard for me. The school isn’t even helping matters cause I’ve learnt literally nothing, I just block my way through the different levels. I just only realized I have no meaningful relationship (both friendship and girlfriend). I was too busy hustling for money to survive in life. I have no hobbies and no personality. Lately all I think about is money and how to make money, due to my being sickly and not having any skill, the only way I can think of making money if through fraud ( I really want to change this about me)

I have recently developed this fear that after university, I’ll have a very useless and unproductive life. I actually need advice from elderly once here as I have no one to advice me, I’m just living life without purpose.

I actually have more problems I’d like to voice out but society has made me bottle up my emotions as a man. If anyone really wants to advice me or help please I’d really appreciate it.

Ps: had to create this account today, cause I just had to voice out

Use the money to open a mini mart or shop at a good spot
It’s survival of the fittest in Nigeria
You can always employ someone if you don’t want to be tied down to that place

Passpands:
Hello, I’m 23(M) years old, in my final year in one of the federal universities. I lost my dad when I was 14, lost my my mum when I was 3. Dad never remarried. Only have one jnr sibling who’s the only person I actually talk to.


My problem now is I’m depressed and broke. Due to no help from family I was forced into street(yahoo), it was paying before, atleast I was able to sponsor myself from 100lvl-300lvl now everything is hard for me. The school isn’t even helping matters cause I’ve learnt literally nothing, I just block my way through the different levels. I just only realized I have no meaningful relationship (both friendship and girlfriend). I was too busy hustling for money to survive in life. I have no hobbies and no personality. Lately all I think about is money and how to make money, due to my being sickly and not having any skill, the only way I can think of making money if through fraud ( I really want to change this about me)

I have recently developed this fear that after university, I’ll have a very useless and unproductive life. I actually need advice from elderly once here as I have no one to advice me, I’m just living life without purpose.

I actually have more problems I’d like to voice out but society has made me bottle up my emotions as a man. If anyone really wants to advice me or help please I’d really appreciate it.

Ps: had to create this account today, cause I just had to voice out

I give folks advice that work, but guy, the issues you are facing are just too many for me to advice on.
It leans on depressive.

I worry that you are a big target for the forces of darkness that will seek to isolate you, then deal mercilessly with you.

My only advice to you, is that you need to take a walk with Jesus. Two of you need to talk.
I'm not saying you should be religious oo, or start giving your money to church, or suddenly become a good lad or start following prophets.

Just ask him that you would like his guidance.
He'll sort all of this mess out for you. That's his expertise. Do not worry.

esere826:



I give folks advice that work, but guy, the issues you are facing are just too many for me to advice on.
It leans on depressive.

I worry that you are a big target for the forces of darkness that will seek to isolate you, then deal mercilessly with you.

My only advice to you, is that you need to take a walk with Jesus. Two of you need to talk.
I'm not saying you should be religious oo, or start giving your money to church, or suddenly become a good lad or start following prophets.

Just ask him that you would like his guidance.
He'll sort all of this mess out for you. That's his expertise. Do not worry.

You must be an idiot!!

What

@passpands you’ve had a rough life o
Losing your pillars below the age of 18 is no joke

I feel terrible whenever I hear or see youngsters think that happiness and satisfaction in life comes through making money and lots of it as They have always said, when we are industrious in honest Labour and make contentment our watchword we'll always be happy.