Honest question (no disrespect):

As as single guy, would you marry a single mom knowing there’s a lot of young, beautiful women out there without babies?

Would your parents even accept you to bring home a single mum for a wife?

Let's have your opinions guys...

Is single motherhood a crime?
Those other girls wey never born don do numerous abortions. So all of them na the same people. Single mothers are mothers of living children while most single ladies na mothers of dead children. Laslas, both na mothers

Lalami3232:
Is single motherhood a crime?
Those other girls wey never born don do numerous abortions. So all of them na the same people. Single mothers are mothers of living children while most single ladies na mothers of dead children. Laslas, both na mothers

So in a but shell, you can marry her, regardless of d circumstances surrounding her single-motherhood?

Which brings me to the question. What if every chic I ever hit got pregged? I conclude that I would marry based on the ground that she had learnt from her past and not only do we love each other but we are also ready to make it work.

People marry people who have good character teachable attitude and who bring something to the table that is mutually beneficial.

Depending on the circumstances around her being a single mum, YES, I CAN..if she meets the criteria in the first paragraph

Are you ready to deal with the extra baggage?

Are you ready to deal with the fact that there'll always be a third person looming in the corner; the baby's daddy?

Are you aware that there are times when both parents will definitely come together for the sake of their child?

Are you aware that you may never be a priority to her, at least till that child becomes an adult?

mariovito:
Are you ready to deal with the extra baggage?

Are you ready to deal with the fact that there'll always be a third person looming in the corner; the baby's daddy?

Are you aware that there are times when both parents will definitely come together for the sake of their child?

Are you aware that you may never be a priority to her, at least till that child becomes an adult?

Most guys ain't aware that there will and forever be a third party.... Except if the baby's dad is dead...

In fact, the baby's dad is just an apology away...

No reason whatsoever is enough, even if she conceived through rape...

Single mother are the best set of women to marry, at least she has seen it all and they make the best wife

Stephen0mozzy:
People marry people who have good character teachable attitude and who bring something to the table that is mutually beneficial.

Depending on the circumstances around her being a single mum, YES, I CAN..if she meets the criteria in the first paragraph

And you think she's gonna freely and truthfully open up to you the real circumstances behind her single motherhood??

Damn! You should already know that she's gonna play d Victim's Card...

I will only if the father of the child is dead

Why buy Nigeria used car same price with U.S Direct Toks or even With a possible brand new tear rubber.


Seen what all if I may ask? Cos last I check they should have seen it all before settling down. Stop fooling your self

freemanq:
Single mother are the best set of women to marry, at least she has seen it all and they make the best wife

Why would any sane man want a ready made family. A single mum is a failure 99.999% low value women repackaging themselves. You are only needed for utility purposes in exchange for some mediocre punnie.

Only exception may be widows.

Only silly men accept the excuse of "he was abusive", " he was deadbeat dad". Those signs were there when those laps were opening.

I have them all around me, I would not even smash for free.


Baby daddies still smashes this I know, this have seen.

Single men between the age of 35-50 can marry a single mum on two conditions

1. The child bears your name.
2. You have confirmed he/she truly has no father.. Perhaps dead like confirmed dead, if ur wife to be can be truthful enough.

But if the father is still alive, kindly put the child out of your home to avoid problems.

Start a new life without interference of her past in your home.

And If u realize she is not done with her past.

After 2kids with her, disappear with your kids, she will learn sense. Or send her to the man she is cheating with.

Some women can be that careless anyways.

I can't.

Promzy99:
Honest question (no disrespect):

As as single guy, would you marry a single mom knowing there’s a lot of young, beautiful women out there without babies?

Would your parents even accept you to bring home a single mum for a wife?

Let's have your opinions guys...

But the yaro who made her a single mum can freely go ahead to marry anyone he likes ba?

Same way you guys say "and na person go still marry this olosho"

Forgetting say na still person go marry that man that patronise em oloshos

Hypocrites

Candidlady:



But the yaro who made her a single mum can freely go ahead to marry anyone he likes ba?

Same way you guys say "and na person go still marry this olosho"

Forgetting say na still person go marry that man that patronise em oloshos

Hypocrites

You r not a guy... You shouldn't be here...
Anyways, the moment u realize that d life of a man is far different from that of a woman, the better n best for u..

freemanq:
Single mother are the best set of women to marry, at least she has seen it all and they make the best wife

Like the way you would literally prefer a Nigerian fairly used car to a brand new car, huh??

Don't learn the hard way bro...

Promzy99:


You r not a guy... You shouldn't be here...

You shoulda placed a restriction on your thread then
Nonsense

Anyways, the moment u realize that d life of a man is far different from that of a woman, the better n best for u..

Kindly elaborate..

Since I was born,I never watch any football match wey dem start with 1:0......I never see am....And I will never be an advocate of it,nor a partaker of it........

freemanq:
Single mother are the best set of women to marry, at least she has seen it all and they make the best wife

. . To die with one leg for up just dey hungry you

Promzy99:


And you think she's gonna freely and truthfully open up to you the real circumstances behind her single motherhood??

Damn! You should already know that she's gonna play d Victim's Card...

I'm talking as someone who is not dumb. Only dumb people will fall for victim cards

Except she's extraordinary beautiful, and with money .....if not nooo, broke hungry mothers are even worse than the regular hungry naija girls

Candidlady:


You shoulda placed a restriction on your thread then
Nonsense




Kindly elaborate..

Will you go for a car that has 100 mileage or a car that has never been driven before. The more partners a woman has the less attractive she becomes. Man and woman are not the same. Women need us more than we need them. If all men shld leave earth for 2weeks we will come back seeing dead bodies littered everywhere. Tell me 5 major inventions women have made. The truth is women selling point is sex remove sex and see how many guys will be in a relationship

I can't. That would be the least thing in my mind.

He'll nope, I will not... My family still suffering the collosal mistake my dad made some years ago. Note my mum is the best she loved us and lived my Dad. But she placed my half brother ahead if us ... Because he was the first before us and my father accepted him as his own child but later betrayed my father and his own mum. Ruined family business, ran away with landed properties, my dad gave him money to buy land in his name, rather he went bought land in his name, enjoyed most part of the money from family business we were left to struggle despite been the fact we are legal children of my Dad.
Biko I will never try it in this life... Blood is ticker than water...
Never will I even advice my children to try it... I have seen alot of single ladies interested in me but I have learnt that their focus is on their child, most will show you fake love to rope you into falling inlove with you and in the end bring their baggage into the relationship, their bills, child's bill and they will demand 100% commitment from you as if you owe them alot. Men I won't want any one to go through the experience we went through.... Except God is leading you and specific about this person... Avoid them...
How about the one the ex will be having sex with them on constant bases... I have dated one like that.... Always giving it to the ex...
I have to ex her too...
Single mother's ... For me is a no no

Trailblazer93:

Will you go for a car that has 100 mileage or a car that has never been driven before. The more partners a woman has the less attractive she becomes. Man and woman are not the same. Women need us more than we need them. If all men shld leave earth for 2weeks we will come back seeing dead bodies littered everywhere. Tell me 5 major inventions women have made. The truth is women selling point is sex remove sex and see how many guys will be in a relationship

you are obviously wrong and she is right!!! If you face 10% of what single women go through you go just commit suicide!!!

Now let me ask you this, if you become a single father tomorrow will you not also love to get married to young Virgin despite the circumstances?

We are all humans abeg!! Nobody is greater!!!

Then for your own information women owns this Earth and not men

I can marry a decent single mum, someone who gave birth in her formal marriage and got divorced.

Lalami3232:

Single mothers are mothers of living children while most single ladies na mothers of dead children. Laslas, both na mothers

Word.

kepstone:
He'll nope, I will not... My family still suffering the collosal mistake my dad made some years ago. Note my mum is the best she loved us and lived my Dad. But she placed my half brother ahead if us ... Because he was the first before us and my father accepted him as his own child but later betrayed my father and his own mum. Ruined family business, ran away with landed properties, my dad gave him money to buy land in his name, rather he went bought land in his name, enjoyed most part of the money from family business we were left to struggle despite been the fact we are legal children of my Dad.
Biko I will never try it in this life... Blood is ticker than water...
Never will I even advice my children to try it... I have seen alot of single ladies interested in me but I have learnt that their focus is on their child, most will show you fake love to rope you into falling inlove with you and in the end bring their baggage into the relationship, their bills, child's bill and they will demand 100% commitment from you as if you owe them alot. Men I won't want any one to go through the experience we went through.... Except God is leading you and specific about this person... Avoid them...
How about the one the ex will be having sex with them on constant bases... I have dated one like that.... Always giving it to the ex...
I have to ex her too...
Single mother's ... For me is a no no

Your own blood brother can do same thing too between the reason is all weird to you it's because he is your half brother!!!

I have seen worst from Blood relatives man!!!

If you are wise you should ask your father why he choose to settle with a single mother....

Promzy99:
Honest question (no disrespect):

As as single guy, would you marry a single mom knowing there’s a lot of young, beautiful women out there without babies?

Would your parents even accept you to bring home a single mum for a wife?

Let's have your opinions guys...

If the single mother posses what you want in a woman and you believe she truly love you; not pretence. You can marry her.
She got pregnant, has the option to terminate the life of the unborn child or grow a life and she chose life.
For the fact that the man responsible for the pregnancy didn't marry doesn't mean she's the bad one (the guy can also be the bad guy).

There are a lot of single ladies out there with worse past than a single mother.

No offence but this is a senseless question.

If you "know" there are so many single women out there why are you even considering a single mother?

Should be a no-brainer.