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Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Aareona: 4:22pm On Nov 23, 2022
Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Maynman: 4:24pm On Nov 23, 2022
If your savings is 20k, then take 4k from it and come back to Nigeria where it’s fun.

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by SocialJustice: 4:25pm On Nov 23, 2022
Why are you saving money? Educate and build yourself to earn higher abi book dey hard you? Then look for a vocation to get certified in.

Na wa.

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Ologundudu2020: 4:27pm On Nov 23, 2022
You coming from the angel no one understands, pls tell them how bored it is if you don’t have your family around with you.

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Nobody: 4:27pm On Nov 23, 2022
If you feel lonely in Canada, move to other part of the world.

This loneliness in Canada story is getting stale already. Most immigrants dont even make Canada their final destination anymore!

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Nobody: 4:28pm On Nov 23, 2022
Ologundudu2020:
You coming from the angel no one understands, pls tell them how bored it is if you don’t have your family around with you.
Eyah.....

Who send am go there? undecided
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Bksense: 4:31pm On Nov 23, 2022
The "come back to Nigeria na" gang will soon get here. Lemme hang around a bit �

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by advanceDNA: 4:44pm On Nov 23, 2022
Let me reach their first...i want to experience the loneliness.....

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by gaby(m): 4:44pm On Nov 23, 2022
Human wants/needs are indeed insatiable.

Una go complain about Naija, complain about U.S., complain about U.K...so so complain.

Carry dem go heaven dem go still complain say the place too white or the angels clothes as dem depict am to us too bright...haba..

God, nature, and the universe abhors ingratitude and complains to no end.
Why would your savings not perpetually be hovering below the 20k mark when all you see and do is negatives?

Una no understand life and her workings.

You attract what you exhude...logic, but not a simple one to wrap an immature and inexperienced mind around.

Whiners....

Make una get to work and mould your ideal country. We dey wait.

Integration, acclimatization, and adjustment are always foreign to you whiners and negativists.

I hate rubbish.

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by zexy2030(m): 5:00pm On Nov 23, 2022
My dear tour, u r out of this shit hole for good.If I find my way, I don't care about the boredom, I will come over, honestly, naija is free but hostile. Canada is lonely but for creative people. If you are bored, then create a noise from your end. Saved 20k dolls. 10ml equivalent can buy you a house in lekki, ajah, ibeju, even 15k, gradually finish payment, atleast, it's an investment, I can help you, incase you are scared of being frauded, My dear have fun in Canada, visit other countries, tour, I know of one property in Ajah Urban prime, selling fast 80ml currently, with an initial Depo of 11m. You can move in and pay up gradually. With that you know why u r in Canada. Abraham adesanya in Ajah is still safe and affordable for your fun life. Spend your earnings in buying properties in Nigeria. Don't give any one your money. Verify any referral and buy the property directly. Revolution plus too. Many estates with built houses are selling in Abuja and Lagos. Choose one and buy with peace of mind. For the mean time. If you need a company, we are here, choose a friend, you can engage us via our contacts. You don't need to feel bored when there is social media. I'm available sha.
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by zexy2030(m): 5:00pm On Nov 23, 2022
Aareona:
Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine
Pls stay
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Papilagreen: 5:01pm On Nov 23, 2022
My dear I can really relate with u... Going 3 years in america and it wasnt easy.. If u no get family here e get as e be... Come talk more of u make good money and it goes back on bills only good thing about america be say the money I give back u get what u paying for but I can't save little or nothing if u aint smart with billings from leaches back home... Everybody both the one I know and the one I no know wan take from u not knowing if u get... Abeg who wan come here come ooo infact I know peraon wain fit help u relocate to america na ur pocket dey talk.. I will gladly welcome u to this boring life... Come chop food ur ancestors never hear od b4 no salt no pepper...

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by talk2hb1(m): 5:06pm On Nov 23, 2022
Aareona:
Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine
Move To Ontario Canada now
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Starz825(m): 5:10pm On Nov 23, 2022
Na so life be grin

I for really like dey go dey come as regarding this abroad stuff

However, make i reach there first....
Alot of us sef dey bored for this Naija
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by NotBeenPaid: 5:20pm On Nov 23, 2022

You had better come back home and stop whining Mister.

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by womaniser(m): 5:35pm On Nov 23, 2022
I feel your pain brother. The loneliness can kill. Blacks you can't trust, whites on the other hand are so distant. Everyone is Hi and goodbye and social life can be really expensive in comparison to Naija.

Looking at work prospects as well, you can't expect to be rolling in millions except you have a professional job. It's alarming how much tax and rent swallows up that you barely have money left to save not to talk of going on vacation and this manual work we're talking about no easy at all.

What I'll share with you is to just get your paper. At least with that you relocate come naija and Japa anytime you want.

I have friends working in tech companies in Europe. Since they're not needed physically in the office, many relocated to Nigeria, living in Abuja and still earning their Euros.

The cold nko, make I no talk abeg. Just focus on your plans

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Pakwel(m): 5:39pm On Nov 23, 2022
Aareona:
Earlier this year, I went back in time to few years back when I was doing so well in Nigeria. The noises from friends and all nurtured the decision to move abroad inside of me. I became so restless till I finally leave. The first day in Canada was the day I knew this place isn't where I can be forever. Most of us would have come back before the time we had in mind except for the fact that I don't still have enough. If I want to travel to naija for vacation now, I will need up to $4k. If I take that away from my savings, I don't know how I can recover.

No one tells about the downside of this place. I feel lonely, depressed and empty most times. Because no one to talk to, just everyone in my workplace goin about their business. If I make attempt to talk to them, they just waive it with a smile. It's been 3years here and the people I still talk to on video call are friends from Nigeria. It's been 3years and my savings is still Short of $20k despite how much my friends in Nigeria do tell me how easy it is for me to make money abroad but I never tell them my situation. I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good. I know a lot will come at me with the usuall "come back to Nigeria na", please this is not an attempt to denigrate your abroad heaven, just for me to rant out and be fine

Guy. You are a loner. Don't you go to the bar ? Blend in with the locals. Not Nigerians oh. I beg you. Because them go put you for trouble

Me where ever country I have gone to. First I locate a bar.. or liquor store skating , any physical activity centre. That's all I need

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by mrdharkchild(m): 5:53pm On Nov 23, 2022
talk2hb1:

Move To Ontario Canada now
Omo!! Na d same matter we de try solve for here o. Loneliness. The same Nigerian girls crying about loneliness na d same nigerian girl wey go still de form for you in Ontario.
Them too de rate person.

May you die of depression and loneliness my dear, no hard feelings.

Best thing, go back to school, youd make some friends.
Get pregnant and talk to your unborn child.

Nigerian useless girls

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by dabling: 6:02pm On Nov 23, 2022
You don't know how good you have it. I will take the coldness loniness of Canada anytime. You can create your fun. Watch Netflix, go to the gym, join a church group, learn a hobby. Do you how bad Nigeria is??

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Nobody: 6:03pm On Nov 23, 2022
mrdharkchild:

Omo!! Na d same matter we de try solve for here o. Loneliness. The same Nigerian girls crying about loneliness na d same nigerian girl wey go still de form for you in Ontario.
Them too de rate person.

May you die of depression and loneliness my dear, no hard feelings.

Best thing, go back to school, youd make some friends.
Get pregnant and talk to your unborn child.

Nigerian useless girls
You made no sense. None at all!

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by mrdharkchild(m): 6:33pm On Nov 23, 2022
Persephone1:
You made no sense. None at all!

Depending on the angle you chose to gaze on my opinion, maybe.
But from my angle, I fucking made so much sense.

Next time choose a better angle for better view/understanding
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Jokerman(m): 6:37pm On Nov 23, 2022
Lol.... awon government agents
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Latty88(f): 6:37pm On Nov 23, 2022
Since $4k dollars can cover your expenses to visit home why don’t you come at least once in a year? This is way you will be around friends and family.

You can also try dating seriously and considering getting married by becoming active in church and Nigerian associations.

Cheers

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Nobody: 7:01pm On Nov 23, 2022
mrdharkchild:


Depending on the angle you chose to gaze on my opinion, maybe.
But from my angle, I fucking made so much sense.

Next time choose a better angle for better view/understanding
On the contrary no humane or sensible angle would wish anyone depression to death.

Only an inhumane and sadistic angle will support that. It's fine if you want to maintain that.

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Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Cutehector(m): 7:07pm On Nov 23, 2022
Be doing comedy skits na
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by mrdharkchild(m): 7:09pm On Nov 23, 2022
Persephone1:
On the contrary no humane or sensible angle would wish anyone depression to death.

Only an inhumane and sadistic angle will support that. It's fine if you want to maintain that.

Refer back to my perspective theory.
Canada is Lonely and depressing for the OP.
I chose to linger on the negative effect of those Abstracts.
And nothing in the book says you must encourage pr discourage the OP.
I chose to discourage the OP.
And your clearly grilling me for my perspective. U clearly can't define what I think or will think of. So, leave my space.
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Bouncing2(m): 7:11pm On Nov 23, 2022
Wow,,i wish I dey ya shoe oh..


Many things to spend ya time on..
Join tiktok and grab all your fun,,
Don't ever think of coming back to naija!!
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Nobody: 7:12pm On Nov 23, 2022
Persephone1:
It's fine if you want to maintain that.
mrdharkchild:


Refer back to my perspective theory.
Canada is Lonely and depressing for the OP.
I chose to linger on the negative effect of those Abstracts.
And nothing in the book says you must encourage pr discourage the OP.
I chose to discourage the OP.
And your clearly grilling me for my perspective. U clearly can't define what I think or will think of. So, leave my space.
This please, I do not have the intention to drag this any further.
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by InfinityFabric: 7:25pm On Nov 23, 2022
I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good.
Says everyone living like a slave or robot in those failed societies.
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by grandstar(m): 7:30pm On Nov 23, 2022
Aareona

Sadly for you, you obstructed your message by stating you have saved close to $20,000 in 3 years. That is a fortune here in Nigeria. grin grin grin

I know you are just decompressing, letting out steam.

I never wanted to travel but the growing insecurity and frustrating online payments may drive me out. Things should pick up economically next year when Bubu is gone.
Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Tells Me by Aareona: 7:48pm On Nov 23, 2022
Pakwel:


Guy. You are a loner. Don't you go to the bar ? Blend in with the locals. Not Nigerians oh. I beg you. Because them go put you for trouble

Me where ever country I have gone to. First I locate a bar.. or liquor store skating , any physical activity centre. That's all I need

Socializing abroad isn't as easy as most think. Everyone stay indoor here because the weather isn't exactly bearable most of the day

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