jackals:


Just the way a beautiful woman tick all your boxes too. �. If I'm not attractive, he won't look at me twice.

Thanks

jackals:
Met a guy of recent who seem to tick my boxes. He's sound, smart and doing well really financially. Didn't take him serious initially cuz of where he works. Guys that work there always think they're a catch to every woman in Lagos and all that.

We got talking around last month and I've really gone deep and the feelings have started developed. I know he has interest in me. Can tell from the way he talk to me, look at me and always offered to help. But I didn't want to show too much interest for reasons best known to me. At least it's good if he's the one that express his interest first.

He's not saying anything in that direction.

Placed his message on read from Sunday till late Tuesday. I noticed he didn't bother to send any message. Because I check our chats all the time. If he cares he could have thought I'm unwell and call. Replied yesterday and told him I was a bit sick and that's why I didn't reply. He has read my message since yesterday and didn't reply. And WhatsApp show he's online even as I'm writing this.

I learnt my lesson because this is not the first time I'll mistake a man's intention for likeness. I'm usually one that Bleep up sometimes with unnecessary play and drama in relationships. For people that gets a right man, how do they go about not messing thing up?

I know I should not think of calling him, but my brain isn't resting fr. And there is nothing to imply if he even has interest in me.

Pringles101:

You will do well to tick the cum bucket box.

When we want to marry, we know not to do so to a public vagina holder.

kkins25:
Let me advice you from a man's perspective; I see he is doing exactly the same thing i do. As a matter of fact, i can see that it is working.


You mean guys there are cautions of women who may be out to financially exploit them. In this case, i need to ask you,
1) How much impact does his finances have on you. If he were not as financially loaded, would you consider him? He might also see things from this angle, which may be hindering him from chasing after you? Or he could be... see below.

Wrong! You're talking of a financially stable guy who's DMs may be flooded with messages from women hoping to nest in his wealth like maggots after all they are fathered and mothered by "flies"

A confident man, with great job thinks like this "there are many fishes in the water."
So, I advice that you show interest first but subliminally. Be deliberate about the signals you send. When he steers at you, steer back, break it, look down, look back at him, break, act shy, brush your hair a little, smile(the type that makes you look beautiful). Feel the room with that awkward yet sexually tensed aura.

Come, why am i telling you this?


Of course! After watching lots of YouTube, you think he would come groveling at your feet? E na... Not when he's gat dough. He's probably searching for body language from you. I like that you've said below that you're making yourself scarce. Good move, but I can bet one testicle, he'd revenge when you finally say yes.


You're not serious . It's secondary school boys that run into DMs singing "i miss you" when they've not gotten assurance of having you. You're trying to play the game that he has the upper hand at. Na you go check WhatsApp 1 million times. My guy is probably watching world cup grinning. He knows what he's doing. That's his own game plan. Fall for it as most women do.

So did he. You won't die.

Call him. In fact, that's better than replying the message he sent. pick up the convo from there.

Lastly, wear bright colored cloths. Red is a great pick.. Not too heavy make up, that would make you seem desperate. Remember, you're trying to get his hormones to force him to loose his rational mind and shift to his emotional side..

Do not show any signs of Gold digging. I repeat, DO NOT SHOW ANY SIGNS OF GOLD DIGGING.

dazzlingd:


I met this babe at an event, babe is cute and all. The vibes was good and we exchanged contact. I got home and chatted her telling her it was nice meeting her, she didn’t respond. I called her the next day, she didn’t pick up. I noticed she read message, she saw my missed call and she didn’t respond to me. Wtf, does she expect me to keep calling her like 10 times and sending random messages before she responds. I did the needful by deleting her call log and the chat and deleted her number so I’d have no reason to ever make the mistake of chatting her.

Fast forward to one month later, we met again in another event, I didn’t even recognize her like that again because ladies change a lot with different hairstyles and make up. I was with this group of friends and I noticed she kept looking at my direction, later she came close to where I was and was chatting with someone close to me, then I knew she was the same lady, I greeted her and asked if she was Victoria (fake name) she said yes and she saw my message about a month ago. It was cool and told her I lost her contact. We exchanged contact again and after getting home, I thought she would have had sense. I messaged her again and called, she ignored. Then I deleted her number again. After 2 weeks, she chatted me that she wanted to check up, I didn’t even have her number anymore so it took me time to figure out she was the one. I saved the number a 3rd time and thought she had finally had sense. Then I responded to her chat, she ignored, called her again, she ignored again even when she was obviously online. This time I deleted her number for the 3rd time and blocked her number to ensure she will never reach me again. I don’t have time for a hide and seek game like a psycho

jackals:


I know that I'm beautiful, reasonable, marriageable and submissive. Most men respect a woman that has these qualities. I'll find my own man, I only need to work on some of my childish behavior �����

Onolulu:



If OP is sensible, she'll follow this advise.

But come to look at it, do you think she can still find a man as she is? From the look of things, she's probably 35. This particular guy is gone. The guy might not reply his message as he probably gets busy watching world cup after work.

Anunakeeh:


You are a bonafide SIMP.

I usually ask average people out once and that's It.

But for the higher classes, I can do that twice and that's It.

You seems to have scarcity mindset and you are not Valuable enough.

Merch:
You are a simp

dazzlingd:

You can go ahead and dip your head inside cow dung over my story. Thks to nairaland, street boys can open their mouth to claim what they are not. I bet you think I was referring to one hungry girl that wear wig on head looking for one local champion to foot her bills.
When I mentioned an event, your lowly self must have assumed is one wedding or local birthday party where u meet your class of hungry girls u can impress with your toyota Corolla, jeans and iphone.
Most of you talk out of emotions that’s why you don’t have sense. You don’t have the full context of the story, you don’t know when it happened or where, you don’t even know who the girl could be. You just assumed and fill the rest of a story with the village illogical mindset you have. Oponu son of a donkey

Anunakeeh:


Lol I didn't bother to read your well deserved agony and Sifia Pains

My Verdict stands, You are a Bonafide SIMP and Aridin omo Inu Igo

E pain am, Best Mumu of the Century

Enjoy your Humiliation and Sifia Pains Mugun

Bye

ifihearam:


sHUT up

you don Bleep up

simp

Mcslize:
You're supposed to throw the question at men to get a bird eye view of what could be going through his mind too, not just merely asking girls to tell you how they attracted a particular man.

We men want to be loved too, don't you think so? The mistake most of you ladies make is always wanting the man to be the one to make every of the move. It doesn't work like that.

We've gone past that era. Women now make the move order than just waiting for the guy to always be the one doing everything.

I am speaking from the perspective of a grown up man mature to start a family. But you know, ladies are just too lazy to put in the work. If you are waiting for me to be the one to always chat you up every time, call you and do everything, I will ghost you. Cuz I won't see you as a partner I can build anything reasonable with.

That's just my own perspective of girls that always waiting for guys to do everything and make every move.

I will make the move initially, but along the line, I expect you to check after me on your own from time to time. Only then I will see you as a genuine lady I can consider taking things to the next level with.

All ladies should try and learn. Don't always wait for a guy to call you before you call him. We are humans too. We want to be cared for and cherished just as much you ladies want to be cherished.

Please, kindly take note.

@ jackals

dazzlingd:


Can you explain how without sounding like a dog

ifihearam:


I dont blame you...you probably a baby and a rat..please check my handle and when I became a member..it will give you a little glimpse of who I am...you are very rude and arrogant like one who lacks good parental upbringing.

anyways back to you in case of tomorrow....Never forget all women are loosed or desperate IF they like you,. any sign of "hard to get' or ignoring you is a sign they dont even reason you..or if they give you a little attention is because they feel or know they can sap you financially or otherwise..

She raised your hopes and let you down, dragged you in the mud like a baby...When you get to the point of deleting or blocking a girl, NEVER be the first to write or caqll..let her do the technical chasing by writing or calling you first...secondly, try as much as possible to wait at least over 3 to a week before texting or calling a girl that gives you her number because women see any man who shows too much interest and affection as weak, desperate or a simp..

Always get it at the back of your head that she needs you more..afterall, you not chasing beyounce or dangote daughter...these girls are all hungry and ashawo dey their eyes...Dont ever give them room to see you finish...If you are broke, dont chat ot call for a meet up, they will think you are busy and forming hard to get or you are in a serious relationship..its beter that way than see finish.

Now say thank you and never disrespect elders.

ifihearam:


I dont blame you...you probably a baby and a rat..please check my handle and when I became a member..it will give you a little glimpse of who I am...you are very rude and arrogant like one who lacks good parental upbringing.

anyways back to you in case of tomorrow....Never forget all women are loosed or desperate IF they like you,. any sign of "hard to get' or ignoring you is a sign they dont even reason you..or if they give you a little attention is because they feel or know they can sap you financially or otherwise..

She raised your hopes and let you down, dragged you in the mud like a baby...When you get to the point of deleting or blocking a girl, NEVER be the first to write or caqll..let her do the technical chasing by writing or calling you first...secondly, try as much as possible to wait at least over 3 to a week before texting or calling a girl that gives you her number because women see any man who shows too much interest and affection as weak, desperate or a simp..

Always get it at the back of your head that she needs you more..afterall, you not chasing beyounce or dangote daughter...these girls are all hungry and ashawo dey their eyes...Dont ever give them room to see you finish...If you are broke, dont chat ot call for a meet up, they will think you are busy and forming hard to get or you are in a serious relationship..its beter that way than see finish.

Now say thank you and never disrespect elders.

dazzlingd:


I wanted to insult you but I said I should pity you,

You enter faceless forum, reading stories and jumping to make assumptions in your empty head, who send you advice, who send you message. Oga methuselah

Bros, keep.your advice for your kids and grandkids.

Merch:
Instead of you to stfu so you can learn game from alphas here, you are still ranting like a bitch no wonder the girl wasn’t feeling you. tueh! spit on your bald head

Merch:
Boss thank you for schooling that irredeemable simp

Merch:
You are a simp

dazzlingd:


Lol,
The girl was actually interested and I just gave her another chance to be sure she don dey get sense

VeryWickedGoat:


You are extremely stupid to repeat the same process THRICE!
Ah. You dey mad. Na confam mumu u be.

The 2nd one was to prove that she controls you by scoring her 2nd goal over your equalizer that cancelled her 1st goal (which pained her).

She won you 3-1.
You be baba simp.

Zonefree:

She's a foolish girl with ego. It's her audacity for me

You snubbed a man that wants to help your boring single life.

No good thing will ever come from a girl like her. Seems the guy decipher that already and disembark.

Nigerian guys don't have time for nonsense these days, it's either you vibe with us or we discharge. No time!

A word is enough for a fool!

Zonefree:

She's a foolish girl with ego. It's her audacity for me

You snubbed a man that wants to help your boring single life.

No good thing will ever come from a girl like her. Seems the guy decipher that already and disembark.

Nigerian guys don't have time for nonsense these days, it's either you vibe with us or we discharge. No time!

A word is enough for a fool!

Zonefree:

She's a foolish girl with ego. It's her audacity for me

You snubbed a man that wants to help your boring single life.

No good thing will ever come from a girl like her. Seems the guy decipher that already and disembark.

Nigerian guys don't have time for nonsense these days, it's either you vibe with us or we discharge. No time!

A word is enough for a fool!

IwasNeverGone:



That gee is a real gee...no cap, I am proud of him....no simping on them leeches and bitches

Nonexisting1:
I dey tell you. First they stop communicating and then, they show up later with stories. That's them vaginarians parole.
As soon as my guy heard her say she was sick, he knew urgent 2k request would follow soon so nigga bone face. Real nigga, I must say.

jemale:


Because he is really doing well financially, he ticks ur box.

I hope he fuks u n leave u hanging.
Rubbish