I lost my father since I was 7 years old, I would love to know, they are things I believe I lack due to this..
I was raised by my mum only and a brother and a sister as well..
I would love to know, especially, if you are in your 40s,50s,60s and grew up fatherless too.
What advice do you have for me?
What experience would you want to share

Black Men love and value the parent that left them/wasn't there when growing up [which is the male] and will hate on the parent that stay back with them, went through a lot of pains, hardship and stress to brought them up [which is the female ]

This I have noticed.

but yours is different.. I feel sorry for you.

Jeon:
Black Men love and value the parent that left them/wasn't there when growing up [which is the male] and will hate on the parent that stay back with them, went through a lot of pains, hardship and stress to brought them up [which is the female ]

This I have noticed.

but yours is different.. I feel sorry for you.

My case is different..
I'm worried about the fact that I don't know what's missing, but I know they are things missing..I tend to be over conscious now and try my best be a man I never had.

FuckYou:
I lost my father since I was 7 years old, I would love to know, they are things I believe I lack due to this..
I was raised by my mum only and a brother and a sister as well..
I would love to know, especially, if you are in your 40s,50s,60s and grew up fatherless too.
What advice do you have for me?
What experience would you want to share

Gosh!

That experience is painful, bro.

I wish I was raised by my dad than my mom.

It’s really painful; you are going to miss out a lot in life.

My ex told me the reason I never really had anything going on for me was because my father wasn’t there to lay the foundation for me. She said she was grateful her late father did before he died.

She later left me to get married to someone else, even though she loved me.

I have to work, believe twice as much now.

It’s traumatizing, bro.

Jeon:
Black Men love and value the parent that left them/wasn't there when growing up [which is the male] and will hate on the parent that stay back with them, went through a lot of pains, hardship and stress to brought them up [which is the female ]

This I have noticed.

but yours is different.. I feel sorry for you.

You haven't noticed anything my dear! Most men have unquantifiable love for their moms (myself inclusive). The fact that some children look for their deadbeat dads does not and can ever imply loving him more than their moms.

Some of those guys might have been insulted all their lives for not having their dads around. They may have been called bastards and other derogatory names by their peers. So, it's only natural that such a son would want to look for his dad at least to prove that he's not fatherless.

I remember December, 2017. I escorted my cousin to visit his supposed deadbeat Dad......


Some discussions we had.......in that singular visit make my cousin persisted in visiting him..........this led to serious issues between him (cousin) and his mom later in 2020.

He is really thanking his star he connected with the man.......especially before his marriage in 2019.


If your father is not in your life, whether deadbeat or deadsound........sorry for you

ObalendeCMS:


Gosh!

That experience is painful, bro.

I wish I was raised by my dad than my mom.

It’s really painful; you are going to miss out a lot in life.

My ex told me the reason I never really had anything going on for me was because my father wasn’t there to lay the foundation for me. She said she was grateful her late father did before he died.

She later left me to get married to someone else, even though she loved me.

I have to work, believe twice as much now.

It’s traumatizing, bro.

The funniest part is.
Its now I'm beginning to feel the pain and see the holes he left from time to time.
It's somehow

kazyhm:
I remember December, 2017. I escorted my cousin to visit his supposed deadbeat Dad......


Some discussions we had.......in that singular visit make my cousin persisted in visiting him..........this led to serious issues between him (cousin) and his mom later in 2020.

He is really thanking his star he connected with the man.......especially before his marriage in 2019.


If your father is not in your life, whether deadbeat or deadsound........sorry for you

Honestly

ObalendeCMS:


Gosh!

That experience is painful, bro.

I wish I was raised by my dad than my mom.

It’s really painful; you are going to miss out a lot in life.

My ex told me the reason I never really had anything going on for me was because my father wasn’t there to lay the foundation for me. She said she was grateful her late father did before he died.

She later left me to get married to someone else, even though she loved me.

I have to work, believe twice as much now.

It’s traumatizing, bro.

You know what bro?
It's people who are around you that'll see somethings..