"I have always encouraged myself and those around me about the need to uphold the tenets of Islam. This belief, I have mailed into the pursuit of marriage. The world view has painted virginity with dignity and honour, so I have tried to live a decent life myself. The religion of Islam has also given credence to it, I am proud to be a virgin brother.
To this assertion, I have always believed in marrying a virgin sister, so anytime I have the opportunity to propose to a sister, it is one of the important questions, are you a virgin?

I met sister Basirah through a friend who described her as a good sister. During the first meeting, I did not forget to ask, 'are you a virgin?, And she said yes, I was so excited because I really liked her.

Alhamdulillah, we agreed to get married and preparation towards our marriage was successful. The Nikkah took place, infact, all the sermon and merriment that characterized the day were of no significance to me like our first night. I wanted to experience the enjoyment of the other room, I was so excited and ready to go.

When we got home, we did our prayers together, and it was time to go physical, then the first night turned to be a big disappointment, my wife that made me believe of her dignified virginity lied to me after all, "she is not a Virgin", I penetrated her without obstruction, unbelievable!!!

The last straw that broke the camel's back was that while the love making was going on, "my wife was shouting her ex lover's name". I was shocked and embarrassed, she was unconsciously carried away, it was a total disappointment. He later confessed and begged me, he was crying and apologizing, I have tried all I could to love her afterwards, but sincerely I don't think I can love her anymore. If not for the process of divorce, I would have sent her packing the next day, from my end, the only solution to this problem is divorce, nothing else." What is the best advice for this man.

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Abu Sheikh