doggedfighter:
On reading this story I bursted into laughter.




I really don't know why it's that funny to me.


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Bluezy13:
Did she tell you that the man was an occultist and wanted sacrificing her or did you find out yourself ?
Who gave that prophecy that you are rightfully her husband ?

Didn't the prophecy know that you are not financially stable before giving you the idea ?

If your people and the pastor are worried, why don't they help you financially ?

If you couldn't wait anymore, why then are you worried or is your lack of financial backup bigger than the prophecy ? And if that is the case, prophecy is no longer prophecy because because is supposed to depend on your financial status to come pass.

Does it mean that your reason for wanting to get married soon enough is because you want to head a church ? Is that what the prophecy said ? Or are you getting married because you need to get married ?

If the lady said she would be patient and manage with you, what then is the problem exactly ?

Kollins11:
Let forget about that fake & stupid prophecy for now and let's focus on the main issue

You're broke as a church rat and you still want to marry a second hand useless woman with a useless female child already? What is wrong with you men in this country. Shey them swear for una?

If you wife her today, she would still cheat on you with her Ex husband who nearly used her and her child for rituals. That's how confused and useless that gender are.

Instead for you to focus on how to double your hustle, make money and take good care of yourself... You're here talking about settling down with a second hand hoe.

I will not rest until you simps hear word by fire, by force, by lightning and by thunder.

doggedfighter:
On reading this story I burst into laughter.


I really don't know why it's that funny to me.


But why do I feel so much pity for this lady

whose first marital journey was messed up as result of co.ck and bull stories.



While she's yet to recover , another story termed prophecy comes along in the form of a broke, jobless student pastor that must marry when he can barely fend for himself .

Whose only confidence is in just his big black Bible in his hand and the prospect of free sex.

What a life !

dontrulee:
What advice are you looking for again?

Marry her na

apostle96:
He won't follow any of the advice you are giving him...this I have seenHe won't follow any of the advice you are giving him...this I have seenHe won't follow any of the advice you are giving him...this I have seen

Denoh68:
I'm not getting married because of church, she told me everything that happened between her and her husband,our pastors are aware of it even her mum and siblings have told me their own part of the story.I want to know how to go about the whole thing, I don't want to make mistakes, I'm a human being.

doggedfighter:



What do you want to learn exactly ?


How to pay bride price ?

How to marry using prophecy ?

How to live with a woman ?

How marry on an empty pockets ?

Denoh68:
I'm not getting married because of church, she told me everything that happened between her and her husband,our pastors are aware of it even her mum and siblings have told me their own part of the story.I want to know how to go about the whole thing, I don't want to make mistakes, I'm a human being.

Bluezy13:

What advice did your pastor or spiritual leader give you ?

Denoh68:
Hello nairalanders, I am a young minister, I met a lady about 8 months ago while we were still attending bible college here in Benin city.She was married but had to leave her husband because the man joined a cult and nearly used her and her baby girl for rituals, all thanks to God who saved them. Now there was a prophecy that I am her rightful husband but I am not financially stable. My people including my pastors are worried about my condition because they know I haven't got enough money to take care of her and myself now. I can't wait anymore, there isn't much time as I want to get married before I head any church branch. The lady says she would be patient and manage with me.Please brethren advice me on what to do.

Denoh68:
Hello nairalanders, I am a young minister, I met a lady about 8 months ago while we were still attending bible college here in Benin city.She was married but had to leave her husband because the man joined a cult and nearly used her and her baby girl for rituals, all thanks to God who saved them. Now there was a prophecy that I am her rightful husband but I am not financially stable. My people including my pastors are worried about my condition because they know I haven't got enough money to take care of her and myself now. I can't wait anymore, there isn't much time as I want to get married before I head any church branch. The lady says she would be patient and manage with me.Please brethren advice me on what to do.

Denoh68:
Initially, he tried to kick against the relationship, his reasons is that the lady left her occultic husband, and that the bride price must be refunded first.I told him that it will be returned when I go to marry the lady. That's when he now said I should put things in place, like look for a good job and rent a better apartment, like 3 bedroom flat. That's all. Since then he hasn't said any other thing .

Denoh68:
Hello nairalanders, I am a young minister, I met a lady about 8 months ago while we were still attending bible college here in Benin city.She was married but had to leave her husband because the man joined a cult and nearly used her and her baby girl for rituals, all thanks to God who saved them. Now there was a prophecy that I am her rightful husband but I am not financially stable. My people including my pastors are worried about my condition because they know I haven't got enough money to take care of her and myself now. I can't wait anymore, there isn't much time as I want to get married before I head any church branch. The lady says she would be patient and manage with me.Please brethren advice me on what to do.

Denoh68:
I'm not getting married because of church, she told me everything that happened between her and her husband,our pastors are aware of it even her mum and siblings have told me their own part of the story.I want to know how to go about the whole thing, I don't want to make mistakes, I'm a human being.

doggedfighter:
On reading this story I burst into laughter.


I really don't know why it's that funny to me.


But why do I feel so much pity for this lady

whose first marital journey was messed up as result of co.ck and bull stories.



While she's yet to recover , another story termed prophecy comes along in the form of a broke, jobless student pastor that must marry when he can barely fend for himself .

Whose only confidence is in just his big black Bible in his hand and the prospect of free sex.

What a life !

Demigod22:
Marriage is not for broke and jobless man. Marriage in Africa is entirely another thing as you will become responsible for your in-laws too. You should focus on getting a job, clean yourself up, good apartment, doubled source of income, let the woman be doing something herself.

The issue of prophecy, although I am not particularly fascinated by religious practices and Creed, but getting married on the prompting of one premature prophecy is cockery and fuckery to me.

You need to assess and ask yourself questions and genuinely answer those questions.

Do you really and genuinely love this woman?

Are you marrying her because of the controversial prophecy or you have the intention before the prophecy?

If you must marry before heading a church branch, can't the church help you with fund to establish yourself?

Are you ready to deal with the challenges of marrying a divorcee and being a stepfather?

If you don't want to head a church or you are not a Minister, will you still want to marry this particular lady right now with this unhealthy alacrity?

How sure are you about this prophecy?

Are you interested in the lady before the prophecy?

Answer these questions and sort yourself out.

Denoh68:
Hello nairalanders, I am a young minister, I met a lady about 8 months ago while we were still attending bible college here in Benin city.She was married but had to leave her husband because the man joined a cult and nearly used her and her baby girl for rituals, all thanks to God who saved them. Now there was a prophecy that I am her rightful husband but I am not financially stable. My people including my pastors are worried about my condition because they know I haven't got enough money to take care of her and myself now. I can't wait anymore, there isn't much time as I want to get married before I head any church branch. The lady says she would be patient and manage with me.Please brethren advice me on what to do.

Autobot05:


Go and read the bible laws of a woman leaving her husband ... na your pastors?? Kai na why them dey use una do business. Read bible una no go gree .. na pastor una dey depend on
Brethren kor .. brethren nii

Denoh68:
SECOND CORINTHIANS 7 SUMS IT UP SIR. THE UBELIEVING HUSBAND WOULD TAKE THE LIFE OF THE BELIEVING WIFE. DOES IT MAKE SENSE TO REMAIN IN SUCH MARRIAGE. I KNOW WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT MARRIAGE SIR, I KNOW THERE ARE SENSIBLE NIGERIANS WHO CAN ADVICE ME, BUT SHOULD PEOPLE FEEL THEY DON'T HAVE ADVICE FOR ME, NO PROBLEMS.

Bluezy13:
Did she tell you that the man was an occultist and wanted sacrificing her or did you find out yourself ?
Who gave that prophecy that you are rightfully her husband ?

Didn't the prophecy know that you are not financially stable before giving you the idea ?

If your people and the pastor are worried, why don't they help you financially ?



Answer all these questions and we will know how best to advice you.

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If you couldn't wait anymore, why then are you worried or is your lack of financial backup bigger than the prophecy ? And if that is the case, prophecy is no longer prophecy because it is not supposed to depend on your financial status to come pass.

Does it mean that your reason for wanting to get married soon enough is because you want to head a church ? Is that what the prophecy said ? Or are you getting married because you need to get married ?

If the lady said she would be patient and manage with you, what then is the problem exactly ?