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Please Help: All The Girls I Meet Are Always Already In A Relationship by Pukkalolo: 7:13pm On Dec 06, 2022
Recently a guy asked me a nice question.

He said, "all the girls I meet are always already in a relationship."

Basically, anytime he tries to ask a woman out, the "I have a boyfriend" line is being thrown out at him immedately.

What guys don't realize is that having a boyfriend is a big rank for ladies. Whether there's actually a boyfriend or not, most ladies don't like being viewed as single. In their shallow feminine mentality, having a "boyfriend" is much better than being single because being single implies that she's not attractive or decent enough keep a guy committed.

It's even funny how a guy get that foolish excited look when a girl finally say YES to him. Some women keep a boyfriend more for financial benefit: this guy is a nice guy who’s buying her things or taking her out every now and then.

Having a dependable dude she can call when she's in financial needs is also a valid reason to recuite you as a boyfriend for the time being.

In more miserable cases, she’s with you only because she can live in your house or apartment rent-free. While she goes outside to cheat on you with other guys.

The “I have a boyfriend” line is just a phrase she automatically say, even if she likes you. She’d rather be viewed as someone who has a guy than admitting that she’s single.

Many women aren't so loyal or faithful as they want you think. Couple of times, a lady will throw the "I have boyfriend" line at a guy in the earliest stage of the interactions.... but after he got her tripping a bit, she start saying “if you're serious, my boyfriend is not a problem.”

The vast majority of the time many women would rather quickly swing from boyfriend to boyfriend than be single in between. Basically, In order to avoid being single they look for a backup guy while they are still officially dating their current guy.

They drop their current boyfriend only once the next one is secured, just like you'll confidently let go of your current job only after you have firmly secured another job.

Always keep in my mind that many woman have a “backup guy”... She may act like you are the only one in the picture; but NO; there's a backup.

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Re: Please Help: All The Girls I Meet Are Always Already In A Relationship by xareal(m): 7:21pm On Dec 06, 2022
Dem nor like you.. them dey chase you with I'm already in a relationship talk..go and make money.. especially if you're not handsome,then na them go dey rush you

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Re: Please Help: All The Girls I Meet Are Always Already In A Relationship by Billgatessecond: 7:37pm On Dec 06, 2022
Pukkalolo:
Recently a guy asked me a nice question.

He said, "all the girls I meet are always already in a relationship."

Basically, anytime he tries to ask a woman out, the "I have a boyfriend" line is being thrown out at him immedately.

What guys don't realize is that having a boyfriend is a big rank for ladies. Whether there's actually a boyfriend or not, most ladies don't like being viewed as single. In their shallow feminine mentality, having a "boyfriend" is much better than being single because being single implies that she's not attractive or decent enough keep a guy committed.

It's even funny how a guy get that foolish excited look when a girl finally say YES to him. Some women keep a boyfriend more for financial benefit: this guy is a nice guy who’s buying her things or taking her out every now and then.

Having a dependable dude she can call when she's in financial needs is also a valid reason to recuite you as a boyfriend for the time being.

In more miserable cases, she’s with you only because she can live in your house or apartment rent-free. While she goes outside to cheat on you with other guys.

The “I have a boyfriend” line is just a phrase she automatically say, even if she likes you. She’d rather be viewed as someone who has a guy than admitting that she’s single.

Many women aren't so loyal or faithful as they want you think. Couple of times, a lady will throw the "I have boyfriend" line at a guy in the earliest stage of the interactions.... but after he got her tripping a bit, she start saying “if you're serious, my boyfriend is not a problem.”

The vast majority of the time many women would rather quickly swing from boyfriend to boyfriend than be single in between. Basically, In order to avoid being single they look for a backup guy while they are still officially dating their current guy.

They drop their current boyfriend only once the next one is secured, just like you'll confidently let go of your current job only after you have firmly secured another job.

Always keep in my mind that many woman have a “backup guy”... She may act like you are the only one in the picture; but NO; there's a backup.





Just have unreasonable amount of money they will run after you .
Most women are confused they don't know what they want in a relationship.. women don't need love it's not their thing they need someone to ffot their bills that y they have multiple sex partners .

Just have unreasonable amount of money. They will ask you out

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Re: Please Help: All The Girls I Meet Are Always Already In A Relationship by Sweetvie: 7:40pm On Dec 06, 2022
Simple stuff... Just take care of her more than her boyfriend
She'll dump him for you grin
Just know that she can also dump you for others grin

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Re: Please Help: All The Girls I Meet Are Always Already In A Relationship by CANDYDADDY(m): 7:41pm On Dec 06, 2022
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How a man with full balls be worried of not getting a gender that will drain you financially, emotionally and intellectually baffles me


If u want to live long avoid anything that have to do with Nigerian girls

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Re: Please Help: All The Girls I Meet Are Always Already In A Relationship by Kollins11: 7:50pm On Dec 06, 2022
Sweetvie:
Simple stuff... Just take care of her more than her boyfriend
She'll dump him for you grin
Just know that she can also dump you for others grin
Las las na her kpekus go suffer am.

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Re: Please Help: All The Girls I Meet Are Always Already In A Relationship by Sweetvie: 8:32pm On Dec 06, 2022
Kollins11:
Las las na her kpekus go suffer am.
Lol... Aswear grin

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