Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,160,419 members, 7,843,257 topics. Date: Tuesday, 28 May 2024 at 09:34 PM

Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? - Islam for Muslims (7) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Religion / Islam for Muslims / Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? (14846 Views)

Taqiyya And Kitman: Are muslims permitted to lie? / Why Are Muslims Easily Brainwashed / I Dont Think Ahmadiyya Are Muslims (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by tanimz(f): 10:53pm On Aug 31, 2011
Say wetin happen?
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Aug 31, 2011
Which kain questn be that now? i saw ur name in my dream
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by tanimz(f): 11:04pm On Aug 31, 2011
No, please you didn't. I'm not a witch, my name doesn't appear in people's dreams. Abeg, ma so mi lenu.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 11:07pm On Aug 31, 2011
@ toba,
i can c u'r avn a good time,

P.s- My muslim siters arent going to be lured into marrying u. Ur aim is obvious- to convert them into xtianity nd dats not goin to happen by Allah's grace
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Aug 31, 2011
Adeola fi mi si le lorun to ri olorun o sad
tanimz:

No, please you didn't. I'm not a witch, my name doesn't appear in people's dreams. Abeg, ma so mi lenu.
if u dnt say yes to me, im gonna cause trouble on nl
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 11:23pm On Aug 31, 2011
tobalase,
i yield not to ur request smiley
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Aug 31, 2011
Are u single? tongue
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Roland17(m): 1:23am On Sep 01, 2011
I can tell u its worse with Christians, Protestants would not marry Catholics, Deeper life would not Marry Jehovah Witness, Synagogue would never marry Christ embassy, you can continue the list for me.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by tanimz(f): 3:24am On Sep 01, 2011
toba:

if u dnt say yes to me, im gonna cause trouble on nl

Oya, start the trouble. cool
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by sexylado(m): 7:18am On Sep 01, 2011
I think to allow peace to function, muslims should marry themselves and xtians should also hook themselves.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Kellymann: 7:50am On Sep 01, 2011
I can see toba is really enjoying himself. I believe he's da kind of persons dat lyks argument to provoke ur sensibilities & to an extent he is succeeding. Bro! More power to ya! On the other hand, I'll want to commend the way muslims on dis thread have been able to comport themselves & d wonderful insights provided by deols, tanimz & wislet even in the face of outright insults from christians.

My take on all this, in the end, God knows who 's serving Him & who's not. Who truly believes in Him & worship Him & who is not.

Let us all follow our conviction & respect other peoples' own. Doing this, the world would be a better place.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 7:52am On Sep 01, 2011
Toba, read roland's post n see where hypocrisy lies wv some christians too, its not just a muslim 'thing'
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by vedaxcool(m): 8:13am On Sep 01, 2011
Roland17:

I can tell u its worse with Christians, Protestants would not marry Catholics, Deeper life would not Marry Jehovah Witness, Synagogue would never marry Christ embassy, you can continue the list for me.

So toba have not fixed his own house yet he is wants to Fix another with his insincerity? You know that was the chief reason I took a dig at your character that insults the sacred pillars of insults, that was to show you that there is no sincerity on your path, your strange thinking works on a concept that takes insulting people as a way of marking mutual respect. Well Just fix your house first using your kind of character and bring the result back to us. grin
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 9:11am On Sep 01, 2011
I second

FIX ur house toba
dont put odas luggage on ur head while holding urs. grin grin
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by vedaxcool(m): 9:14am On Sep 01, 2011
deols:

I second

FIX your house toba
dont put odas luggage on your head while holding urs. grin grin

Ouch! thats gonna hurt! grin grin grin
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by victor2exl(m): 10:23am On Sep 01, 2011
Hi, pretty lady, can i be your friend here
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Gbenge77(m): 10:53am On Sep 01, 2011
It is better to marry someone who practices one's religion.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by KDULAR: 1:45pm On Sep 01, 2011
In the real sense oo., I think ist makes no difference, GOD is too BIG to care about religion , which is a way to make us feel we are doing swomething. Behold thwre are so many religion but there is only ONE GOD and CREATOR.

I hold the view that the issue stated that al musulima female should not marry a christian is just political. If in the Al qouran, there especially on the early chapters, the Christians and Jews are regarded as Al Ikthab ,( the people of the book) and there is injunction to consult them if there is any thing you don't understand. Then it shows an endorsement of those in these faiths. I now find it funny when Muslims will talk about the corruption of the Christianity shocked shocked based on non agreement with theology and the fundamentals of Christianity including the Sonship of Jesus and all that are led by the spirit of God. ( Me I believe as Prophet ( PBUH) was led by the Spirit of God through angel Gabriel to READ, then He is also a son of God, take it or leave it , that's what I believe). Theissue of corruption I know did not come from the Prophet pbuh but the later followers from whom the religion spread to the rest of the world and that propaganda endured till date.
You cannot judge me by your own standards, but by universal standards. HUMAN STANDARD.

We are humans first , created into a family in a society and we decide as times goes on what we want to believe. The Prophet (PBUH) was Arab first before he became a muslim and he wrote the Qouran in Arabic and not Yemeni nor Yoruba, nor German, nor Turkish etc Thus you become a Muslim or Christian or any by conviction followed by decision . So you appreciate and the primary identity God gave you. The tolerance in religion in Yorubaland is unsurpassed by anywhere else in the world, although it's eroding fast and I am using this medium to urge NLders who are Yorubas and indeed Nigerians to retrace their steps in this wise.
Marry who you unconditionally decide to love, happy and emotionally and all wise compatible with and let there be no hindrance based on religion.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 01, 2011
smdh at some responses here. i swear i have a genuine intention. smdh at bhusayor, vedaxcool and deola. when i achieve my aim u will see what will happen
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Sep 01, 2011
Whatever rocks your boat,
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Sep 01, 2011
KDULAR:

In the real sense oo., I think ist makes no difference, GOD is too BIG to care about religion , which is a way to make us feel we are doing swomething. Behold thwre are so many religion but there is only ONE GOD and CREATOR.

I hold the view that the issue stated that al musulima female should not marry a christian is just political. If in the Al qouran, there especially on the early chapters, the Christians and Jews are regarded as Al Ikthab ,( the people of the book) and there is injunction to consult them if there is any thing you don't understand. Then it shows an endorsement of those in these faiths. I now find it funny when Muslims will talk about the corruption of the Christianity shocked shocked based on non agreement with theology and the fundamentals of Christianity including the Sonship of Jesus and all that are led by the spirit of God. ( Me I believe as Prophet ( PBUH) was led by the Spirit of God through angel Gabriel to READ, then He is also a son of God, take it or leave it , that's what I believe). Theissue of corruption I know did not come from the Prophet pbuh but the later followers from whom the religion spread to the rest of the world and that propaganda endured till date.
You cannot judge me by your own standards, but by universal standards. HUMAN STANDARD.

We are humans first , created into a family in a society and we decide as times goes on what we want to believe. The Prophet (PBUH) was Arab first before he became a muslim and he wrote the Qouran in Arabic and not Yemeni nor Yoruba, nor German, nor Turkish etc Thus you become a Muslim or Christian or any by conviction followed by decision . So you appreciate and the primary identity God gave you. The tolerance in religion in Yorubaland is unsurpassed by anywhere else in the world, although it's eroding fast and I am using this medium to urge NLders who are Yorubas and indeed Nigerians to retrace their steps in this wise.
Marry who you unconditionally decide to love, happy and emotionally and all wise compatible with and let there be no hindrance based on religion.


may God bless u and increase ur wisdom. i know hypocrites will attack you
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 6:50pm On Sep 01, 2011
KDULAR:

In the real sense oo., I think ist makes no difference, GOD is too BIG to care about religion , which is a way to make us feel we are doing swomething. Behold thwre are so many religion but there is only ONE GOD and CREATOR.

I hold the view that the issue stated that al musulima female should not marry a christian is just political. If in the Al qouran, there especially on the early chapters, the Christians and Jews are regarded as Al Ikthab ,( the people of the book) and there is injunction to consult them if there is any thing you don't understand. Then it shows an endorsement of those in these faiths. I now find it funny when Muslims will talk about the corruption of the Christianity shocked shocked based on non agreement with theology and the fundamentals of Christianity including the Sonship of Jesus and all that are led by the spirit of God. ( Me I believe as Prophet ( PBUH) was led by the Spirit of God through angel Gabriel to READ, then He is also a son of God, take it or leave it , that's what I believe). Theissue of corruption I know did not come from the Prophet pbuh but the later followers from whom the religion spread to the rest of the world and that propaganda endured till date.
You cannot judge me by your own standards, but by universal standards. HUMAN STANDARD.

We are humans first , created into a family in a society and we decide as times goes on what we want to believe. The Prophet (PBUH) was Arab first before he became a muslim and he wrote the Qouran in Arabic and not Yemeni nor Yoruba, nor German, nor Turkish etc Thus you become a Muslim or Christian or any by conviction followed by decision . So you appreciate and the primary identity God gave you. The tolerance in religion in Yorubaland is unsurpassed by anywhere else in the world, although it's eroding fast and I am using this medium to urge NLders who are Yorubas and indeed Nigerians to retrace their steps in this wise.
Marry who you unconditionally decide to love, happy and emotionally and all wise compatible with and let there be no hindrance based on religion.


u sound confused. read suratul ikhlas,chapter4 of the quran nd u'd c ow THEprophet can not be regarder as a son of GOD.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Sep 01, 2011
lwkmd. here we go. enemy of progress. i know they will attack the gentle man for speaking the truth
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 7:20pm On Sep 01, 2011
toba:

smdh at some responses here. i swear i have a genuine intention. smdh at bhusayor, vedaxcool and deola. when i achieve my aim u will see what will happen
now i thnk d matter goes beyond wat meets d eyes-its an identity issue. can rememba u wantd to b a part of d iftar, u'r most welcome into our fold but it has to b by convction nd not by marriage nor by food smiley, lol
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Sep 01, 2011
u want me to become boko haram shocked
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 7:49pm On Sep 01, 2011
heard dey boast of over a hundred ppl ready for deir thing, avn an add wldnt do much to deir ego, abi uv got oda ppl to take wv u.heard dey boast of over a hundred ppl ready for deir thing, avn an add wldnt do much to deir ego, abi uv got oda ppl to take wv u.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by KDULAR: 9:37pm On Sep 01, 2011
@ Deols don't insult me na, wink wink wink haba besides your thinking, I'm not confused I have so many northern muslims friend and this is what I told them my pereception about the issue of servant or sonship. What faces someone backs another, is at inclined or angle to another.Remember , I said,it is wrong to judge cannot judge you by my standard What I said is again is by the thinking of a christian.( those who are led by the Spirit of God, have been given the power to be called the sons of God . Whether you agree with me or not, that is what I hold on to and that what gives me the peace with Islam and Moslems and that in no way reduce God. cool cool cool

This I haave conveyed to all I have ever met and discussed with, all my Moslem friends including some ustaz appreciate me fo4 that ( Except you are telling me they are just deceiving me). I encourages them to do fulfil their 5 prayer obligations in my single room apartment whenever they are on visit. If you said God does not have a child and nobody gave birth to Him good. My implying my sonship to God is an issue of being led by the spirit of God to do his will a christian and ( just like a servant) a muslim . So see the point of congruency in the 2 and be at Peace with yourself, your neighbour the earth and with your God. wink wink wink.

God is God and all what we do is just Him alone and alone that can declare who is for Him or not. tThink about this, Some Muslims and Christians likewise can be said to be not wanting oin their service to God , but you'' see real suffering in their lives does that mean God is not fair, God forbid, but He knows best, and on the contrary people whoyou could not say they are "Good Christians or Moslems and are neither experiencing any suffering of any sort. Likewise those who doesnot even believe in God . doing both bad and Good , do we saythat God is not their provider?.

You see and I believe, God is toooooo BIG for any one of us or religion to fathom or restricts to a particular way and thus that's why He will confound us right before our eyes in the simplest of things anytime we make an attempt to box Him as we do all the time in our rigidities in the 2 most popular religions . However He is faith and omniscient to accommodate our imperfections.

I believe that whatever way you want to Believe He is God as long as it is in the intent of Glorifying Him, then He will lift accept and lift you. Alafia,Peace, Shallom, Sallam to you and yours. Bro or sis grin grin grin
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Sep 01, 2011
Abeg tell that deola girl. Shes too stubborn grin
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Sep 01, 2011
^^^mmhh, guy its starts like this 4rm fcbk account to real friendship, small time,there father go promise heaven and earth if u worship with them.next you are brainwashed and what again

BoooM!!!!!!!!!!! may be this time around you will be the one wey go carry the for lagos main brigde mission,
by then you will be hoping for virgin in heaven while ur senders f.uc.k each othe here on earth

becareful
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Sep 01, 2011
bros nice advice, but i can never be brainwashed. my head is not in my trouser for me to be fooled into killing innocent people
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Sweetnecta: 11:02pm On Sep 01, 2011
[Quote]« #218 on: Today at 09:37:45 PM »

@ Deols don't insult me na, Wink Wink Wink haba besides your thinking, I'm not confused  I have so many northern muslims friend and this is what I told them my pereception about the issue of servant or sonship. What faces someone backs another, is at inclined or angle to another.Remember , I said,it is wrong to judge cannot judge you by my standard  What I said is again is by the thinking of a christian.( those who are led by the Spirit of God, have been given the power to be called the sons of God . Whether you agree with me or not, that is what I hold on to and that what gives me the peace with Islam and Moslems and that in no way reduce God.  Cool Cool Cool

This I haave conveyed to all I have ever met and discussed with, all my Moslem friends including some  ustaz appreciate me fo4 that ( Except you are telling me they are just  deceiving me). I  encourages them to do fulfil their 5 prayer obligations in my single room apartment whenever they are on visit.  If you said God does not have a child and nobody gave birth to Him good. My implying  my sonship to God is an issue of being led by the spirit of God to do his will a christian  and ( just like a servant) a muslim . So see the point of congruency in the 2 and be at  Peace with yourself, your neighbour the earth and with your God. Wink Wink Wink.[/QUote]If the Biblical verse[s] claimed to come from Jesus to tell the 12 disciples what the holy spirit is and what this holy spirit will do and when the holy spirit will arrive is/are true, no christian except the 12 disciples, if they were christians is supposed to receive or be led, etc by this very holy spirit. His work on earth ended up on the Day of Pentecost, for sure. Otherwise Jesus was incorrect about his characterization of this Holy Spirit. Or the Bible writers were incorrect that Jesus said what they said about the Holy Spirit. Is the "Spirit of God" not the same as Holy Spirit in the Bible? if it is the spirit of God, then no activity on this earth after pentecost, according to the Bibles. So to claim you are being led by God's Spirit is to go against what Jesus said and what happened on the day of Pentecost.
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Araboy(m): 2:19am On Sep 02, 2011
The teaching that Muslim woman can not marry a Christian man is misguided teaching intended to confuse and keep progressive Muslim women behind the practice has its origins in war times which were used against those fighting 
with Muslims but ceased once hostilities were over

The Quran addresses marriage to non Muslims only in  two instances  Allah Says '' And do not marry polytheist men to your women until they believe and believing slave is better than polytheist even though he might please you " Quran 2:221

" And lawful in marriage are chaste women from among the believers and chaste women from among those who were given the scripture before you "Quran 5 :5

Here there are some  absolute truths we can establish from those two Ayats

First  there  a differentiation is made between non Muslims "People of the book (Christians and Jews) and non Muslims Polytheists like Hindus Sikhs Buddhists  Atheists Etc   

The next point is Muslim men are permitted to marry chaste Christian women when certain  duties are upheld
 
Then it is naturally fair and just that Muslim women can also marry Christian men even though the Muslim women
are not directly addressed in the previous Ayat and no further guidance was given in case if a Muslim woman marry someone from "Ashab Al Kitab"  (People of the book )

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply)

Is It Allowed To Pray Taraweeh? / Marriage ⚭ In Islam : Importance Of Husband And Wife, Romance, Sex,etc / Conversation Between A Non Muslim And A Muslim Cleric

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 71
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.