I am a financially struggling young man that barely have enough to take care of myself this days but the rate at which friends and family are begging for money from me is getting me worried.

I barely go online or chat up people cos it always ends with borrow me 5k or 10k infact borrow is a new coded word for begging now cos 99% of friends and family I borrowed money to never returned.

Please how do I prove to this people that I'm also struggling financially?

Modified: This begging peaked since September that I rented a house and moved out of my uncle's appartement

Block them.
Thank me later.
I have zero tolerance when it comes to issues like this.

.

if it just mere family and friends i will advise to say NO to their requests when you don't have but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give them when you have enough.


These are set of people you gonna fall back on when by any chances you go broke, they will never forsake you in your time of need.



Moreover, your case is not about the Nigerian notorious orphans alias 'Nigerian girls', so i don't think no issues here.

I do block some distant friends but family is difficult. I sincerely don't have if not I would have given them but the whole thing is getting too much especially this December

ahnie:
Block them.
Thank me later.
I have zero tolerance when it comes to issues like this.

Damnnn niggar

CANDYDADDY:
.

if it just mere family and friends i will advise to say NO to their requests when you don't have but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give them when you have enough.


These are set of people you gonna fall back on when by any chances you go broke, they will never forsake you in your time of need.



Moreover, your case is not about the Nigerian notorious orphans alias 'Nigerian girls', so i don't think no issues here.

You must be a real niggar

My grandfather always dey tell me that year say son

Always help your family when you have
you know why son

Because on the last day when you want enter six feet those people go surround you ...your dead body and the smell nor go irritate them

There is hardship in the land and it's not funny at all.
Just render whatever help you can and leave the rest cos you can't help everybody that comes begging.

Another thing is, most of you broke men like to post on social media as if you are rich whereas Brooklyn is your second name. Shior!
Biko.. mind the way you post things on social media in order not to attract beggars. If you're a broke man then post broke things about yourself.
May God Help you struggling men.

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar


You must be a real niggar

My grandfather always dey tell me that year say son

Always help your family when you have
you know why son

Because on the last day when you want enter six feet those people go surround you ...your dead body and the smell nor go irritate them

Because on the last day when you want enter six feet those people go surround you ...your dead body and the smell nor go irritate them[/quote].this last part touched me.i don't have much energy.i will rather focus my energy on few people that really matters.

Am not a fan of you.but this night your flow was different.i guess you are sober

Firstorderwizard:
I am a financially struggling young man that barely have enough to take care of myself this days but the rate at which friends and family are begging for money from me is getting me worried.

I barely go online or chat up people cos it always ends with borrow me 5k or 10k infact borrow is a new coded word for begging now cos 99% of friends and family I borrowed money to never returned.

Please how do I prove to this people that I'm also struggling financially?

Modified: This begging peaked since September that I rented a house and moved out of my uncle's appartement

then don’t give na if you’re struggling
You’re giving because you have
Assuming you no get you no go give, them put gun for your head?

Help as much as you can, no worry, your reward dey heaven