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A Lonely Christmas by Nwadu: 8:41pm On Dec 22, 2022
What do you do at Xmas when

No relationship
No family member
No grandparents
No neibours
You can't cook cos you have no appetite
Work is closed for the year
You don't smoke and can't drink more than a bottle
You have a car but no where to go

You have little cash but nothing to do

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Acidosis(m): 8:54pm On Dec 22, 2022
Where do you live?
Re: A Lonely Christmas by missimelda01(f): 8:57pm On Dec 22, 2022
1. Buy a meal you really enjoy, because you'll get hungry eventually.
2. Watch a Christmas movie or an interesting series
3. Go to an orphanage home, buy somethings for the kids and spend Christmas with them.
4. Visit friends

Adulthood can be lonely, hoping this post attracts other lonely people so that you all can have some fun.
Merry Christmas in Advance!

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Tickles001(m): 9:05pm On Dec 22, 2022
Reach out to people that you know. Ask their plans for the Christmas, maybe you'll get someone who's also looking for a new environment to spend their Christmas. Then you can invite them or go over to theirs.

This will surely work if you know a few single and independent people.

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Oluneutral: 9:36pm On Dec 22, 2022
How can you say you don't have neighbors? Do you live alone in the whole compound and by extension, in the whole street?


Well, I believe there are people you can celebrate Christmas with but you chose not to, for reasons best known to youand that's excusable, but saying, there's none, then, there's a problem or problems somewhere.
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Nobody: 9:40pm On Dec 22, 2022
Call 2 hookup girls for a crazy Threesöme.. anyway that's how I'm spending my own Christmas

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by JASONjnr(m): 9:54pm On Dec 22, 2022
Used to experienced this kind of Xmas celebration for almost 5yrs before I sent for my kid bro to come stay with me... And when he left to face the labour market, I brought in my little cousin to come stay with me...


Infact, there was a Christmas is killed to big browsers and I couldn't finish it and I had to throw it away when it stayed too long in the fridge....


Before Una come ask me to go and marry....Make Una sha provide the wife first......

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Divay22(f): 10:06pm On Dec 22, 2022
JASONjnr:
Used to experienced this kind of Xmas celebration for almost 5yrs before I sent for my kid bro to come stay with me... And when he left to face the labour market, I brought in my little cousin to come stay with me...


Infact, there was a Christmas is killed to big browsers and I couldn't finish it and I had to throw it away when it stayed too long in the fridge....


Before Una come ask me to go and marry....Make Una sha provide the wife first......
So out of your many girlfriends, you don't a wife material abi undecided
Re: A Lonely Christmas by JASONjnr(m): 10:08pm On Dec 22, 2022
Divay22:

So out of your many girlfriends, you don't a wife material abi undecided

I didn't even have a single one to see if there's a wife material in any....

But sha...E no easy to find wife for Nigeria..... I don't mean girlfriend...I mean wife!

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Divay22(f): 10:10pm On Dec 22, 2022
JASONjnr:


I didn't even have a single one to see if there's a wife material in any....

But sha...E no easy to find wife for Nigeria..... I don't mean girlfriend...I mean wife!
Same way Husband sef no dey...

Everybody be managing each other and praying yours is still a bit better than your neighbors

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by JASONjnr(m): 10:12pm On Dec 22, 2022
Divay22:

Same way Husband sef no dey...

Everybody be managing each other and praying yours is still a bit better than your neighbors

Well....


I'm concerned with finding a wife.....

Are you looking for a husband?

You can check me out oh...
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Divay22(f): 10:14pm On Dec 22, 2022
JASONjnr:


Well....


I'm concerned with finding a wife.....

Are you looking for a husband?

You can check me out oh...

Lol
Still a student
Re: A Lonely Christmas by JASONjnr(m): 10:19pm On Dec 22, 2022
Divay22:
Lol Still a student
I will take over... what level and what's your discipline?

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Nwadu: 11:47pm On Dec 22, 2022
Acidosis:


Where do you live?


Abuja
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Nwadu: 11:47pm On Dec 22, 2022
missimelda01:
1. Buy a meal you really enjoy, because you'll get hungry eventually.
2. Watch a Christmas movie or an interesting series
3. Go to an orphanage home, buy somethings for the kids and spend Christmas with them.
4. Visit friends

Adulthood can be lonely, hoping this post attracts other lonely people so that you all can have some fun.
Merry Christmas in Advance!

Thanks bro

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Nwadu: 11:48pm On Dec 22, 2022
Antimarraige:
Call 2 hookup girls for a crazy Threesöme.. anyway that's how I'm spending my own Christmas

I lost my relationship cos of something like that... I still regret

This also the major reason I am alone
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Nobody: 12:32am On Dec 23, 2022
Antimarraige:
Call 2 hookup girls for a crazy Threesöme.. anyway that's how I'm spending my own Christmas

Infact Alaye, Baba Crazy guy Ni e.

Me sef dey reason something like this but I need to fortify myself very well because of the badluck and misfortunes wey all these gurls wey dey outside now carry for body.

Jaye lo Padi Miii..

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Davidave(m): 2:26am On Dec 23, 2022
Just know that if this is the worst and the lowest point for you, everything that comes ahead is always going to be better.
Re: A Lonely Christmas by MarketDispatch: 2:46am On Dec 23, 2022
Nwadu:
What do you do at Xmas when

No relationship
No family member
No grandparents
No neibours
You can't cook cos you have no appetite
Work is closed for the year
You don't smoke and can't drink more than a bottle
You have a car but no where to go

You have little cash but nothing to do

Travel to Malaga, Spain
Re: A Lonely Christmas by sageb: 3:43am On Dec 23, 2022
missimelda01:
1. Buy a meal you really enjoy, because you'll get hungry eventually.
2. Watch a Christmas movie or an interesting series
3. Go to an orphanage home, buy somethings for the kids and spend Christmas with them.
4. Visit friends

Adulthood can be lonely, hoping this post attracts other lonely people so that you all can have some fun.
Merry Christmas in Advance!

Nice suggestion
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Kobojunkie: 3:53am On Dec 23, 2022
Nwadu:
What do you do at Xmas when
No relationship
No family member
No grandparents
No neibours
You can't cook cos you have no appetite
Work is closed for the year
You don't smoke and can't drink more than a bottle
You have a car but no where to go
You have little cash but nothing to do
Start now planning to have a better Christmas next year. undecided
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Sucre6: 5:01am On Dec 23, 2022
Aiya, and me here don't know how to manage my own activities, I have lined up activities, from today till new year, ranging from secondary school reunion party, my university alumni reunion party, white Christmas Carol party here in Abuja on Saturday, me and siblings already arranged to throw a huge party for our big bro, baba just clocked 50.
Weddings, birthdays and stuff, omo I go do the one I fit do, my babe self don dey my house since 20th

One of my babes too disturbing that she wants to come over, my babe already bought movie ticket for Christmas movies.
All these activities self wan make me craze, i don't know how to share my self, and this is not how I want my Christmas to be, I like spending quality time, lazying around, eating fried turkey while sipping my amarula on my couch watching nice Christmas movies like ,

Home alone, baby day out and so on grin


Bro, no reason am u can always enjoy yourself at your own space and comfort zone, you must not be in relationship to do that.

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Ouchbabe(f): 6:59am On Dec 23, 2022
Sucre6:
Aiya, and me here don't know how to manage my own activities, I have lined up activities, from today till new year, ranging from secondary school reunion party, my university alumni reunion party, white Christmas Carol party here in Abuja on Saturday, me and siblings already arranged to throw a huge party for our big bro, baba just clocked 50.
Weddings, birthdays and stuff, omo I go do the one I fit do, my babe self don dey my house since 20th

One of my babes too disturbing that she wants to come over, my babe already bought movie ticket for Christmas movies.
All these activities self wan make me craze, i don't know how to share my self, and this is not how I want my Christmas to be, I like spending quality time, lazying around, eating fried turkey while sipping my amarula on my couch watching nice Christmas movies like ,

Home alone, baby day out and so on grin


Bro, no reason am u can always enjoy yourself at your own space and comfort zone, you must not be in relationship to do that.
Your hand is really full. You can invite the OP to some of your activities like the white Christmas carol since both of you are in Abuja.
Have a wonderful Christmas celebration
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Houseofglam7(f): 6:59am On Dec 23, 2022
embarassed
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Nwadu: 7:19am On Dec 23, 2022
Sucre6:
Aiya, and me here don't know how to manage my own activities, I have lined up activities, from today till new year, ranging from secondary school reunion party, my university alumni reunion party, white Christmas Carol party here in Abuja on Saturday, me and siblings already arranged to throw a huge party for our big bro, baba just clocked 50.
Weddings, birthdays and stuff, omo I go do the one I fit do, my babe self don dey my house since 20th

One of my babes too disturbing that she wants to come over, my babe already bought movie ticket for Christmas movies.
All these activities self wan make me craze, i don't know how to share my self, and this is not how I want my Christmas to be, I like spending quality time, lazying around, eating fried turkey while sipping my amarula on my couch watching nice Christmas movies like ,

Home alone, baby day out and so on grin


Bro, no reason am u can always enjoy yourself at your own space and comfort zone, you must not be in relationship to do that.

You don't know how lucky you are...
You never can tell how bad being alone is until you get alone..

I envy your Xmas already. Enjoy.

Pls try to wife that gf of yours cos a time is coming when the activities would no longer be about you but about the kids
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Nwadu: 7:22am On Dec 23, 2022
Davidave:
Just know that if this is the worst and the lowest point for you, everything that comes ahead is always going to be better.

This is actually true to a point.. but it applies mostly to when you are broke. Here money Is not really my concern. I am lonely bored and without friends and family

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Nwadu: 7:27am On Dec 23, 2022
Oluneutral:
How can you say you don't have neighbors? Do you live alone in the whole compound and by extension, in the whole street?


Well, I believe there are people you can celebrate Christmas with but you chose not to, for reasons best known to youand that's excusable, but saying, there's none, then, there's a problem or problems somewhere.

We are just three in the compound.. it's a very secluded compound on the street. The other person has since traveled. The other one is a lady and her man has been here since two days ago. We don't really align like that as we only see each other some mornings while going out to work. The bf doesn't greet me when he is around as he doesn't even want me to say good morning to the lady

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by Sucre6: 7:45am On Dec 23, 2022
Ouchbabe:

Your hand is really full. You can invite the OP to some of your activities like the white Christmas carol since both of you are in Abuja.
Have a wonderful Christmas celebration

Op abeg if u really in Abuja, dm
Re: A Lonely Christmas by Astar007: 12:12pm On Dec 24, 2022
MarketDispatch:


Travel to Malaga, Spain


Pls were you ask to present a yellow fever card
Re: A Lonely Christmas by MarketDispatch: 12:25pm On Dec 24, 2022
Astar007:



Pls were you ask to present a yellow fever card

It's better to have it. You might or might not be asked. I haven't been asked though, but I have it.
It doesn't cost much to do Yellow card.

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Re: A Lonely Christmas by faithfull18(f): 1:03pm On Dec 24, 2022
Antimarraige:
Call 2 hookup girls for a crazy Threesöme.. anyway that's how I'm spending my own Christmas
Whatever you do don't take this advice.

@OP, go for evangelism, God will be pleased but are you an orphan Or you fell from heaven? How can you not have family, no relatives?
Re: A Lonely Christmas by faithfull18(f): 1:10pm On Dec 24, 2022
MarketDispatch:


Travel to Malaga, Spain
With little cash abi, or you will provide the cash he is going to use

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