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There are two sides to a story ,so why not hear from the other side and determine if indeed your babe was raped....but the way I see it, she actually enjoyed the session. If not why didn't she complain all this while...? Be wise biko

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I want her to at least let her parent (possibly her mother) know, even if she feels hurt and wouldn’t like to tell anyone else. Babe becomes super sober, scared, and cold whenever I raise the issue.

I have my past as well. I don’t judge anyone, not even the accused. Nevertheless, I like to grow my relationship on a clean foundation with God as the rock.

Yeesh it was a massive mistake to confide in you. I can't even be bothered to explain your fvck ups

Sending nothing but positivity and healing her way

Why did you believe she was raped? Because she told you? Have you heard from the other guy’s side of the story? You never know these ladies and their fake rape stories. You better think deep before forming a CAPTAIN

Jashub:
There are two sides to a story ,so why not hear from the other side and determine if indeed your babe was raped....but the way I see it, she actually enjoyed the session. If not why didn't she complain all this while...? Be wise biko

She was not raped, just a coverup blublablabula stories of how she lost her hymen so as to appear decent before this naive op. All Nigeria ladies lost their virginity to rape, dem rape all of them. Mtcheww

peepydelano:
She was not raped, just a coverup blublablabula stories of how she lost her hymen so as to appear decent before this naive op. All Nigeria ladies lost their virginity to rape, dem rape all of them. Mtcheww

Na true you talk bros. Most of the so called "rape" cases I keep hearing are all centered on false statements and accusations. Anyway, I wish the Op good luck .

ibkayee:

Yeesh it was a massive mistake to confide in you. I can't even be bothered to explain your fvck ups

Sending nothing but positivity and healing her way

Please, why do you think it is a mistake to tell me?

peepydelano:
Why did you believe she was raped? Because she told you? Have you heard from the other guy’s side of the story? You never know these ladies and their fake rape stories. You better think deep before forming a CAPTAIN

I corrected the title bro. I didn't proofread the title. thanks

Eweeeh

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Please, why do you think it is a mistake to tell me?

You seem a bit insensitive, or maybe you’re just ill equipped to deal with a serious issue like this?

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Please, why do you think it is a mistake to tell me?

OP you just did the worst mistake by bringing your problem to nairaland,hope you won't be offended when nairaland men destroys your relationship for you with their negative comments,i'm already seeing some above.

She never said she was a virgin

peepydelano:
She was not raped, just a coverup blublablabula stories of how she lost her hymen so as to appear decent before this naive op. All Nigeria ladies lost their virginity to rape, dem rape all of them. Mtcheww

ibkayee:

You seem a bit insensitive, or maybe you’re just ill equipped to deal with a serious issue like this?

Can you help? I needed a neutral ground

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Can you help? I needed a neutral ground

Basically don’t force her to tell anyone she doesn’t want to tell, parents or not, after all it was a relative who did this to her.

Stop ‘raising the issue’ as it may be adding to her trauma. Even referring to it this way is tactless

Don’t refer to the ‘incident’ as her ‘past’ as if it was some kind of act she actively engaged in

I also find concerning that you ‘don’t judge’ the accused