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Please I Need Advice On A Thread. Please Help by dierich: 9:12am On Jan 01, 2023
https://www.nairaland.com/7504151/wife-too-attractive-me

That's the link to the thread I created. It's about me and my wife. Only for married and mature people. Thanks
Re: Please I Need Advice On A Thread. Please Help by Blue86(m): 12:30pm On Jan 01, 2023
Discuss it with your wife.
And have counseling together with someone that is wise and aged in marital matters pertaining sex in the home.
Re: Please I Need Advice On A Thread. Please Help by dierich: 2:20pm On Jan 01, 2023
Blue86:
Discuss it with your wife.
And have counseling together with someone that is wise and aged in marital matters pertaining sex in the home.
Thanks for your advice sir.
Re: Please I Need Advice On A Thread. Please Help by Dtruthspeaker: 4:56pm On Jan 01, 2023
dierich:
https://www.nairaland.com/7504151/wife-too-attractive-me

That's the link to the thread I created. It's about me and my wife. Only for married and mature people. Thanks

O man only God can solve it. And if both of you are not in perfect sync with God and growing with Him, hmm sorry. For it is He who can resolve all issues. And do note church going so many prayers does not mean you are a Christian.

Your relationship should have started with God and you would not have had this problem.
Re: Please I Need Advice On A Thread. Please Help by dierich: 5:28pm On Jan 01, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


O man only God can solve it. And if both of you are not in perfect sync with God and growing with Him, hmm sorry. For it is He who can resolve all issues. And do note church going so many prayers does not mean you are a Christian.

Your relationship should have started with God and you would not have had this problem.

How do u know if our relationship starts with God or not? Because the way you're talking is as if you're clean than anybody else
Re: Please I Need Advice On A Thread. Please Help by Dtruthspeaker: 6:08pm On Jan 01, 2023
dierich:


How do u know if our relationship starts with God or not? Because the way you're talking is as if you're clean than anybody else

Yes sir! I escaped being dirty like most people so we were both virgins and my wife is exactly as your wife.

But in my case, I was already crying and begging God to walk with me or rather He should show me how to walk which I was practicing to do when she came into my life 21 years back

And we grew together in chastity and in Truth and in the fear of God learning everything He teaches.

I guessed that you were not a virgim and now she is growing in hatred and resentment that you were not. (Of course you yourself would be filled with anger and pain especially when sex comes up when you remember that someone else made her moan and squirt and all)

Which is why God insists on purity of both couples else, it would not be perfect as you know it can be and in the end the marriage begins to tear.

When you have sex with her, she sees how you sexed the other girl or girls and that no soul can bear, even though she does not want to but it is involuntary.

Only God can help you and your marriage

To others out here who have not yet entered into this hole, stay chaste and pure, growing in the fear and love of God. That is the ONLY WAY! To have a very sweet and beautiful and blessed marriage in full and love and great peace.

No one tells us this but I just managed to get here, hence why I tell this.

This is The Only Good Way which can not be obtained without God.

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Re: Please I Need Advice On A Thread. Please Help by dierich: 6:18pm On Jan 01, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


Yes sir! I escaped being dirty like most people so we were both virgins and my wife is exactly as your wife.

But in my case, I was already crying and begging God to walk with me or rather He should show me how to walk which I was practicing to do when she came into my life 21 years back

And we grew together in chastity and in Truth and in the fear of God learning everything He teaches.

I guessed that you were not a virgim and now she is growing in hatred and resentment that you were not. (Of course you yourself would be filled with anger and pain especially when sex comes up when you remember that someone else made her moan and squirt and all)

Which is why God insists on purity of both couples else, it would not be perfect as you know it can be and in the end the marriage begins to tear.

When you have sex with her, she sees how you sexed the other girl or girls and that no soul can bear, even though she does not want to but it is involuntary.

Only God can help you and your marriage

To others out here who have not yet entered into this hole, stay chaste and pure, growing in the fear and love of God. That is the ONLY WAY! To have a very sweet and beautiful and blessed marriage in full and love and great peace.

No one tells us this but I just managed to get here.This is The Only Good Way which can not be obtained without God.


I'm sorry to say this but all u wrote here is just .......... Make I no talk
Re: Please I Need Advice On A Thread. Please Help by Dtruthspeaker: 6:24pm On Jan 01, 2023
dierich:


I'm sorry to say this but all u wrote here is just .......... Make I no talk

Okay! Just used the opportunity to help others who could be salvaged.

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