Do suitors run away from you? Do you find it difficult or even impossible to retain a man in your life? If yes, then this post is for you.

Many ladies consider themselves beautiful or at least attractive, having all it takes to  attract a man into their lives and retain him but to their own disappointment, the reverse is the case, and because some culture frown at a woman chasing after a man and proposing to him, these ladies are condemned to endless waiting for the right man to come along. They are worried that years go by and age is no more on their side. When fortunes smile on them and a man befriends them and it appears that things will lead them to the side suddenly the man disappears.

There are quite a number of reasons men run away from a lady. We are going to look at 8 possible reasons men run a way from a lady.

1.Desperation

Some ladies have suffered several rejections, heartbreaks or disappointments in the past that  when the next man comes their way, they fear that the current relationship might end like the former ones. this fear leads to desperation that leads the lady to certain irrational behaviours that have the tendency to suffocate the new relationship and bring it to an abrupt end. Take for instance a scenario. where the lady expects the man to call her at least twice a day but when the man could not call do so due to his tight schedule or work, the lady continue calling. When he later has the chance to look at his phone he sees several missed calls. Such ladies need constant reassurance of love from their man  which may actually frustrate him.

2. Domineering spirit

Some ladies have terrible domineering spirit which makes them insist always that things must go their own way and if they could not achieve this they give their man the cold treatment or go into  temper tantrums. Such women want to be in control of the relationship and their man all the time.  This attitude drives men away as no man wants be under the control of another human being under his own roof.

3. Dirty in appearance or old fashioned in dressing

Dirty  appearance and old  fashioned dressing  repel eligible suitors. A lady  seeking to marry must make every effort to dress smart and appealing without necessarily appearing seductive or exposing their sensitive parts. Also  personal hygiene is very important here. She must pay attention to her hair to ensure it doesn't give off odour. She must treat body or mouth odour if there's even the  slightest chance they exist around her. Also it is important to say that some ladies don't dress according to their age or marital status. Some young and single ladies dress like old married women. So young unmarried ladies should dress in accordance with their with age and marital status as such mode of dressing confuses would be suitors.
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