I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told me bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.

EbenezerTriumph:
I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told men bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.

meet in an eatery. No meet for private place make she no pour u acid

this OP is a chicken


person say she wan see you.. you don dey reason relationship

men and one way thinking eh..

tueh

iswear OP you still like that lady

I can’t read this… can someone pass me their notes?

EbenezerTriumph:
I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told men bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.

Bro don't go.. she just want to wash you and cry and make you start explaining shit. Just ghost her again. Since you nova Bleep her, then no point

Dimples2022:
I can’t read this… can someone pass me their notes?

long epistle short

his girlfriend he "ghosted" rang him outta the blue that they need to see around an hour from now


he doesn't know what to do cos he scared he doesn't want to fall inlove with the girl(again)

fighting temptation

Pakwel:


Bro don't go.. she just want to wash you and cry and make you start explaining shit. Just ghost her again. Since you nova Bleep her, then no point

how do y'all know she wanna discus their "ghosted" relationship with the OP

she fit wan see am for something else
maybe to return those fake things the broke Mr *trying to focus this year" got her

hit and run relationship everywhere

Candidlady:


long epistle short

his girlfriend he "ghosted" rang him outta the blue that they need to see around an hour from now


he doesn't know what to do cos he scared he doesn't want to fall inlove with the girl(again)

fighting temptation

Thank you!

That’s so cute! I wonder how he gets out bed without input!

What if de gal wan give u 5 million naira cheque to take package ur life?

Candidlady:


how do y'all know she wanna discus their "ghosted" relationship with the OP

she fit wan see am for something else
maybe to return those fake things the broke Mr *trying to focus this year" got her

hit and run relationship everywhere

That's your take.. dude just don't go. It's almost seven .since Bleep no join una let her be

It's either she wants to pour you acid or she wants to pin fake pregnancy on you.

Don't go please.

SyrusdeHansome:
What if de gal wan give u 5 million naira cheque to take package ur life?

.imagine!!!

Brotherly,

I like your matured way of handling issues with your girlfriend my advice is to go and see her and hear what's she wants to say, don't jump into conclusion yet, and don't be cowed into marriage if you are not ready you are not ready marriage is nobody's age mate, it's has be consent of two adults who are have overtime been in relationship to understand each other mentally, emotionally and financially.

Stand your grounds and point out issues you see as red flags don't let your emotions overcome your sense of judgement if she's not willing to change some of the outlines bad attitudes you've to let her go now before you will come to tell us stories that touches the heart it's a new year set your priorities right, all the best.

EbenezerTriumph:


she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.

trap. but I am sure you have already fallen for it.

Dont go

If at all not today

Schedule your time and venue sometimes next week or over the weekend


Its her last card to see if she can still control you or you still in love.

Prove her wrong...dont go.

SyrusdeHansome:
What if de gal wan give u 5 million naira cheque to take package ur life?

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EbenezerTriumph:
I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told me bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.

Oga...stay ur house.....no go anywhere....
If u go....she go seduce u...
una go straff...

u go hook....









.with another man child...cos she fit don get belle already

Tell her to come over ya place



Be in charge bro

That girl is very toxic guy. My best advice for you is to run for your life. I can see how tired and frustrated you sound about the relationship. It seems she is chocking you and you are already scared self. Such person won't let you go easily. She can even harm in you in such a way that if she can't have you then nobody else can

Bro no go jare since she don leave you no reason of meeting MAYBE she won seduce you and force belle for your hand or she won do you wicked

When i hear or read of guys in a "no sex before marriage" relationship I laugh and see fools....A girl is giving you ultimatum and your yielding...They are fucking other guys somewhere..

Unrelated opinion: Kings, most girls who insists on dates and want to be treated like princesses are mostly into hook ups,thats a diversion...Girls who are very jealous and clingy cheats the most in relationships because they think you are doing what they do.

Should you ever want to be in a sexless relationship before marriage then it must be a virgin otherwise they dont want you to see the hole they have.

After you don plunder her finish, u wan discard her leftover for one idiot to go chop

spencekat:
.imagine!!!

So u no bliv me ba?

Hehehehe. ��
These comments are so hilarious!

EbenezerTriumph, kindly let us know the outcome of the meeting.
I hope she did not pour you acid.
Did she give you a mouthwatering cheque?
How did it go?

Lol.

She wants to end you.

Let me spell it for you....R U N....RUN!!!

Infact you are the real alpha male. Balogun of red pillers. No girl likes to be dumped. That's what you did. Despite not eating out of the coochie. I twale for you. Abeg, no go anywhere o. She go wan play the emotion game for you. Unless you want her back, don't go.

EbenezerTriumph:
I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told me bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.

It is almost 9pm. You no wan come tell us say she don use sex pin you down

Hf

This silent treatment naim they pain woman pass, don't argue with them.

ifihearam:
When i hear or read of guys in a "no sex before marriage" relationship I laugh and see fools....A girl is giving you ultimatum and your yielding...They are fucking other guys somewhere..

Unrelated opinion: Kings, most girls who insists on dates and want to be treated like princesses are mostly into hook ups,thats a diversion...Girls who are very jealous and clingy cheats the most in relationships because they think you are doing what they do.

Should you ever want to be in a sexless relationship before marriage then it must be a virgin otherwise they dont want you to see the hole they have.

Exactly