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Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Gadafii: 9:44am On Jan 07, 2023
Yes you heard me right, you don’t need to or have to get married before you feel fulfilled as an accomplished man, but women must marry to crown all their lifetime desires.

An unmarried successful woman does not completely feel successful if she die a have a man to call husband, or even a toy boy to make her feel complete, marriage is the biggest achievements to women anywhere in the world, forget about what these new generation of “woke women” are saying

Linda I keji is good example, she was so hostile to men telling women stay away from men, low key she was getting dicked, she eventually stole a sperm to birth a son

As a man, work on your self, especially your mind and body, get your finances right and solid, make connections, travel the world, go to concerts, go to World Cup games, visit random places, you will see that you don’t really need women to achieve all of these if your successful, you can have a woman with you at these places but you know that’s the end when you are gone to somewhere else, don’t let one of them tie you down with marriage.

Richest man in the world got divorced, half of his money went to her, she used the man to climb the ladder, now she feels she can no longer live with someone she has been married to for years

Sodikiiiii

Women love successful men who don’t give them assurance, they feel they could change you to be commuted to them only, if you allow her she will use that againts you eventually because you have given her so much power by agreeing to marry her because she wants to marry at certain age and time.


If you must marry a woman, make sure you marry a younger woman, who’s madly in love with you, at exactly when you want it, she must be obedient to you and committed because you are her crown

Ever wonder why some women married to rich successful men with mansions and cars and international presence, still lay with mechanics,plumbers, shoe shiners etc


Don’t let anyone gender pressure you to marry her and you agree to it, you don cut your lifespan into two be that

And as for men, like I said work on your self, what ever you do don’t end up poor and broke, live to your standard, eart healthy, look good and smell nice, be humble and assertive, bold with obvious masculinity, don’t look weak amd and defeated oo

You will see the number of women both old and young , broke and successful, rich and poor, endowed and lean in different colors and size that will be falling at your feets

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by yrhuhfy113: 9:48am On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
Yes you heard me right, you don’t need to or have to get married before you feel fulfilled as an accomplished man, but women must marry to crown all their lifetime desires.

An unmarried successful woman does not completely feel successful if she die a have a man to call husband, or even a toy boy to make her feel complete, marriage is the biggest achievements to women anywhere in the world, forget about what these new generation of “woke women” are saying

Linda I keji is good example, she was so hostile to men telling women stay away from men, low key she was getting dicked, she eventually stole a sperm to birth a son

As a man, work on your self, especially your mind and body, get your finances right and solid, make connections, travel the world, go to concerts, go to World Cup games, visit random places, you will see that you don’t really need women to achieve all of these if your successful, you can have a woman with you at these places but you know that’s the end when you are gone to somewhere else, don’t let one of them tie you down with marriage.

Richest man in the world got divorced, half of his money went to her, she used the man to climb the ladder, now she feels she can no longer live with someone she has been married to for years

Sodikiiiii

Women love successful men who don’t give them assurance, they feel they could change you to be commuted to them only, if you allow her she will use that againts you eventually because you have given her so much power by agreeing to marry her because she wants to marry at certain age and time.


If you must marry a woman, make sure you marry a younger woman, who’s madly in love with you, at exactly when you want it, she must be obedient to you and committed because you are her crown

Ever wonder why some women married to rich successful men with mansions and cars and international presence, still lay with mechanics,plumbers, shoe shiners etc


Don’t let anyone gender pressure you to marry her and you agree to it, you don cut your lifespan into two be that

And as for men, like I said work on your self, what ever you do don’t end up poor and broke, live to your standard, eart healthy, look good and smell nice, be humble and assertive, bold with obvious masculinity, don’t look weak amd and defeated oo

You will see the number of women both old and young , broke and successful, rich and poor, endowed and lean in different colors and size that will be falling at your feets

WoW, finally someone understands.. .God bless you ooo


https://www.nairaland.com/7512738/trap-picture-attached

just like this thread

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Gadafii: 9:55am On Jan 07, 2023
Continuation———-

Don’t marry with the mindset that you and your wife will share financial responsibilities, you go see shege, marry when you are completely ready and capable of providing all that’s needed to sustain the family, you are a provider, you wife will handle the arrangements and management of the home, if she has a career let her explore it, but she owns you utmost loyalty, commitment, love, care, support, prayers, accolades and many more, reason you should marry a younger, if possible virgin girl

It’s always difficult to bend dry fish, but you can bend it when it’s fresh from the water and not yet tampered with

A man that have self control over women and his sexual urges has defeated over 80 percent of his life problems, don’t be slave to pussy, Pusey is designed to serve you, and you reward it by deposited your essence into it.
I am not talking about pussies that have seen 100s

As for children, you can have the number you can cater for, the old saying that children bring riches na scam, big trap

Go check the prices of baby foods and pampers for market, your eyes go clear

BE WISE!!

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Shalommy(f): 9:57am On Jan 07, 2023
Nonsense... Trash... Rubbish from a stupid idiot! Chaiii

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Gadafii: 10:00am On Jan 07, 2023
yrhuhfy113:


WoW, finally someone understands.. .God bless you ooo


https://www.nairaland.com/7512738/trap-picture-attached

just like this thread
and you too brother, one liability is wailing already ontop of me grin

This write your will only pain girls who depend on their Toto to survive, a woman who places value in her self and identify, who knows she doesn’t need men to survive because she’s legitimately working for her own money will not feel pained
Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Gadafii: 10:00am On Jan 07, 2023
Shalommy:
Nonsense... Trash... Rubbish from a stupid idiot! Chaiii
peace be upon you grin

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Shalommy(f): 10:02am On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
peace be upon you grin
No peace!. Vawulence is the answer! angry
Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by missimelda01(f): 10:09am On Jan 07, 2023
Just shut up already.
Your ignorance is smelling angry

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Gadafii: 10:13am On Jan 07, 2023
missimelda01:
Just shut up already.
Your ignorance is smelling angry
this message is for men, you definitely don’t like them liberated from Pussy, because hunger for kill you and your likes angry

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Mindlog: 10:24am On Jan 07, 2023
"An unmarried successful woman does not completely feel successful if she die a have a man to call husband, or even a toy boy to make her feel complete, marriage is the biggest achievements to women anywhere in the world, forget about what these new generation of “woke women” are saying".....Eyah, you certainly have a limited knowledge of what makes a woman feel "complete".... don't get deluded that every woman wants to be married to a man.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by advanceDNA: 10:38am On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
this message is for men, you definitely don’t like them liberated from Pussy, because hunger for kill you and your likes angry

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Gadafii: 10:38am On Jan 07, 2023
Mindlog:
"An unmarried successful woman does not completely feel successful if she die a have a man to call husband, or even a toy boy to make her feel complete, marriage is the biggest achievements to women anywhere in the world, forget about what these new generation of “woke women” are saying".....Eyah, you certainly have a limited knowledge of what makes a woman feel "complete".... don't get deluded that every woman wants to be married to a man.
you guys used Rita Dominic and Genevieve Nnaji as an examples of successful woman that doesn’t need to get married, they are both married now

Oloni on Twitter preached againts men, she got engaged last month, no matter how long these women lie to themselves about not needing to get married to a man or even have a son for him even outside of wedlock, reality will still hit them hard in the face when the time comes

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by missimelda01(f): 10:49am On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
angry
Lmao so you can feed me? Find a job first and stop wasting your time on Nairaland saying trash.

P.S I'll recommend you get a digital skill because all those yeye job you're finding on Facebook won't help you.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Boogyman557: 1:06pm On Jan 07, 2023
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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by SerikiFulani(m): 1:09pm On Jan 07, 2023
Marriage is for weak men smiley

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Hathor5(f): 1:47pm On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
you guys used Rita Dominic and Genevieve Nnaji as an examples of successful woman that doesn’t need to get married, they are both married now

Oloni on Twitter preached againts men, she got engaged last month, no matter how long these women lie to themselves about not needing to get married to a man or even have a son for him even outside of wedlock, reality will still hit them hard in the face when the time comes

Did they get married to their fellow women? grin

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Mindlog: 3:15pm On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
you guys used Rita Dominic and Genevieve Nnaji as an examples of successful woman that doesn’t need to get married, they are both married now

Oloni on Twitter preached againts men, she got engaged last month, no matter how long these women lie to themselves about not needing to get married to a man or even have a son for him even outside of wedlock, reality will still hit them hard in the face when the time comes

I still insists not every woman in this world desires to get married, and for some not to a man.

My eldest sister is a Reverend Sister and she has always said right from her childhood that she will be one and while in her final year in the University, she joined her religious order despite interests from suitors, I guess going by your perception, all she has achieved even her academic height of a Doctorate and service to humanity, working in war torn countries, makes no meaning because she didn't marry a man to "crown" it all.

I live in a setting where women are no longer marriage-shamed as your likes still do in Nigeria as a way of feeling better with your own lives and I do have 3 female colleagues who are married.......to fellow women and boldly display their wedding pictures on their office tables, go tell dem say dem never marry

They are also women who would only love to get pregnant (naturally or via uterine insemination) and birth children without being married.

Once again, not every woman desires a man, sexually...not to talk of marriage to one.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by nicerod(m): 3:22pm On Jan 07, 2023
grin grin



Na pedin wey Don chop bellefu dey marry o




Who go dash me N500

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Karleb(m): 3:27pm On Jan 07, 2023
It is.

When I have what I want, getting married will be the next.

I want to be taken care of.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Ishilove: 4:25pm On Jan 07, 2023
Yet every weekend people block the roads because of wedding receptions. Continue fooling yourselves

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Magnoliaa(f): 4:44pm On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
you guys used Rita Dominic and Genevieve Nnaji as an examples of successful woman that doesn’t need to get married, they are both married now

Oloni on Twitter preached againts men, she got engaged last month, no matter how long these women lie to themselves about not needing to get married to a man or even have a son for him even outside of wedlock, reality will still hit them hard in the face when the time comes

Rest.

Shola and Rollo Tomassi too are married.

Even the godfather of redpillers on Facebook is married as well.

So watin you dey talk?

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Magnoliaa(f): 4:52pm On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
you guys used Rita Dominic and Genevieve Nnaji as an examples of successful woman that doesn’t need to get married, they are both married now

Oloni on Twitter preached againts men, she got engaged last month, no matter how long these women lie to themselves about not needing to get married to a man or even have a son for him even outside of wedlock, reality will still hit them hard in the face when the time comes

And where did Genevieve get married, by the way?

What also made you think Rita was not doing just fine before she got married, and only choose her husband because she wanted love, and it found her?

Does those women even rule out that there are both SINGLE, successful and happy women and DIVORCED, successful and happy women?

How does some women finding love and fulfilment and everything else they desire in marriage cancel the fact that other women are finding their own wants outside it? undecided

Marriage is just *A PART* of a person's life, not the BE ALL of a person's existence --- the latter which is what we "woke" women have always "preached" --- and if that simple distinction is hard for you to understand... I don't know.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Magnoliaa(f): 4:57pm On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
you guys used Rita Dominic and Genevieve Nnaji as an examples of successful woman that doesn’t need to get married, they are both married now

Oloni on Twitter preached againts men, she got engaged last month, no matter how long these women lie to themselves about not needing to get married to a man or even have a son for him even outside of wedlock, reality will still hit them hard in the face when the time comes

And lastly, I want to understand this conundrum.

Why do you INSULT women with a thing that brings sadness and frustration to men's life? Why?

Why do you mock women with incompleteness and loneliness and all sorts outside of marriage?

How do we resolve this issue? Should you not rather become some sort of women's rights activist and URGE women to desist from marriage?

Why do you 'scare' women with eternal singleness and use it as a "gotcha" over them, when ultimately, partnering with women doesn't bring men joy?

Should y'all not be pro-abortion, pro-babymamaism, pro-frozen eggs, pro-singlemotherhood, pro-lifelong celibacy, pro-evening newspapership state for women WHEN marriage has no benefits for men?

But, no.

You will shame these choices that absolutely has nothing to do with men... so I wonder who you are really deceiving...

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Magnoliaa(f): 5:03pm On Jan 07, 2023
And the funniest thing, in yalls blatant shamelesness, you hailed this **** on this thread- https://www.nairaland.com/7505680/brief-dietary-recall-how-wife.

There was no name your gender did not call the women on this thread who were calling out the hypocrisy of a man that insults Nigerian women but is actively married to one, but you want to drag Oloni, or say women will eventually need men...same men they've bashed.

Y'all will cry #NotAllMen at any slight accusation, to tell us that there are good men amongst you people, so why do you think Oloni, Rita and co. did not get married to those few good men?

Mtcheeeeeeewwwwwww.

Abeg jo.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Magnoliaa(f): 5:09pm On Jan 07, 2023
Gadafii:
Continuation———-

Don’t marry with the mindset that you and your wife will share financial responsibilities, you go see shege, marry when you are completely ready and capable of providing all that’s needed to sustain the family...

grin grin grin

Dey play. Just dey play...

What a way to water down and make a mockery of your whole premise.

Marriage is not important to men, but you went ahead to advice them on WHY and when to marry. See as you just made of mess of everything...

If marriage no dey important, as a basic rule (of thumb), then wtf does a man need a family for?? ?? ??

If marriage is not important to men, then all your elaborations and analyses are null. Null!

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jan 07, 2023
SerikiFulani:
Marriage is for weak men smiley


Is your papa a weak man? Or are you from a generation of baby mamaism?

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Magnoliaa(f): 5:18pm On Jan 07, 2023
And you're here advising men to marry when they are financially ready and are completely capable of managing a family, but when women say EXACTLY the same thing, you will demonise them and call them hypergamists and golddiggers and whatnots that our mothers did not marry our fathers rich or financially comfortable.

Are you now encouraging an entitlement mentality in women? grin undecided

Abi which one?

Is it a sin to want a man who is stable and can take care of marital responsibilities as a woman? Is it manipulative or natural for a woman to say she wants a PROVIDING man?

Note that; you gave just the SAME advice up there in case you think to call me out on what is not.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Biglittlelois(f): 5:21pm On Jan 07, 2023
Oga Op, you really need to prepare for continuous wailing for centuries to come till infinity (that is if anyone will remember a moniker like yours once existed), cry till thy kingdom come, marriage will continue to exist, men and women will continue to marry each other, you and other wailers can't do nothing about it, better prepare your mind for this inevitable fact of life.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Magnoliaa(f): 5:32pm On Jan 07, 2023
When women get married, you'll lap it up and use it as think-pieces to dissect a woman's nature (cc; Rita, Oloni, etc).

When women get divorced (cc; Tiwa, Melinda; Shakira), you will still lick it and use it as a proof of women's nature.

Nawa ooo. grin grin grin

Young, old, single, broke, feminist, traditional, working class, trench babe, celebrity, childless, after 3 ... EVERYTHING is all pointers to a woman's nature and we should all supposedly be avoided.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by DMerciful(m): 5:58pm On Jan 07, 2023
Men and women are not same. When will this generation of women get this simple fact?
Magnoliaa:
And you're here advising men to marry when they are financially ready and are completely capable of managing a family, but when women say EXACTLY the same thing, you will demonise them and call them hypergamists and golddiggers and whatnots that our mothers did not marry our fathers rich or financially comfortable.

Are you now encouraging an entitlement mentality in women? grin undecided

Abi which one?

Is it a sin to want a man who is stable and can take care of marital responsibilities as a woman? Is it manipulative or natural for a woman to say she wants a PROVIDING man?

Note that; you gave just the SAME advice up there in case you think to call me out on what is not.

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by Magnoliaa(f): 6:02pm On Jan 07, 2023
DMerciful:
Men and women are not same. When will this generation of women get this simple fact?

It is not really a must to quote me to find my mouth if you don't have anything ******** to say. smiley

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Re: Dear Men, Marriage Is Not Important To You!!! by DMerciful(m): 6:07pm On Jan 07, 2023
But you know its true. I honestly do not understand why women compare themselves with men. Men understand the strength and peculiarities of women however women debate the strength and peculiarities of men.

Biological we're not same, physically we're not same, survivability women are stronger and we never argue these, emotionally we're not same, ability to multitask we're not same so why do you guys wanna be men? grin

Na wa o. Everything women will flip a situation to say if its a woman bla bla bla grin
Magnoliaa:


It is not really a must to quote me to find my mouth if you don't have anything ******** to say. smiley

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