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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by baretalk: 12:48pm On Jan 08, 2023
GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.
How many you don get?

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by adejumoke121: 12:49pm On Jan 08, 2023
LoL, you? Girlfriend in Canada? I disagree. Only lean , Young looking and fit guy are getting sex. You, on the contrary, are big, weighing around 105kg. LoL Just kiddingLoL, you? Girlfriend in Canada? I disagree. Only lean , Young looking and fit guy are getting sex. You, on the contrary, are big, weighing around 105kg. LoL Just kidding...
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Domainer1999: 12:51pm On Jan 08, 2023
Jeon:

Lolz only person wher no know howfar go believe what they're saying.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


What's your name
Sandra
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Jeon(m): 12:52pm On Jan 08, 2023
Domainer1999:
Come and assist your sister here
https://www.nairaland.com/7515193/siofra-come-borrow-me-10k#119832439


I don already commented on the post.

All nairaland men are self made billionaire. They need no money from evening newspaper for survival.

So call out your fellow Men.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ZINNYBANKS: 12:52pm On Jan 08, 2023
siofra:



This is what my Russian friend told me. When I told him I'm a virgin, he said he thought it's easier to get someone to Bleep in Nigeria than in Russia grin

Man is so lonely, even though he's rich and Russia isn't even a feminist country but things are getting pretty bad. I almost pitied him sha.


I can't wait for this same feminism to reach Nigeria sha.
Youre a virgin for real ?? Wow cool let me disvirgin you . thou being your first time it can hurt a lil bit but I promise to go easy and add sum lubs... wink

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by baretalk: 12:56pm On Jan 08, 2023
flokii:


I can picture how bad the thing is.. some folks in Nigeria still get depressed over loneliness and lack of love not to talk of countries abroad where things are done differently, you can't quarrel or poke nose into another man's business in peace. To greet neighbor sef na wahala.
Any small thing, gunshots or court case, you must mind your business in America or Europe grin

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 1:00pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Lastly, forget about using your money to score a chick. Hypergamy and feminism is crazy, you will fail and you still won't get sex. Same apply to a woman

I'm sorry, but someone needs to debunk some lies we say here about white chick wanting black dick, no they don't want you, and that happen 99% of the time unless you really have the look game, look young, and work out that your chest is basically obvious
so i travel oyibo hustle na woman i go chase nobi money again olosho no dey Dia again

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by tensazangetsu20(m): 1:02pm On Jan 08, 2023
Bonesbreaker:
so i travel oyibo hustle na woman i go chase nobi money again olosho no dey Dia again

Olosho dey select customer. If you no fine they no go gree Bleep you.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by kkins25(m): 1:03pm On Jan 08, 2023
Kaycee54321:
Lol.

What do you expect?

The human society is built on classism. I've forgotten where I saw this silly (but honest) scale of value:
White Kids
White Women
Black Kids
White Men
Asian Women
...

...

Pets
..

...
...

Black Men.

So if you're an average black man in the West, it really shouldn't be surprising that you won't be getting any knacks. Even Black Women on your level will turn their noses when you approach them because a woman's default mode is to go for a higher class of men.

Again, classism. A 6'3 Kayode with a diluted American accent will have his ball sac full of sperm compared to a 5'5 Kevin Hart whose idea of a good time can involve a trip on a private Jet to Ibiza.

Did you see where Saudi Arabia adjusted their laws to accommodate Cristiano Ronaldo living with his girlfriend, Georgina. As in, the man made a whole country bend their laws instead of proposing to his girlfriend.

Lol. It is what it is.
You adapt or die complain endlessly.
Really?? CHRISTANO is forever GOATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Verifiedtrader(m): 1:06pm On Jan 08, 2023
E be things.
Get your T-Mobile esim from me.

Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jan 08, 2023
ednut1:
well he is right, I heard they reject black men due to big dick and not cumming fast. Only a few 9ja guys are getting pussy. I no wan use myself as example cos my babe fit go see am. Women on dating apps want just 10% of men, my friend in this Canada has like 4 black 2 white babes he is nacking steady. Meanwhile i also have friends who came to Canada 2 years ago wey never collect kiss hahahaahahaha

Be like say na only you and your Nigerian friend they knack for the whole north America.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jan 08, 2023
Okonandmary:


Be like say na only you and your Nigerian friend they knack for the whole north America.

Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 1:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Lastly, forget about using your money to score a chick. Hypergamy and feminism is crazy, you will fail and you still won't get sex. Same apply to a woman

I'm sorry, but someone needs to debunk some lies we say here about white chick wanting black dick, no they don't want you, and that happen 99% of the time unless you really have the look game, look young, and work out that your chest is basically obvious

I stated the same few weeks ago:

Gerrard59:


That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", I am always curious. The vast majority of Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), and this worsens the situation. I have watched videos from recent japa folks in the UK, with the kind of faces they have, I see why fvck eludes them. Nigerian men are not handsome, people should not be deceived by it. I noticed this in a relationship Facebook group I am a member of - almost the dudes were not good-looking compared to the ladies (even without makeup).

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by olaeffect(m): 1:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
Bonesbreaker:
so i travel oyibo hustle na woman i go chase nobi money again olosho no dey Dia again

Hmmm, Olosho no dey Canada oooo.
14yrs imprisonment na im you wan take play so.
Don't know about any other country, but Canada own is another story entirely.
Make God come make you know dey major city like Toronto grin
As Capital as Ottawa is, it only has 3 strip club, you can quote me.
A strip club has been the action I have gotten closest to sex for the one year I have been here.
Op is right ooo. Don't let anybody that is not here deceive you with what they see in movies.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by tensazangetsu20(m): 1:28pm On Jan 08, 2023
olaeffect:


Hmmm, Olosho no dey Canada oooo.
14yrs imprisonment na im you wan take play so.
Don't know about any other country, but Canada own is another story entirely.
Make God come make you know dey major city like Toronto grin
As Capital as Ottawa is, it only has 3 strip club, you can quote me.
A strip club has been the action I have gotten to sex for the one year I have been here.
Op is right ooo. Don't let anybody that is not here deceive you with what they see in movies.

Omho this is very scary. shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Mille: 1:31pm On Jan 08, 2023
Let me share my own experience in Europe. Before leaving for Europe, I cohabited for the last two years in school. We continued our cohabitation when I finished school and returned to Lagos until the day I left for Europe. So I had no problem getting sex since I left for Europe.

I enrolled in a Masters program where I get to spend at least 6 months each in different countries. Then, I was a skinny average dude.

1. First Stop: Cluj, ROMANIA;
-Beautiful women all through. Student city. I think this is the country with the most beautiful women in the world. Matched with plenty people on Tinder. Went for some dates mostly with fellow students but I think they were more curious than interested due to the scarcity of black people. One even mentioned if Nigerians don't eat vegetable oil because I'm not as bulky as those black Americans. I think the fact that I wasn't staying long in Romania didn't help either.

Loved a Portuguese exchange student who stayed on the same floor with me and was taking her time returning the favor after dates and group clubbing (I was only clubbing because I liked her). Finally scored a Romanian/Hungarian girl after two months and mehn, she was a screamer. The whole floor knew what was going on throughout the night. Word got to the Portuguese girl and she became distant. The Romanian girl essentially became my girlfriend till I left Romania. Homely and submissive. Honestly, the best relationship I ever had. Took me to her parents, bleeped her there. When it was time to leave, she didn't want distant relationship and asked that I leave school and we can relocate to the UK as a couple. I rejected it (sometimes I regret rejecting that offer)

2. Next Stop; Kassel, GERMANY.

I think Germans are the worst women a man will ever date. Ugly, assertive, domineering and always frowning.

This was where I finally understand how hard it is in Europe. For the first months, I didn't even score female friendship with Germans (I think the fact that I don't speak German is a big determinant). I was always able to do so with Nigerian and African women but not with the Germans or other Europeans. On my multiple trips to Frankfurt, I thought about branching many of the multiple sex houses, but man, I'll never enjoy paid sex.

I was finally able to score a 40+ divorced German mom of 3 who stayed in a small City close to Frankfurt. This was the hardest I have done to convince a woman. Her daughter was 18+ and it usually felt somehow when I go there on weekends. But mehn, I was grateful for the avenue to cum.

I think if you're interested in African women, you won't have problems in Germany as long as you're above the same African woman in a social standing. If not, OYO. African Men have been here without having sex for years. African women have been lonely here for years because they want commitment. Both African Men and women are not having sex together because their needs are different.

3. LYON, FRANCE:

I want to forget my experience in France. It was so dry. I wasn't even scoring matches online. And the ones you meet face to face will give you their number and leave you in read. I was left with the opportunity of returning to Germany and continuing the final semester in Lyon, mehn, I ran back to Germany.

4. HAMBURG, GERMANY.

I finally stayed in a big English speaking city. Met many Nigerians here as I also rented a flat with other Nigerians. To get women here, you have to be ready to club. If you can deceive African and Nigerian women about your finances and your commitment to marriage, you'll get a lot of black pussies. Many Africans here have finished their studies and are finally in the big city to earn cash. They have also come to the realization that they are getting older without a partner and that the white men only used them to satisfy a fetish.

My Opinion of German women remain the same. Unless you like the challenge of masculine women. People don't even know Angela Merkel has an Husband. Fortunately, there are plenty of fishes in this city that are not Germans. So if you dress well, have your finance in order and outgoing, you shouldn't have a problem getting laid. To do less work chasing women, just target the plus-sized ones.

Unfortunately, I caught a bacterial infection which was causing a lump under my armpit. Before, during and after the surgery, I was all alone in the hospital. My roommates wey busy racking up shifts, my lays were not there during the time of need, I finally appreciated the communalism of Nigeria and the need for a partner and not random sex objects. I returned home to Nigeria, started working remotely, got married and had a daughter.

I expect to go back to the abroad this year or the next. I'm not in a hurry though as I earn USD from here.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 1:37pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


Women can get sex as much as they want no matter how ugly they look because men are thirsty. But women don't just want just sex, they what the love, care, attention and the commitment. But you ain't finding these in the abroad as an average black woman if you are not extremely beautiful

This is true, and it is worse in East Asia. When I met a Gambian who said she dates a Japanese, I was stunned. Even white women have it worse in East and South East Asia as their white brothers are swooned over by Asian females. So you can imagine it for black females. It is why anytime I recall the female Nairalander who chose Hong Kong instead of Canada because Canada is boring, I dey burst laugh. grin grin

https://vagabondish.com/female-foreign-japan/ A tale of a white woman who lived in Japan.

White men are really privileged. Their grandparents tried for them.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Regex: 1:38pm On Jan 08, 2023
Verifiedtrader:
E be things.
Get your T-Mobile esim from me.

Justwise.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 1:42pm On Jan 08, 2023
siofra:


Well if I'm still a virgin at 31, I'm sure I'll do fine. Sex is not important, it doesn't make one whole.

As for relationships, you can join groups with people with the same interests like you like a book club, kayaking, sky diving, hiking, camping. It must not be a romantic relationship, platonic relationships are fine.

This is something most tend to overlook. The issue is these men have had countless sexual intercourses while in Nigeria, so being in an environment where they cannot replicate or repeat those intercourses gets them hormonally imbalanced. While in Nigeria, I did not involve in sexual intercourse even when I had the opportunity, so being here and getting none does not bother me one bit. Whereas my guy is planning to bring his girlfriend over once he is done with his studies because in his words "kongi wan kill man especially in this winter".

To be honest though, if one is used to sex, winter is a terribly bad time if one is not getting a fair dose of it.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by juman(m): 1:47pm On Jan 08, 2023
olaeffect:


Hmmm, Olosho no dey Canada oooo.
14yrs imprisonment na im you wan take play so.
Don't know about any other country, but Canada own is another story entirely.
Make God come make you know dey major city like Toronto grin
As Capital as Ottawa is, it only has 3 strip club, you can quote me.
A strip club has been the action I have gotten to sex for the one year I have been here.
Op is right ooo. Don't let anybody that is not here deceive you with what they see in movies.

Olosho dey everywhere in the world.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Neddstark: 1:50pm On Jan 08, 2023
If you're a real nigga who knows how to woo a woman, even if you're in Saudi Arabia getting pússy will never be a big problem.

Its Nigerian women that suffer this.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nyascobar1414: 1:53pm On Jan 08, 2023
I love these relaity..
Most ugly naija guys that usually say "Na money be fine bobo". They will turn to Indonesian monks..


In the next 6yrs,world population will reduce.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nyascobar1414: 1:54pm On Jan 08, 2023
Neddstark:
If you're a real nigga who knows how to woo a woman, even if you're in Saudi Arabia getting pússy will never be a big problem.

Its Nigerian women that suffer this.

coconut head, abi you no dey hear word?

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Johnchrix(m): 2:05pm On Jan 08, 2023
Neddstark:
If you're a real nigga who knows how to woo a woman, even if you're in Saudi Arabia getting pússy will never be a big problem.

Its Nigerian women that suffer this.

You are right anyways, tho in uk, it's somewhat different because no one has your time.. the excessive access to kpekus is one many problem of Nigeria. our birth rate is too high.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 2:07pm On Jan 08, 2023
Neddstark:
If you're a real nigga who knows how to woo a woman, even if you're in Saudi Arabia getting pússy will never be a big problem.

Its Nigerian women that suffer this.

This is how you would get into trouble. You think abroad is Nigeria where you stop women along the road anyhow or walk up to a stranger and ask for number? You even used Saudi Arabia to buttress your post. It is like you don't like yourself. I am not fazed by it because I was used to it while in Nigeria, but what the OP said is true, and it is extreme in societies with very few black people. Even at that, black ladies are not interested in most black guys. If this can happen in the UK, imagine the same in Finland, Norway etc. The black men who might score chicks will be African Americans who by virtue of being American citizens, are seen as top-class men.

But for a black African man? grin grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 2:08pm On Jan 08, 2023
Raalsalghul:


Na wa oh!

Guy man go dey curse him existence now. cry

Gerr.ard59, this is the more reason you shouldn't blame some men when they want to come home and "Bleep all the baddest bitches" with foreign currency earned over the years Their eyes don see something.

I saw you calling out one the other day. cheesy

I recall that post of mine when I met a Gambian lady recently, Man! See yansh and breasts! That was when my hypothesis that if you were born and raised in a black-dominated society for at least 25 years and later relocate to a non-black society, you will always yearn for some features found in that black-dominated society came to fore. This Gambian lady had the features of a typical black African woman. I have met a Jamaican lady, and she did not wow as this Gambian lady did. However, all the black women I have come across had typical features you would expect in a black woman. In fact, at that moment, I forgave Nairaland men who said one of the best things to enjoy in Nigeria as a rich person is the availability of sexual partners. With what I saw, I see why some men plan travelling to parts of sub-Saharan Africa just to fvck.

The day I saw a Japanese girl (could have been Korean who knows) at the train station that had bigger than usual boobs, I murmured see breasts! shocked shocked E no dey common. So, when you see one, you praise Master Jesus.

So yes, I forgive them for I did not know what they have gone through. Now, I understand. cry

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Gerrard59(m): 2:12pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


Like you get I am fat and I cant see my dick and I can still get laid in naija. Abroad what will be my fate. I just pray tinubu can make Nigeria good o.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by mystery22: 2:15pm On Jan 08, 2023
ednut1:
hahahahahahaha you wish. I be 6ft 3 , i no ugly too, and i get swag. Pussy is not a problem for me here cheesy
e be like say 5ft9 goodlooking guy with game don collect the only babe you manage get

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Neddstark: 2:20pm On Jan 08, 2023
Gerrard59:


This is how you would get into trouble. You think abroad is Nigeria where you stop women along the road anyhow or walk up to a stranger and ask for number? You even used Saudi Arabia to buttress your post. It is like you don't like yourself. I am not fazed by it because I was used to it while in Nigeria, but what the OP said is true, and it is extreme in societies with very few black people. Even at that, black ladies are not interested in most black guys. If this can happen in the UK, imagine the same in Finland, Norway etc. The black men who might score chicks will be African Americans who by virtue of being American citizens, are seen as top-class men.

But for a black African man? grin grin grin

Was in Copenhagen last year. Wanted to score a white chic. I didn't have to stop a lady on the street. I dont even do that in Naija. I joined 3 dating apps in my 2 weeks workstay there. Paid for premium plan, sent messages to many. My pickup lines were engaging. Got 3 willing hookups. Though i must confess 2 were 40+. So sex was not a problem.
Reason why i was successful and others weren't is because i went to a dating app. In dating apps, 80% of people there are in need for sex and romantic encounters. So you may find what you want.
Works same here. In Naija, i have screwed more from online than offline.
On the Saudi matter, i was exaggerating grin

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by olaeffect(m): 2:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
juman:


Olosho dey everywhere in the world.


You think your Nigerian mentality is the world standard abi?
There are places in this world that laws exist and people abide by it.

If you think say you get craze, I beg you with God; try come Canada come misbehave grin
Even American citizens they calm down when dey enter Canada.

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