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My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by mascot345: 4:43pm On Jan 08, 2023
I don't know why most Nigerian girls are into money like this. She is in final year pharmacy. We have dated for 2 years now... I told her I want to marry her this year.. Maybe October or November... She told me I can't fund her dreams.. She told me she wan own Pharmacy store before or after marriage...

When I inquired from my friend who is a pharmacist how much it will cost to own one. He said it will cost nothing less than #5million.

My friends have told me to forget everything about her.

I managed to save #1million last year though after so much expenses o. I showed the girl... The babe told me that my savings is too small for us to think about marriage this year.

My salary na 400k monthly... The babe still said that is won't be enough for us that things are expensive.

All my friends have asked to run o
... But my ex girlfriend said I should save and establish my wife to be.

This is where I became so confused...

Though.... I told her .. I am not interested in marrying her or dating her again. I no do again o. #5million Dream is a big dream.....

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by ahiboilandgas: 4:51pm On Jan 08, 2023
mascot345:
I don't know why most Nigerian girls are into money like this. She is in final year pharmacy. We have dated for 2 years now... I told her I want to marry her this year.. Maybe October or November... She told me I can't fund her dreams.. She told me she wan own Pharmacy store before or after marriage...

When I inquired from my friend who is a pharmacist how much it will cost to own one. He said it will cost nothing less than #5million.

My friends have told me to forget everything about her.

I managed to save #1million last year though after so much expenses o. I showed the girl... The babe told me that my savings is too small for us to think about marriage this year.

My salary na 400k monthly... The babe still said that is won't be enough for us that things are expensive.

All my friends have asked to run o
... But my ex girlfriend said I should save and establish my wife to be.

This is where I became so confused...

Though.... I told her .. I am not interested in marrying her or dating her again. I no do again o. #5million Dream is a big dream.....
you can sell you kidney for 10m ! 5m for her 5 m for marriage ! Na luv

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Daniel7543: 4:58pm On Jan 08, 2023
Does ur girlfriend name start with S or J? If yes then that must be Siofra or Jennyclay. My brother Japa. Japa

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by ritmek(f): 5:00pm On Jan 08, 2023
That amount is on the high side. If she loves you she will understand your point of view.

She should also put some work into it, graduate, go for service and work for a while to gather part of the money.

If she doesn’t understand you now Mehn…. you have to think about your proposal well…the ball is in your court

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by mascot345: 5:04pm On Jan 08, 2023
ritmek:
That amount is on the high side. If she loves you she will understand your point of view.

She should also put some work into it, graduate, go for service and work for a while to gather part of the money.

If she doesn’t understand you now Mehn…. you have to think about your proposal well…the ball is in your court
..

Wow best advice... Thank u so much. I appreciate... It seems like she wants me to fund everything.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Autobot05: 5:05pm On Jan 08, 2023
mascot345:
I don't know why most Nigerian girls are into money like this. She is in final year pharmacy. We have dated for 2 years now... I told her I want to marry her this year.. Maybe October or November... She told me I can't fund her dreams.. She told me she wan own Pharmacy store before or after marriage...

When I inquired from my friend who is a pharmacist how much it will cost to own one. He said it will cost nothing less than #5million.

My friends have told me to forget everything about her.

I managed to save #1million last year though after so much expenses o. I showed the girl... The babe told me that my savings is too small for us to think about marriage this year.

My salary na 400k monthly... The babe still said that is won't be enough for us that things are expensive.

All my friends have asked to run o
... But my ex girlfriend said I should save and establish my wife to be.

This is where I became so confused...

Though.... I told her .. I am not interested in marrying her or dating her again. I no do again o. #5million Dream is a big dream.....

Tell her to find someone that can fund her dreams
Why show a woman your savings in the first place ?? If she was in your position will she show you ?? This is what happens to men that use money to impress women ... I think it's her parents duty to establish her before you marry her or she can establish herself ( I wont advice you to help her so much if she wants to establish herself when you are mot yet married cause it will end in premium tears) its not your duty

I no no where una dey go see these criminals sef

Run for your life bro ..God just exposed her and she made such comment before you married her


Big dreams ain't bad ... just that you must be ready to work for it .. ask the finest entrepreneurs on this planet

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by hisgrace090: 5:05pm On Jan 08, 2023
The Ghana guy last year says befriending them is like taking care of orphans and it not far from the truth.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Danielomisco(m): 5:07pm On Jan 08, 2023
ahiboilandgas:
you can sell you kidney for 10m ! 5m for her 5 m for marriage ! Na luv
nice reply. OP don't be stupid 20m.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Domainer1999: 5:20pm On Jan 08, 2023
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by obinna58(m): 5:26pm On Jan 08, 2023
Stop disturbing yourself nigga, she’s just not into you probably bcoz you’re trying to impress her.
If you try to impress her she’ll take you for granted but if you command, control and show her authority she’ll wet all over herself and be the one supporting your dreams instead of you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by PerfectStranger(m): 5:27pm On Jan 08, 2023
You’re earning 400k yet she still ain’t satisfied, bro you’ve been dating an orphan.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by mascot345: 5:32pm On Jan 08, 2023
Autobot05:


Tell her to find someone that can fund her dreams
Why show a woman your savings in the first place ?? If she was in your position will she show you ?? This is what happens to men that use money to impress women ... I think it's her parents duty to establish her before you marry her or she can establish herself ( I wont advice you to help her so much if she wants to establish herself when you are mot yet married cause it will end in premium tears) its not your duty

I no no where una dey go see these criminals sef

Run for your life bro ..God just exposed her and she made such comment before you married her


Big dreams ain't bad ... just that you must be ready to work for it .. ask the finest entrepreneurs on this planet
.

Thank you so much Bro... I really appreciate.
Very good advice.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Janesouthall: 5:36pm On Jan 08, 2023
mascot345:
I don't know why most Nigerian girls are into money like this. She is in final year pharmacy. We have dated for 2 years now... I told her I want to marry her this year.. Maybe October or November... She told me I can't fund her dreams.. She told me she wan own Pharmacy store before or after marriage...

When I inquired from my friend who is a pharmacist how much it will cost to own one. He said it will cost nothing less than #5million.

My friends have told me to forget everything about her.

I managed to save #1million last year though after so much expenses o. I showed the girl... The babe told me that my savings is too small for us to think about marriage this year.

My salary na 400k monthly... The babe still said that is won't be enough for us that things are expensive.

All my friends have asked to run o
... But my ex girlfriend said I should save and establish my wife to be.

This is where I became so confused...

Though.... I told her .. I am not interested in marrying her or dating her again. I no do again o. #5million Dream is a big dream.....

Red Flag Noted!!! Op Advice ur self here...
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by jimmychang: 5:40pm On Jan 08, 2023
Why is it that some guys don't get it.They will never get it until they see shege.That girl go play you, you go cry come here come dey swear for yourself.

You even showed the girl how much you are earning also showed her how much you saved.Nigga you dey on a long thing.

You dey show woman your account balance. cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Nyascobar1414: 5:49pm On Jan 08, 2023
mascot345:
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Wow best advice... Thank u so much. I appreciate... It seems like she wants me to fund everything.

Women dont love men..
Women use men..

The reality of this comment will show its face years later..
Dey play,just dey play..

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Nyascobar1414: 5:54pm On Jan 08, 2023
Money in the wrong hands..

Op is earning upto 400k but he is still simping..

Just sell your kidney and do it for her..

Note: One of the prerequisite of falling in love as a man is:

1. You have to make stup!d decisions.
2. You have to make stup!d sacrifices.
3.You will weep at last..

A man is a logical being, when once that logical being falls in love ,he is emotional..love mostly thrives on emotions.. An emotional man is bound to be stup!d.

Never take care of an adult(girlfriend or wife) in the name of love.. Thats the job of her parents of guardian..

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by stacyadams: 6:06pm On Jan 08, 2023
mascot345:
I don't know why most Nigerian girls are into money like this. She is in final year pharmacy. We have dated for 2 years now... I told her I want to marry her this year.. Maybe October or November... She told me I can't fund her dreams.. She told me she wan own Pharmacy store before or after marriage...

When I inquired from my friend who is a pharmacist how much it will cost to own one. He said it will cost nothing less than #5million.

My friends have told me to forget everything about her.

I managed to save #1million last year though after so much expenses o. I showed the girl... The babe told me that my savings is too small for us to think about marriage this year.

My salary na 400k monthly... The babe still said that is won't be enough for us that things are expensive.

All my friends have asked to run o
... But my ex girlfriend said I should save and establish my wife to be.

This is where I became so confused...

Though.... I told her .. I am not interested in marrying her or dating her again. I no do again o. #5million Dream is a big dream.....
...your friends told u to run ,yet u want to stay .oya continue

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Nemesis0147(m): 6:41pm On Jan 08, 2023
Forget about your babe first

Your salary is 400k and you saved only 1m the whole year?
U get project for hand Abi wetin

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by BlackyOne: 6:44pm On Jan 08, 2023
400k monthly salary and you only saved 1million shocked ,

Maybe you deserve this your girlfriend truly undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Chris2863(m): 6:54pm On Jan 08, 2023
400k as salary and you can’t boast of 1m plus as savings in a year. You need to learn how to manage finances. By the way, that babe’s gonna be your end if you are not careful

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by mascot345: 6:56pm On Jan 08, 2023
Nemesis0147:
Forget about your babe first

Your salary is 400k and you saved only 1m the whole year?
U get project for hand Abi wetin
.

Too many family issues.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Orgasmgiver123(m): 6:59pm On Jan 08, 2023
Do it bruv
After all people who bares your name are always daft

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by braunny(m): 7:03pm On Jan 08, 2023
mascot345:
I don't know why most Nigerian girls are into money like this. She is in final year pharmacy. We have dated for 2 years now... I told her I want to marry her this year.. Maybe October or November... She told me I can't fund her dreams.. She told me she wan own Pharmacy store before or after marriage...

When I inquired from my friend who is a pharmacist how much it will cost to own one. He said it will cost nothing less than #5million.

My friends have told me to forget everything about her.

I managed to save #1million last year though after so much expenses o. I showed the girl... The babe told me that my savings is too small for us to think about marriage this year.

My salary na 400k monthly... The babe still said that is won't be enough for us that things are expensive.

All my friends have asked to run o
... But my ex girlfriend said I should save and establish my wife to be.

This is where I became so confused...

Though.... I told her .. I am not interested in marrying her or dating her again. I no do again o. #5million Dream is a big dream.....
the times of meaningful topics and sensible discussions are unfortunately over on nairaland......
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jan 08, 2023
mascot345:
I don't know why most Nigerian girls are into money like this. She is in final year pharmacy. We have dated for 2 years now... I told her I want to marry her this year.. Maybe October or November... She told me I can't fund her dreams.. She told me she wan own Pharmacy store before or after marriage...

When I inquired from my friend who is a pharmacist how much it will cost to own one. He said it will cost nothing less than #5million.

My friends have told me to forget everything about her.

I managed to save #1million last year though after so much expenses o. I showed the girl... The babe told me that my savings is too small for us to think about marriage this year.

My salary na 400k monthly... The babe still said that is won't be enough for us that things are expensive.

All my friends have asked to run o
... But my ex girlfriend said I should save and establish my wife to be.

This is where I became so confused...

Though.... I told her .. I am not interested in marrying her or dating her again. I no do again o. #5million Dream is a big dream.....
And she's trying to help your future.
Is it that you don't v money at all, does t v faith to save or you just think her dream is too big? No dream is too big.
If you marry her, the pharmacy is still yours.
Try and work things out
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Sixfeetbelle: 7:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
PerfectStranger:
You’re earning 400k yet she still ain’t satisfied, bro you’ve been dating an orphan.

Does he sound like someone who's earning 400k?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by ifihearam: 9:20pm On Jan 08, 2023
Sweetplum:

And she's trying to help your future.
Is it that you don't v money at all, does t v faith to save or you just think her dream is too big? No dream is too big.
If you marry her, the pharmacy is still yours.
Try and work things out

All your life on nairaland is being foolish and stupid..senseless.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Ballzproblem2: 9:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
Nigeria men never learn , dating girl that have no source of income, you think a lady earning that amount will look any man face earning below #1m? why una no wan get sense.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by ifihearam: 9:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
@op

You know deep down this girl does not like you not to mention love
It may seem as though you are the one being desperate here..other wifeable women would be contented with 400k and a little support from her.

On the bright side, if she were into you that would be a side investment for you as pharmacy is a very lucrative business all over the world.

My problem here is she is giving you an ultimatum not even trying to build a future with you or patient with you hence i advise you look elsewhere...trust me she has ALTERNATIVES. whoever does it first is where she goes.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by benqo01(m): 9:41pm On Jan 08, 2023
RUN O U WILL BE SEEING PREMIUM SHEGE SOON
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jan 08, 2023
ifihearam:


All your life on nairaland is being foolish and stupid..senseless.
All your life on nairaland it's to attack innocent girls like a cow.

Na jeje I dey my dey. If you wan bark, go to your family house n bark
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Autobot05: 10:38pm On Jan 08, 2023
Sweetplum:

All your life on nairaland it's to attack innocent girls like a cow.

Na jeje I dey my dey. If you wan bark, go to your family house n bark

Honey why did you run from your own thread cheesy
Lmao
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking Me To Invest #5million In Her b4 Or after Marriage by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jan 08, 2023
Autobot05:


Honey why did you run from your own thread cheesy
Lmao
Have I seen you before?
Swerve!

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