Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Dot your "I's " and cross your "T's " if you are not ready to answer "DON'T YOU SAW THE SIGNS BEFORE YOU SAY I DO" ? A word is enough for the wise

Na even woman wey don born b4. Some ladies are just destined to be baby mamas. U can't change it!

Fmartin:


Thanks a lot �

My simple advise: she can have your baby without becoming your wife. She already has a child out of wedlock, it didn't faze her, else she would have shown more discipline in your relationship with her.
She's about to have a second child for a different man, yet communicates with her (not ex) boyfriends freely when you're around.

Sorry, but she is still fvcking them.
What makes you even believe the pregnancy is yours?

Sigh!

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby...
Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

If you can't afford a DNA test and you believe the baby is yours, stop any wedding ceremony planning for now.

Take responsibility for the baby till you can save up for a DNA test.

You said it's like she used juju — go to church and PRAY HARD e.g MFM or CAC church.

Meanwhile, no more sex with that girl. You should not sleep with someone you are not married to.

The girl's true intentions will become more glaring to you with time.

By the way, let's vote Peter Obi for better Nigeria

OP stop your jokes, present real life issues.

merrymended:


bros I swear that girl ll be a better wife my experience my wife is a single mother just cool down with her all her ex go leave her when she gave birth and I promise you

thank you ablot

And you sure say the pregnancy na your own? Guy you dey play �

OusmaneBicks:
The girl is more beautiful than you and she still feels she does not belong to you

below is my photo, so judge

Oga u be mumu..one month you meet a single lady wey don born one before and u nak her u go nak rawe and na why she de hold u as responsible for a pregancy that may not be yours.

You messed up , so you wanna wife a street hoe.....your own don finish bro

You saw the red flags before and now e don de manifest



Bro she is for the street that pregnancy aint urs

Notin special about toasting all dese naija gals


@womenareapezz @savedday come see bros wey mumu

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

There's no big deal haven seen her parents or taken her to your parent.
Wait until she brings forth the baby and she has a steady good character,if not dish her. Don't allow her to tie you down with the baby. I always warn guys not to get a girl pregnant with different exes calling her.
Guy, you no get sense? All the bleeps you have been fucking before you met this girl no satisfy you to be condoning nonsense. In my dating years back then, ones I see stupid character, I move.
Marriage is not something you enter when there are red flags in your partner to be.
Be warned. Don't get burned.

PerfectStranger:

You can force an elephant to the river but can’t force it to drink water.

You wan marry single mom? Lols marriage never even start you don Dey see shege. I pity your mental health.

guy for me this is a red flag. Don't marry her until the baby is born then conduct a secrete DNA test to ascertain the paternity of the child. If the child is yours give rules to follow and if don't want to dump her. Care for her and the child but never marry her.

Mumu boys full this world I swear...
This one can't even control a girlfriend and marry marry full his mouth.

I won't even date a woman that can point at me while talking...talk more of physical confrontation...

Some of you guys have no business dating at all until you can grasp what manhood is all about .

Abeg jare...wallow in your mystery...who wan advise you so?

Oga that child is not yours.
You want to get married to a wayward person? You should check yourself for STI as well. Common sense & logic should tell her that she should cut off communication with her ex since she have a serious guy that wants to get married to her. Simple.

Cancel every thought of marriage. Be wise.

Terrorwrist:
Men these days are super-weak!!

people perish for lack of knowledge.
Study. Read good books, they won't.
I hate stupidity and foolishness.

Oga one thing I always tell anyone who cares to listen is that you don't get married to a gorl simply because she is pregnant...there is 95% chance that the marriage would be a disaster.
A word is enough for the Wise!

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

she’s manipulating you, tell her you’re not marrying again you’re only interested in your child.

Fmartin:
seriously, i will show her she've messed with the Wrong guy

your matter tire me I swear

Fmartin:


Thanks a lot �

why the haste sef? You should have waited and do a DNA test on the baby before you wife her, and day is if you don't mind marrying a hoe.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

You are about to START the journey of your life on a very WRONG foot! You met a baby mama who is still resolutely enmeshed in her exes yet you are hellbent on making her a wife! With eyes wide open in broad daylight, you are deaf, dumb and blind to all the red flags flying before your eyes! You even have the temerity to justify your forward march to marriage on your offence of getting her pregnant. Who do you!? I presume it is the blindness of love! Go ahead brother, thine blindness shall soon be healed and thou shalt see clearly after thine enchanted marriage. Abi na juju?

[quote author=Fmartin post=119877790]I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Well, if you want to go on with marrying, you should also keep it at back of your mind that you’d be sharing her with her exes and extra new men she’d find along the way

[quote author=Fmartin post=119877790]I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....


run ooooo

Fmartin:
weak as in how??

Do you know how hard I have been on her?

Bro! You are very weak. If you were hard on her, you would not be here seeking for advice on what to do. That's a big red flag, it's not even sure if you are the owner of the pregnancy she's carrying.
You better find solution to your issue now, or else if you later marry her, she will grow bigger wings and it might lead to hypertension to you.
Do you know that there are more widow than widowers in Nigeria?

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Am sorry bro, you're about to get married to a hoe. That soon-to-be wife of yours is still having feelings for them exes. Her philandering lifestyle is what made her to get pregnant for them boys out there. Bitch just can't close her legs, and I wonder why you want to get married to such girl.


Cut that bitch off. Get your baby when she delivers, then she can zoom-off. Explain everything to your people so they can understand, and I also hope you're saying the truth too.

dannex4adx:


Bro! You are very weak. If you were hard on her, you would not be here seeking for advice on what to do. That's a big red flag, it's not even sure if you are the owner of the pregnancy she's carrying.
You better find solution to your issue now, or else if you later marry her, she will grow bigger wings and it might lead to hypertension to you.
Do you know that there are more widow than widowers in Nigeria?

Pls louder so he can hear very well.

Op come make I slap that your ogo head b4 I give you my expensive advice to see red flags and ignore ....A lady calling her ex Infront of you doesn't have respect for you ....Can you do that to her and she would take it lightly

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

na ur baby

Terrorwrist:
Men these days are super-weak!!

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Vigina still dey sweet this one lol

Fmartin:
Ki
I

She don't have a big phone.
The pregnancy is sure mine

I have access to her Facebook.
She's just acting cool with her exs unlike me that told them am married.

She's really hurting me.

Maybe she's getting financial favours from them that's why she is reluctant to break off contact with them

She is using that pregnancy to manipulate you.

You impregnated her which is a mistake. You mustn't marry your baby mama.

A lady who is still in contact with her exes and she can't tell them to stop �?

Are you okay, young man!
Continue to de play.

If she can't obey you on simple things like this get ready to share her in marriage with her exes. That is if she has not started sleeping with them behind your back. If she hasn't she definitely will. Perhaps she has not had the opportunity yet.

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Even if you have shown her to your parents or have millions already, it is better you let her go and save yourself from a marriage of daily premium tears of pain.

Nothing compares to peace of mind. Money can not buy it. Use your head and run for your dear life

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Why cant you change the sim card for her so that those her exs cant get her on the phone anymore. Thats very simple na.