Sometimes last month an old friend called me, she was a girl I dated for 2yrs back in Abuja 6yrs ago, I proposed to her then and her mother disagreed and warned her never to accept my proposal, she even went ahead and lay a cures on her if she eventually elope with me. For this reason we separated although it was very difficult, this make me relocated to the east and start a new life. In the mid 2022 I met a lady and decided to get married to her, I have met her family and deed the initial introduction, I took her to my people and they all accepted her. Right now my ex is calling me everyday to tell me how uncomfortable she is with her husband, how she cannot forget the moment we shared, she is even asking if she could pay me a visit. The last time she call she said her husband has not been home for a month and she is thinking about divorce. Please I need a kind advice because she is making me think a lot, she even promise to send me some money if I don't mind.

Old things have passed away and everything is now new. You have a wife now, please focus on building your family.

what do you want?..your ex or your fiancee?

just decide...while deciding,think of these scenarios, firstly if she divorce her husband,can you marry a divorcee?..even if it's against your family wishes?.. secondly,does she really want to divorce him or she is just looking for you to use you as a "head clearing" agent?.. finally whatever you decide, remember it takes a bold man(THAT HAS NEVER MARRIED BEFORE) to marry a divorcee in this part of the world..so if you can't..just focus on your fiancee...


REMEMBER WHETHER YOU CHOOSE TO BE WITH YOUR EX OR YOUR FIANCEE AT THE END, IT'S YOUR HAPPINESS THAT MATTERS...think deep...good luck

Ashlar:
Sometimes last month an old friend called me, she was a girl I dated for 2yrs back in Abuja 6yrs ago, I proposed to her then and her mother disagreed and warned her never to accept my proposal, she even went ahead and lay a cures on her if she eventually elope with me. For this reason we separated although it was very difficult, this make me relocated to the east and start a new life. In the mid 2022 I met a lady and decided to get married to her, I have met her family and deed the initial introduction, I took her to my people and they all accepted her. Right now my ex is calling me everyday to tell me how uncomfortable she is with her husband, how she cannot forget the moment we shared, she is even asking if she could pay me a visit. The last time she call she said her husband has not been home for a month and she is thinking about divorce. Please I need a kind advice because she is making me think a lot, she even promise to send me some money if I don't mind.

Someone asked what is Okafor's law

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Ashlar:
Sometimes last month an old friend called me, she was a girl I dated for 2yrs back in Abuja 6yrs ago, I proposed to her then and her mother disagreed and warned her never to accept my proposal, she even went ahead and lay a cures on her if she eventually elope with me. For this reason we separated although it was very difficult, this make me relocated to the east and start a new life. In the mid 2022 I met a lady and decided to get married to her, I have met her family and deed the initial introduction, I took her to my people and they all accepted her. Right now my ex is calling me everyday to tell me how uncomfortable she is with her husband, how she cannot forget the moment we shared, she is even asking if she could pay me a visit. The last time she call she said her husband has not been home for a month and she is thinking about divorce. Please I need a kind advice because she is making me think a lot, she even promise to send me some money if I don't mind.

Don't be the shoulder she cries on ooooo SHE IS MARRIED... she made her choice. REFER HER TO HER MOTHER... so that you can face your life.

These things happen because they have not found someone better. Pls move on quietly... SHE WILL BE OK. Don't be TEMPTED ooooo else people will cry for you

The moment enough cash enters your account that's when all the ex your left behind shows up. In your own case she wants to destroy you finally. Tell her to go and marry her mom.