There is the fine tomboy I met during Endsars
We started vibing and all stuff,along the line I ask her out and she gave me a positive reply the second day,after like 3days into the relationship I traveled to Ibadan and lost contact with her.
I came back to abk last year December and she’s now a big girl,I ask her out again and she said yes
She invited me to her house and we do all the do but no penetration(I bleeped up)no she’s telling me we should slow things down that she want to face her football career
As I’m typing right now she want us to see tomorrow and she’s the one that always plan the date
I just want to know how I’ll go about this thing I don’t want to appear like a SIMP

Your problem no clear brother. You wan knack or you no want make she face her career?

I want a relationship

swaley:
Your problem no clear brother. You wan knack or you no want make she face her career?

She wan make we knack but I want a relationship. Now I know that truly girls just want to have fun…..

If you want a relationship then you need have sex with her first
Base on what I observe it seem you are to to anxious too emotional you need to act as man and everything will work out

Mattias08:

She wan make we knack but I want a relationship. Now I know that truly girls just want to have fun…..

Keep knacking her and be there for her. I didn't say spend all your money on her. Maybe she would realise your want and later want a relationship that is if you are sure it is only she you truly want. Cheers bro

Dabronze:
If you want a relationship then you need have sex with her first
Base on what I observe it seem you are to to anxious too emotional you need to act as man and everything will work out

Omo you’ve said it all,I’m too emotional and she use to tell me stylishly that love na scam make we have fun.
She’s to rigid no scope i fii give her she go know but she likes to be with me gan

swaley:
Keep knacking her and be there for her. I didn't say spend all your money on her. Maybe she would realise your want and later want a relationship that is if you are sure it is only she you truly want. Cheers bro

There are times I have test her with the gold digger stuff but she weave am
She’s richer than me tbh….but I’m the kind of person Wey be say if I knack b4 relationship we can’t date anymore but that’s what she want

Cypress042:
You asked her out before traveling to ibadan, came back again and ask her out

I lost her contact for about 2years brr

Mattias08:

I lost her contact for about 2years brr

Had it been you bleeped her before traveling to ibadan, you wouldn't have waste your time asking her out again

Okafor's law would have been next.

Mattias08:

Omo you’ve said it all,I’m too emotional and she use to tell me stylishly that love na scam make we have fun.
She’s to rigid no scope i fii give her she go know but she likes to be with me gan

then have fun with her enjoy sex for fun its woman that will determine if she's going to have a relationship with you or not
But for now enjoy sex with and make sure you make her come for more.

Update guys abeg advice me
As per say she be tomboy e be like say this girl like toxic relationship ni ooo
She always like it when I get mad for no reason and she flare up easily and think it’s normal. She reason more like a man
Maybe she want me to tame her
How do I go about this guys