StrongAlphMale:
In response to the thread on FP. Honestly that is the most daft Post I have seen so far. Such posts promote entitlement mentality among Nigeria girls.

I don't understand how a girl who had an equal opportunity with a guy, will be lazy and be waiting for a rich man to come and bail her and her family out of poverty. One even said Rich men are generous with their money.

Dear women, you had an equal opportunity to education just as the guy had, you are healthy and complete just as the guy is, why can't you girls work your way to riches? Abi did they swear for you Nigerian girls not to become rich yourselves? Will the sky fall down if you girls work, make money and become rich yourselves? Why depending on men for survival? What kind of daft entitlement mentality is this?

I chuckled.

I understand your sentiments quite alright.

But let's be rational.

This behaviour is an evolutionary trait that made homosapiens what they are today.

The man leads and provides, while the woman manages the resources.

We see this happen in the animal kingdom all the time before our very eyes.

There are billions of men who don't mind being the provider.

It actually makes them feel fulfilled and as a man. They need that morale.

And there are women who naturally love being submissive.

The more you shout at them the more their kpekus gets wet.

You can't fight this dynamic.

Your fight should be on promiscuous feminists, not generally Nigerian women.

Women will work and make their money, but men are still meant to take care of their wives even if she's earning millions. It's only an irresponsible and not well trained man that will stop providing for his wife because she earns a lot. Well, except it's clear that the man doesn't have and him not having isn't as a result of his laziness or reliance on his wife's income.

Coz, when it comes to respect, men will demand to be respected. But they want the role of responsibilities to be shared btw them and their wives.
Only an eleribu man will not provide for his wife and saying she should go and work for her money. Take it or leave it. I'm not a feminist, but this is just the hard truth Nigerian men has find hard to come in terms with.
And when I say their woman, I didn't say girlfriend.

This generation of women are very naive and don’t understand much

Stargurl20:
Women will work and make their money, but men are still meant to take care of their wives even if she's earning millions. It's only an irresponsible and not well trained man that will stop providing for his wife because she earns a lot. Well, except it's clear that the man doesn't have and him not having isn't as a result of his laziness or reliance on his wife's income.

Coz, when it comes to respect, men will demand to be respected. But they want the role of responsibilities to be shared btw them and their wives.
Only an eleribu man will not provide for his wife and saying she should go and work for her money. Take it or leave it. I'm not a feminist, but this is just the hard truth Nigerian men has find hard to come in terms with.
And when I say their woman, I didn't say girlfriend.

So you knew all this?

Why then will a girl bills a guy she's in a relationship with? Is the guy her father or her husband? I'm glad you said it yourself that until a man marries a girls, she's not his responsibility.

However, in this Post, we're talking about girls in a relationship, or girls dating their boyfriends and not husband and wife!!!!!

Dating your boyfriend isn't a Job opportunity, if you're broke get a job and work and make your own money. Not hoeing around. That is what we're discussing here!!!! If you want to be spoilt, then get a Job, work make your own money yourself and spoil yourself. no man is responsible for taking care of you except of course your father until you're married. Or is it a crime for you women to make your own money and be Rich too? Understand that we men have standard and can never settle for less. We cannot date broke girls let alone getting married to one. So wisdom demands that every wise girl must start hustling and be rich

ogunara:
This generation of women are very naive and don’t understand much

Agreed.

They lack understanding and most of them are lazy too waiting for free money to fall from the sky

StrongAlphMale:


So you knew all this?

Why then will a girl bills a guy she's in a relationship with? Is the guy her father or her husband? I'm glad you said it yourself that until a man marries a girls, she's not his responsibility.

However, in this Post, we're talking about girls in a relationship, or girls dating their boyfriends and not husband and wife!!!!!

Dating your boyfriend isn't a Job opportunity, if you're broke get a job and work and make your own money. Not hoeing around. That is what we're discussing here!!!! If you want to be spoilt, then get a Job, work make your own money yourself and spoil yourself. no man is responsible for taking care of you except of course your father until you're married. Or is it a crime for you women to make your own money and be Rich too? Understand that we men have standard and can never settle for less. We cannot date broke girls let alone getting married to one. So wisdom demands that every wise girl must start hustling and be rich

Asking me on behalf of all girls is what I don't understand, coz I'm not all girls, and all girls are not me.
All I know is relationship shouldn't be a transaction deal. As guys shouldn't ask for sex, similarly, girls shouldn't think it's their rights to ask money from men who's not their spouse, except he's giving from his church mind.

Stargurl20:

Asking me on behalf of all girls is what I don't understand, coz I'm not all girls, and all girls are not me.
All I know is relationship shouldn't be a transaction deal. As guys shouldn't ask for sex, similarly, girls shouldn't think it's their rights to ask money from men who's not their spouse, except he's giving from his church mind.

Sex is mutual. It was agreed on and they both enjoyed it. Infact the girl particularly enjoyed it more than the guy. A girl thinking she's supposed to demand money from a guy just because he had sex With her is not different from a prostitute

StrongAlphMale:


Sex is mutual. It was agreed on and they both enjoyed it. Infact the girl particularly enjoyed it more than the guy. A girl thinking she's supposed to demand money from a guy just because he had sex With her is not different from a prostitute

Giving of money is consensual. I doubt if any girl would put a gun to a guy's head to collect money. Stop acting like you're been forced.
Moreover, most Nigerian are terrible in bed. Most of these ladies only endure their terrible performance for the money, not because they enjoy the sex

Stargurl20:

Giving of money is consensual. I doubt if any girl would put a gun to a guy's head to collect money. Stop acting like you're been forced.
Moreover, most Nigerian are terrible in bed. Most of these ladies only endure their terrible performance for the money, not because they enjoy the sex

We now agree that Nigeria girls are prostitutes? Are you trying to tell us that they do all that performance for the money just as the prostitutes and runs girls they are?

So what else are we saying? At the end.. these girls will be looking for a SIMP man to marry them whereas the only thing they'll take to the man's house is their over used damaged kpekpus. Can't you see what we've been preaching here all these while?