Well for me, I can't, I won't
Let him marry the mother of his children.
I didn't escape teenage pregnancy to become a mother to some woman's children, whilst she's still alive.
And as regards Okafor's Law, I hope y'all know there's a chance he'd still smash her sometime in the future.
Best to be completely avoided.
I'm a single childless woman. I want a man like me, so we can be experience family life and raising kids on a brand new page.

No room for after 1 daddy.
But DaddyCK, is considered.

Just because a guy create a thread like this you guys went to do same but what the OP as fail to know is that everyone as an individual life to live with.
Modified: Because who you marry,how you marry,which way it was arranged,by whom it was arranged is not important...but how responsible you exist...that’s all it is,it either is disaster or you make success out of it.

Chee59:
Well for me, I can't, I won't
Let him marry the mother of his children.
I didn't escape teenage pregnancy to become a mother to some woman's children, whilst she's still alive.
And as regards Okafor's Law, I hope y'all know there's a chance he'd still smash her sometime in the future.
Best to be completely avoided.
I'm a single childless woman. I want a man like me, so we can be experience family life and raising kids on a brand new page.

Is that why u women like treating other pple's children with so much hate nd wickedness cos I'm yet 2c any woman who truly nd geniunely love other pple's children in their care

Not when you got nothing to offer the single dad apart from overstretched puna.

Chee59:
Well for me, I can't, I won't
Let him marry the mother of his children.
I didn't escape teenage pregnancy to become a mother to some woman's children, whilst she's still alive.
And as regards Okafor's Law, I hope y'all know there's a chance he'd still smash her sometime in the future.
Best to be completely avoided.
I'm a single childless woman. I want a man like me, so we can be experience family life and raising kids on a brand new page.

Fish brain people, what if he marries another wife when you both have already got married


There's nothing you can do about gender equality, a man is entirely different from woman, they are not the same

Jeon:


No room for after 1 daddy.
But DaddyCK, is considered.

lol. Guess this thread was created to remind DaddyCK that his story is in public

@Romanoff,come and put some decorum of sense of life to your gender here.


Pls this thread need you to save some old layers life.

Aklee4994:
@Romanoff,come and put some decorum of sense of life to your gender here.


Pls this thread need you to save some old layers life.

There's nothing wrong with marrying a single father as long as the woman is no longer in his life and he doesn't have a couple of kids with different women.

There are other religious factors but I wouldn't want to delve into that.

If they still see each other, it will be hard to trust.

Only about 2% of ladies would refuse a marriage from such men.

Romanoff:


There's nothing wrong with marrying a single father as long as the woman is no longer in his life and he doesn't have a couple of kids with different women.

There are other religious factors but I wouldn't want to delve into that.

If they still see each other, it will be hard to trust.

Thanks, I know you won’t betray the trust of saying the truth.
I Dey get joy if you don talk because you’re always logical in your reasoning.

I'm sure lots of lady will do that without thinking twice

Male tears...delicious.

This thread is good for men that always make excuses for single mothers

Aklee4994:
Just because a guy create a thread like this you guys went to do same but what the OP as fail to know is that everyone as an individual life to live with.
Modified: Because who you marry,how you marry,which way it was arranged,by whom it was arranged is not important...but how responsible you exist...that’s all it is,it either is disaster or you make success out of it.

Nice one.

It's on an individual basis now, ba?

Aklee4994:
@Roman.off,come and put some decorum of sense of life to your gender here.

Pls this thread need you to save some old layers life.

I was thinking you were ********* with that your comment up there, but I can see you're just another mischievous fellow like the rest.

Pray tell, which man should will call like this to come and save the lives of some old layers and single-parent men like you that will flock to this thread?

Ladies in general wouldn't mind being the 10th baby mama (not wife o) of a man who has wealth, talk less of a single father ...

Abeg leave am...
All this one na cap ...

PerfectStranger:
Not when you got nothing to offer the single dad apart from overstretched puna.

There's absolutely no proof, none whatsoever that a pussy gets 'stretched' or whatever else it is y'all think.

Now, I am trying to understand this comment of yours...are you saying a woman should/can marry a SF because she has only sex to offer or she should not marry a SF because she has only sex to give?

Now, which particularly woman are you referring to? The OP or women generally?

All the women you've been dating, as you are, is it only a community pussy they bring to you?

'Cause I don't get how y'all find good women, but the ones you have sex with are bad. If every man has (supposedly) been with a good woman, but other women are bad, does that not make ALL women good to at least one particular man that has dated her?

And what does a single father have to offer in such a relationship, that you think the vagina is the only thing a woman is bringing?

Note say; na you bring yourself come this thread o. Ehen.

Fahvvy:
Ladies in general wouldn't mind being the 10th baby mama (not wife o) of a man [B]who has wealth[/b], talk less of a single father ...

Abeg leave am...
All this one na cap ...

WHO HAS WEALTH.

This wealth that you people are always giving as a condition...

How many (of you) men are rich/wealthy/have money/are comfortable gan?

Chee59:
Well for me, I can't, I won't
Let him marry the mother of his children.
I didn't escape teenage pregnancy to become a mother to some woman's children, whilst she's still alive.
And as regards Okafor's Law, I hope y'all know there's a chance he'd still smash her sometime in the future.
Best to be completely avoided.
I'm a single childless woman. I want a man like me, so we can be experience family life and raising kids on a brand new page.

It’s not your decision to make, it’s about stability, worth, power and responsibility
It’s the single father’s decision to decide if you’ll be his own or not

obinna58:
It’s not your decision to make, it’s about worth and responsibility
It’s the single father’s decision to decide if you’ll be his own or not

Okurrrr.

But it is a man's decision whether or not he'll be with a single mother or not?

I could have sworn that your guys preach that women are the "controllers" of a relationship and they are the ones who say, "yes" lmao.

You know, relationships or sex never happens until a woman decides to 'give in' to a pursuing man.

Magnoliaa:


WHO HAS WEALTH.

1. This wealth that you people are always giving as a condition...

2. How many (of you) men are rich/wealthy/have money/are comfortable gan?

1. Doesn't matter ...
Anyone who earns money has the right to dictate how it's spent and if he/she gives a condition before giving it out, then so be it ...

Sooooo....
If you're unhappy with the conditions given, then GO AND MAKE YOUR OWN WEALTH ...

2. Ask google ...

Fahvvy:
1. Doesn't matter ...
Anyone who earns money has the right to dictate how it's spent and if he/she gives a condition before giving it out, then so be it ...

Sooooo....
If you're unhappy with the conditions given, then GO AND MAKE YOUR OWN WEALTH ...

2. Ask google ...

You don't get it, do you?

I am always wondering why you guys are always giving money as a condition on behalf of women getting into a relationship/marriage when MOST men in this present-day Nigeria are not rich (or up to the standards of being considered rich at least).

PS; are you speaking on behalf of men/women, though?

Magnoliaa:


Okurrrr.

But it is a man's decision whether or not he'll be with a single mother or not?

I could have sworn that your guys preach that women are the "controllers" of a relationship and they are the ones who say, "yes" lmao.

You know, relationships or sex never happens until a woman decides to 'give in' to a pursuing man.

Yes it’s their choice to say yes but they have fickle mind, women are incompetent and confused, it takes little niceness to get them so emotional and so in love, they don’t know what they want but they surely can identify they love the present moment, it can’t go the other way round.

obinna58:
Yes it’s their choice to say yes but they have fickle mind, women are incompetent and confused, it takes little niceness to get them so emotional and so in love, they don’t know what they want but they surely can identify they love the present moment, it can’t go the other way round.

If it is their choice to say "yes" then it means a relationship cannot happen if a woman doesn't CHOOSE to be with a man, no matter what he does or doesn't.

Two people decide to be in a relationship with each other.

It takes TWO.

So stop setting up women as things waiting to be picked.

A woman can decide to be with a SF the same way a man can decide to be with a SM.

Magnoliaa:


If it is their choice to say "yes" then it means a relationship cannot happen if a woman doesn't CHOOSE to be with a man, no matter what he does or doesn't.

Two people decide to be in a relationship with each other.

It takes TWO.

So stop setting up women as things waiting to be picked.

A woman can decide to be with a SF the same way a man can decide to be with a SM.

You forgot they’re incompetent, fickle minded and confused
It’s men that decides for them

Magnoliaa:


You don't get it, do you?

1. I am always wondering why you guys are always giving money as a condition on behalf of women getting into a relationship/marriage when MOST men in this present-day Nigeria are not rich (or up to the standards of being considered rich at least).

2. PS; are you speaking on behalf of men/women, though?

1. That is because women will ALMOST NEVER go into relationship/marriage with a guy who doesn't have a certain level of financial capacity, and that's a fact! ...

The average woman will, more often than not choose money over love anytime anyday ...

Y'all be loving opportunistically ...

Look around you my dear...
Women be shaming men for being "polygamous in nature" and yet wouldn't mind being the 10th baby mama for certain caliber of men, need I say why? ...

Isn't it obvious enough what the average woman is REALLY after? ...

Let's be real here my dear...
The average female doesn't mind being the 10th wife of a beast as long as he can "take care of her" ...


2. Neither ...
I speak for myself alone ...
I'm not going to allow myself to be dragged into any silly gender based war ...


And also...
The definition of the word "Rich" is relative ...
Don't define it by the world's standard, define it in respect to the Nigerian economy and I think you'll get my point ...

Magnoliaa:


I was thinking you were ********* with that your comment up there, but I can see you're just another mischievous fellow like the rest.

Pray tell, which man should will call like this to come and save the lives of some old layers and single-parent men like you that will flock to this thread?

must you sound bitter with your mention rather embrace the truth that a single father is a go for some reasonable and sensitive woman in this wonderful forum.stop generalizing your judgement that is another way to grow your self esteem woman �

Modified:All I want is understanding and peace

If I love him why not

Magnoliaa:


Nice one.

It's on an individual basis now, ba?

Even before your existence everything being as his/her individual life to live.so stop spewing trash for the good ones among you

Fahvvy:
1. That is because women will ALMOST NEVER go into relationship/marriage with a guy who doesn't have a certain level of financial capacity, and that's a fact! ...

Now let's not confuse things here.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a financially stable partner. It's pragmatic.

And that is very different from gold-digging/money-mongering or any other unpleasant attitude relating to money. If you're describing the above, all well and good.

If you're calling women golddiggers, that's a big lie.

The average woman will, more often than not choose money over love anytime anyday ...

The average women would prefer to choose money over love...and if she has the opportunity.

Now this desire notwithstanding, women are loving and staying with and getting married to poor men. Women are with men that they 'cover' financial-wise. If a woman is with a guy below her means, she will make sure to "pad" him and make him appear as if he's something. We have women who build a man up as we have those who don't.

Y'all be loving opportunistically ...

Now I will appreciate it if you desist from using the term 'y'all' on me. Let's refer to men and women generally. And it's only fair as I do not know what you identity as, so I will not go personal with you on a gender basis.

Thank you.

Look around you my dear...
Women be shaming men for being "polygamous in nature" and yet wouldn't mind being the 10th baby mama for certain caliber of men, need I say why? ...

Also, no endearments.

Thank you.

Agreed. Polygamy and hypergamy are just two sides of the same coin to each gender for me.

The thing is, I don't believe it is NATURAL.

There are faithful men and there are women who are not after money. And mind you, the women who become baby mamas to certain kind of men look a particular way, and are of certain calibre themselves.

The Ooni comes to mind.

Now how many men are Oonis? How many women are like his wives?

Go to your streets and the your average 'handworkers' and the number of baby mamas they have. Baby mamaism is not a thing amongst the elite alone. They are plenty people (and women) living in PENURY who have tons of kids out of wedlock.

Is it obvious enough what the average woman is REALLY after? ...

No, it is not obvious. Women want different things and you can find examples for women going and living out of whatever expectations you have of them.

And also...
The definition of the word "Rich" is relative ...
Don't define it by the world's standard, define it in respect to the Nigerian economy and I think you'll get my point ...

How can rich be relative and you say women go for wealth? If rich is relative, then what makes you think women are going for whom they are going for based on money?

Look, inspite of all that sha, I am still telling you that many women go for and stay with men that are not rich according to their own standards and the world's standards.

Aklee4994:
Even before your existence everything being as his/her individual life to live.so stop spewing trash for the good ones among you

Stop being angry.

Person hol' your prick abi you're looking for where to release your pent up sexual frustration? Which one?

It's interesting that you suddenly believe people have their individual lives to live but you're judging some by calling them "old layers".