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Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 12:13am On Jan 30, 2023
Her father was a Nigerian ambassador to Australia in the past. She was born with a silver spoon in her mouth. She moved to Canada for her studies when she was 19 years old. She holds a B.S. in Business Management.

When she visited Nigeria in 2017, she met a young man who worked as a security guard in the GRA hotel in Ikeja, Lagos.

She was impressed by Luis's professionalism while performing his duties as a security guard at the hotel. Luis piqued her interest, and the two became friends. She chose to help Luis achieve his dream after realizing that if given the opportunity for schooling, he would like to pursue a career in hospitality management.

Within a short period of time, they both became good friends without any romantic feelings attached. She provided financial assistance to Luis, allowing him to enroll in an institute of hospitality management in Lekki.

She later returned to Canada in late 2017, but they remained in contact, and she never stopped assisting Luis financially when necessary. He went on to earn a degree in hospitality management.

When she returned to Nigeria in 2021, she was relieved to see a man she had entirely built working as the hotel's Head of Purchasing Department in a three-star hotel in Victoria Island, Lagos. The reunion was hot but not without love feelings, as both of them were pure singles with small age gaps.

Long story short, they are now married and living happily, as Luis is now the general manager of his wife's father's hotel in Asaba.

https://www.solutionreporters.com/2023/01/30/ladies-you-have-the-ability-to-discover-and-build-your-man/

Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:20am On Jan 30, 2023
Different strokes for different folks. Relationships are different. The moral of the story sha is to build your partner if you're better off, but again you can't upgrade someone who chooses other wise.

The lady was committed and the guy was willing, then you have a perfect situation for growth.

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 12:40am On Jan 30, 2023
Yusufisraelj:
Different strokes for different folks. Relationships are different. The moral of the story sha is to build your partner if you're better off, but again you can't upgrade someone who chooses other wise.

The lady was committed and the guy was willing, then you have a perfect situation for growth.

Perfect analysis wink

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by theophorus(m): 1:00am On Jan 30, 2023
In a generation where they are more interested in IPhone, tiktok et all.

Well, let's hope that this can become a norm rather than exception cos we 'Rise by Lifting others", Howbeit those who are ready to be lifted.

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 1:17am On Jan 30, 2023
theophorus:
In a generation where they are more interested in IPhone, tiktok et all.

Well, let's hope that this can become a norm rather than exception cos we 'Rise by Lifting others", Howbeit those who are ready to be lifted.






True!
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Kipaji: 5:18am On Jan 30, 2023
I believe that no woman should build a man. A man must build himself.
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Kipaji: 5:18am On Jan 30, 2023
I believe that no woman should build a man.
A man must build himself.
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Jeon(f): 6:21am On Jan 30, 2023
Ahhhhha indeed build your man because he's a handicap.

Ladies use your brain.
Build yourself and look forward for a built man.

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 8:52am On Jan 30, 2023
Kipaji:
I believe that no woman should build a man. A man must build himself.

There's nothing wrong in a woman from a rich home assisting a poor man who is ambitious and determined to become something in life.... There's absolutely nothing wrong in that! It's not gold-digging though
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 8:53am On Jan 30, 2023
Jeon:
Ahhhhha indeed build your man because he's a handicap.

Ladies use your brain.
Build yourself and look forward for a built man.

What if the man she loves is a broke ass man from a very poor home who has big dreams but only needs financial assistance to bring those dreams to reality?
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by marlow1962(m): 9:32am On Jan 30, 2023
Wow, nice one.
Btw you dy say make Nigerian woman help man financially, ahh bros you want make she die?

Person wer never see food chop and person wer be say na social media be the air she dy breathe, na that kind person you want make she help man wer she no dy benefit anytin from build career?

Lmao

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 10:04am On Jan 30, 2023
marlow1962:
Wow, nice one.
Btw you dy say make Nigerian woman help man financially, ahh bros you want make she die?

Person wer never see food chop and person wer be say na social media be the air she dy breathe, na that kind person you want make she help man wer she no dy benefit anytin from build career?

Lmao

cheesy cheesy cheesy If they truly love the man and are financially buoyant than him, it's no crime to assist him but I know it's difficult for Nigerian women but not all of them though.
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by marlow1962(m): 10:30am On Jan 30, 2023
SReporters:


cheesy cheesy cheesy If they truly love the man and are financially buoyant than him, it's no crime to assist him but I know it's difficult for Nigerian women but not all of them though.
Omo true love no dy again.
Everybody now dy love for survival, nobody dy love for love again.

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Ehmmah588(m): 10:53am On Jan 30, 2023
A broke Nigerian girl wey never lift herself wan lift her man undecided...How is that possible
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Sixfeetbelle: 11:35am On Jan 30, 2023
SReporters:


There's nothing wrong in a woman from a rich home assisting a poor man who is ambitious and determined to become something in life.... There's absolutely nothing wrong in that! It's not gold-digging though

But men are saying they won't upgrade any lady that isn't their wife, no matter how rich they are. Some even added they won't upgrade their wife sef.

You see how hypocritical it is when you advise ladies to upgrade their man when the men won't do that for any lady?

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Sixfeetbelle: 11:37am On Jan 30, 2023
We won't build a man. Wanna know why?

Cause the men don't want to build us.




Tit for tat, my friend.

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Sonnobax15(m): 12:35pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:
We won't build a man. Wanna know why?

Cause the men don't want to build us.




Tit for tat, my friend.
. Meaning the ones most men spent their entire life savings on during their (women) school Days wasn't a building process abi na wetin you dey try yan self? undecided

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 2:19pm On Jan 30, 2023
marlow1962:

Omo true love no dy again.
Everybody now dy love for survival, nobody dy love for love again.

I can understand how the situation is in Nigeria. It is love for survival my bro!
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 2:19pm On Jan 30, 2023
Ehmmah588:
A broke Nigerian girl wey never lift herself wan lift her man undecided...How is that possible

cheesy cheesy Impossibly impossible! But we are actually referring to a financial buoyant babe not some broke ass gurl grin

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 2:21pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:


But men are saying they won't upgrade any lady that isn't their wife, no matter how rich they are. Some even added they won't upgrade their wife sef.

You see how hypocritical it is when you advise ladies to upgrade their man when the men won't do that for any lady?

It's not applicable to all ..... There are men who will build up the woman they love and there are still women who will develop their man
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 2:22pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:
We won't build a man. Wanna know why?

Cause the men don't want to build us.




Tit for tat, my friend.

cheesy Not all men.... You haven't yet met that man who will build you up and make you his Queen
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 2:23pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sonnobax15:
. Meaning the ones most men spent their entire life savings on during their (women) school Days wasn't a building process abi na wetin you dey try yan self? undecided

You still train a woman in school and some fuvk boy ends up smashing her engine..... This things vary! Most are not just lucky in this relationship business
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by marlow1962(m): 3:57pm On Jan 30, 2023
SReporters:


I can understand how the situation is in Nigeria. It is love for survival my bro!
Too bad

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Sixfeetbelle: 4:27pm On Jan 30, 2023
SReporters:


cheesy Not all men.... You haven't yet met that man who will build you up and make you his Queen

I won't meet them cause those type of men don't exist anymore.

Earlier this month, the type of men we have now declared emphatically that they will no longer build up any woman. I'm not gonna play blind to such declarations and foolishly try to build a man.

No, not me.

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Sixfeetbelle: 4:29pm On Jan 30, 2023
SReporters:


It's not applicable to all ..... There are men who will build up the woman they love and there are still women who will develop their man

Good for them. But I believe those ones are probably the simps who settled for each other.

The alfa mails on the other hand,...

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Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Sixfeetbelle: 4:31pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sonnobax15:
. Meaning the ones most men spent their entire life savings on during their (women) school Days wasn't a building process abi na wetin you dey try yan self? undecided

Those type of men don't exist anymore. That's what I'm saying.

The ones we have now won't even pay for an examination fee, not to talk of tuition fee
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 8:14pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:


I won't meet them cause those type of men don't exist anymore.

Earlier this month, the type of men we have now declared emphatically that they will no longer build up any woman. I'm not gonna play blind to such declarations and foolishly try to build a man.

No, not me.

cheesy Keep hope alive and don't lose hope on men yet! Of course they still exist especially the ones who want to settle down with you not fuvk boys
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 8:15pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:


Good for them. But I believe those ones are probably the simps who settled for each other.

The alfa mails on the other hand,...

Depends on the kind of Alpha males....
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Brandiebird: 8:25pm On Jan 30, 2023
LOL! God punish poverty! Nl boys really want a woman to build them, feed them, clothe them. Oh how the great have fallen!
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by Sixfeetbelle: 8:25pm On Jan 30, 2023
SReporters:


Depends on the kind of Alpha males....

All alfa mails are the same.

Sha, you are preaching to the dead.

We ain't building no man.
Re: Ladies, You Have The Ability To Discover And Build Your Man by SReporters: 10:45pm On Jan 30, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:


All alfa mails are the same.

Sha, you are preaching to the dead.

We ain't building no man.

cheesy cheesy grin it's alright.... I feel you!

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