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Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by sterlingD(m): 3:32pm On Feb 12, 2023
LWKMD

Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by zakkxx: 3:36pm On Feb 12, 2023
If u want a car y ur papa never buy one for u! You no get brothers? What your father cannot do do for u are expecting from a boyfriend no be husband oo! This is one of the dangers of fornication, if u no sleep with him u will not be this entitle! In your nex relationship u will close youR legs till your wedding night
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Goodlady(f): 3:36pm On Feb 12, 2023
SenatePresdo:


You are not his woman, you are just one of his women.

So he should start buying car for every girl he toasts? grin

Joke aside.

Maybe he wants valentine to pass, so that he won't spend much, or to see your reaction.
Don't act frustrated or bothered.
Act like nothing happened, he will come around..
Every guy loves doing things for the women they love, only when they don't feel entitled.
Thanks. Though he has apologized. But I m seriously studying development of things.
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by aestake: 3:38pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

If he can get me a car as well, I ll appreciate it cos I need it badly right now.
Allow him to save as you are doing.
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Goodlady(f): 3:40pm On Feb 12, 2023
brutal1:
Dont request for what you cannot afford. How much do you have to support the car you want to buy? If you still have your father maybe you can ask him to buy a car for you to shame the guy...you get ...that's the best way to get back at him that he is not man enough because dad is more man enough that him..or daddy can't afford to buy it too?? For you to request for a car you cannot afford ...you sef you are not woman enough...are you lazy or handicapped??. Can't you work for money and afford the things you deserve in life ?? You dont deserve anything you cannot afford.
Did you acquire all you had at same time? Is there no time people helped you. Don't come here with your rotten mouth and say rubbish. You aren't my fiance. Elenu run

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Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Goodlady(f): 3:41pm On Feb 12, 2023
aestake:

Allow him to save as you are doing.
ok.

Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Goodlady(f): 3:43pm On Feb 12, 2023
Dshocker:


In the first place, you don't know how to drive, so why want a car.

Then secondly, can you maintain a car?
I can maintain a car. How many months ll it take me to learn driving? Mtchew
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Goodlady(f): 3:43pm On Feb 12, 2023
LORDKing001:


No go buy your own car. U wan wreck person pikin because of 5k pussy
shey na N5K pussy fill ur kins
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Goodlady(f): 3:44pm On Feb 12, 2023
padi94:



I tempted to insult this comment but I will restrain.
Pls what do you bring to that relationship as a female. Have you ever funded his idea or help him with a connection to make money. The way you are being entitled one will think you you have bought a car for him before or funded his business or hustle in the past. As a Matt of fact what is the most valuable gift you have bought for him... I don't want to judge but am sure when he relates his problem to you you just sit there and say awwwwnnn... And make comments like it will be fine, just keep hoping am sure you don't even pray for him.

Think about things before you act. Whether you are telling him for telling sake I don't know. But you should know that men are natural providers, when a woman tells a man her problem his brain is already calculating the possibility of him solving that problem, maybe it's not same for a woman. Don't over play your hand which is what you just did, and you are a very SELFISH person.
You still abused me. An not selfish. God know I love him.and ll do.anything. I know he can get me a car. So why should he let me be suffering jumping buses to work
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by DasBeste: 3:45pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:
He's not picking my calls cos I told him I wanted a car as val gift.
I just told him how I had a busy schedule last week and I wasted lots of money oh tfare plus the stress in entering cabs.
We were discussing and I mentioned I wish I had a car and we just talked normally.
Since last Friday, I v been trying to reach him but he's not picking my phone.
I called his friend to ask after him. He called back n told me he's going to check on me but he hasn't.
Why is he acting like he doesn't care?
Could my instinct be right that he's trying to run cos I mentioned I wanted car?

My guess is that you are not up to 19 years, right?
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Goodlady(f): 3:46pm On Feb 12, 2023
OlawaleBammie:


grin grin grin

But unfortunately for u I have many good and better things, and they are the best grin
You that am looking at your destiny sotey all your life so far no reach N200K.
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Goodlady(f): 3:47pm On Feb 12, 2023
DasBeste:


My guess is that you are not up to 19 years, right?
Why not ask my age directly
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Ebullient76(m): 3:53pm On Feb 12, 2023
It's your right as you claimed. My question to you is: what's your contribution towards his welfare? You're mounting pressure him, and you're out here saying that he doesn't care about you. Do you really care about him as well?...
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by padi94(m): 3:56pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

You still abused me. An not selfish. God know I love him.and ll do.anything. I know he can get me a car. So why should he let me be suffering jumping buses to work

I did not abuse you, calling someone selfish is not abuse, it's a an adjective that characterizes a particular behaviour especially when the person is not being considerate.

Saying you love him what has your love translated to for him... Has your love connected him to funds.

Madam, he is not letting you suffer, I believe value exchanges for value(Am not saying you're not valuable o) if you give him something valuable he will resiprocate and if it's worth a car that is what you will get.


You will do anything but what thing have you done fore him... Where is your working... If na only segs, he can get it anywhere, so what do you do for him
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by swedbase(m): 3:57pm On Feb 12, 2023
Is he your father?
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Richieniit: 3:57pm On Feb 12, 2023
Titan12:
Be like say Good lady no wan good again o 😂


Abi good ladies no wan they again lol
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Codes151(m): 3:58pm On Feb 12, 2023
You Dey craze! Your papa Get car. If you mention me na thunda go fire u
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Innobee99(m): 3:59pm On Feb 12, 2023
Ur Papa get car?
Nonsensé
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by brutal1(m): 4:02pm On Feb 12, 2023
grin dont be pained by my response to your post. How much do you have to support him? You are the one that needs a car, you didnt state here if you are contributing anything to it, he is your fiance not your lord and personal saviour, he is somebody's son, brother too, do you think if you had told him you have xxxx amount and you would love if he could complement it to have your car...dont you think he will still be picking your calls? Na common sense be ds...auntie...Cars are not cheap at this moment, even Nigerian used cars so if you are making a request like a car at this time ...you better be prepared for it. He is not picking your call because he doesn't have the money to buy that car for you or he feels this is not the right time. I am not abusing you or your fiance...nor vex if any of my response vex you. Telling a man you have something to support what you need is a ginger for men. Rotten mouth nor pain me...rubbish sef nor pain me. Any other one you wan send sef nor go pain me..nothing dey pain me on sundays...and I cannot be your fiance. I wish you and your guy best of luck. But pick the good point in this my response..I am sure you have siblings too..if any of them tell your their fiancee made this request wetin u go tell am if na your brother? Happy Sunday
Goodlady:

Did you acquire all you had at same time? Is there no time people helped you. Don't come here with your rotten mouth and say rubbish. You aren't my fiance. Elenu run
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by OlawaleBammie: 4:02pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

You that am looking at your destiny sotey all your life so far no reach N200K.

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I makes more than that in a month and I still consider it insufficient talk more of life savings
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by EMPEROROFDONBAS(m): 4:05pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

I m saving n ll buy it myself. I only expressed my frustrations. If you know Abj well you ll know it's not easy for people without vehicle that goes out daily.
A good man ll make his woman happy. Seem you are a callous man.
your papa no be good man??
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by KosiGee(m): 4:05pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

I m saving n ll buy it myself. I only expressed my frustrations. If you know Abj well you ll know it's not easy for people without vehicle that goes out daily.
A good man ll make his woman happy. Seem you are a callous man.

What were you going to give him as present?
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Burgerlomo: 4:12pm On Feb 12, 2023
How can he do that when there are lots of none expensive toy cars with remote control around

Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by uvie66: 4:12pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

I m saving n ll buy it myself. I only expressed my frustrations. If you know Abj well you ll know it's not easy for people without vehicle that goes out daily.
A good man ll make his woman happy. Seem you are a callous man.
can't you buy a car for yourself.... must you wait for a Man?
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by omonnakoda: 4:14pm On Feb 12, 2023
EMPEROROFDONBAS:

your papa no be good man??
Your mother is a pig
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Geovanni412(m): 4:15pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

I m saving n ll buy it myself. I only expressed my frustrations. If you know Abj well you ll know it's not easy for people without vehicle that goes out daily.
A good man ll make his woman happy. Seem you are a callous man.


It's about understanding

A good man without money cannot make a woman happy - are you praying for him to be broke?

He ran away because he can't afford your happiness.
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by benqo01(m): 4:17pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:
He's not picking my calls cos I told him I wanted a car as val gift.
I just told him how I had a busy schedule last week and I wasted lots of money oh tfare plus the stress in entering cabs.
We were discussing and I mentioned I wish I had a car and we just talked normally.
Since last Friday, I v been trying to reach him but he's not picking my phone.
I called his friend to ask after him. He called back n told me he's going to check on me but he hasn't.
Why is he acting like he doesn't care?
Could my instinct be right that he's trying to run cos I mentioned I wanted car?


Goodlady ah wait na he will call u back
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Nobody: 4:17pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

My father has a car.
I ll soon buy my car too cos am saving towards that. And if I buy it myself, I don't want to see him again. I v conscience and v the right to demand what I want.

I ll definitely buy it and that's the end of him with me.

Short broke black boy, na your type go marry at 45-50 cos you too talaka!


Entitlement mentality


Enjoy your Sunday

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Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by LORDKing001: 4:28pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:
shey na N5K pussy fill ur kins
Dey play
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Teeroyzimma: 4:42pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady you're a thief, like someone said don't you know that fuel is now 450 litre, unnecessary expenses.
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by Eyanbahose: 4:46pm On Feb 12, 2023
Goodlady:

I m saving n ll buy it myself. I only expressed my frustrations. If you know Abj well you ll know it's not easy for people without vehicle that goes out daily.
A good man ll make his woman happy. Seem you are a callous man.
hold up! You just mentioned you're saving for a car. What do you mean by that bolder statement? He should get you a car to make you happy? Is that what you mean?
Re: He Ran Away Because Of Valentine's Gift by chudez0147(m): 5:15pm On Feb 12, 2023
jomarick:
Car you probably can't afford, you wanted it as a "valentine gift". Only a f0olish man will gift a car to a lady he isn't married to.
You said this because you don't have money.

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