Quality20:
Almost everywhere and every girl you see is into sex work and prostitution making money and enjoying themselves as if they are envying the already established sex workers. There is no more cultural or traditional boundaries, sex work happen btw ppl from religious homes and shegu ppl or whatever. It's even so common seeing girls whose marriages have been arranged sleeping around with various clients just as if they are commercial sex workers. So responsible guys, how do still go about trusting and marrying girls these days or do you just assume and hope for the best and marry them like that?

marlow1962:
If I no see virgin marry, na baby mama go settle am.

Quality20:
search very well, u shd not limit ur search to only cities or only educated girls

everythinggirly:
As the world dey old dey go, people dey mumu dey go, anything marriage is not like before again, it takes the grace of God. Most girls and married women are into the business full time because of 💰

Quality20:
Almost everywhere and every girl you see is into sex work and prostitution making money and enjoying themselves as if they are envying the already established sex workers. There is no more cultural or traditional boundaries, sex work happen btw ppl from religious homes and shegu ppl or whatever. It's even so common seeing girls whose marriages have been arranged sleeping around with various clients just as if they are commercial sex workers. So responsible guys, how do still go about trusting and marrying girls these days or do you just assume and hope for the best and marry them like that?

Quality20:
Almost everywhere and every girl you see is into sex work and prostitution making money and enjoying themselves as if they are envying the already established sex workers. There is no more cultural or traditional boundaries, sex work happen btw ppl from religious homes and shegu ppl or whatever. It's even so common seeing girls whose marriages have been arranged sleeping around with various clients just as if they are commercial sex workers. So responsible guys, how do still go about trusting and marrying girls these days or do you just assume and hope for the best and marry them like that?

Life no hard , na u wey wan marry

TMTR:

Life no hard , na u wey wan marry

Illegal1:


bros...i no understand dis u talk.

u mean say make we no marry abi wetin u mean?

Yeah, tell me one thing you get in marriage that you can't get without getting married

Just one

TMTR:


Yeah, tell me one thing you get in marriage that you can't get without getting married

Just one

TMTR:


Yeah, tell me one thing you get in marriage that you can't get without getting married

Just one

faceLAGOS:


He won’t be able to.

Don’t engage him any further to avoid emotional blackmail from him.

Most married Nigerian men are seriously suffering in their marriage.

The so called wife is showing them shege.

As in great and serious suffering but shame and pride will not allow them to speak out instead they urge and cajole singles to get married ( A classic case of misery loves company) so they will see the 'shege' they are seeing as they don't want to suffer alone

That question I asked him, I created a thread and asked same question last year and up till now no one has been able to answer instead what I get is emotional blackmail and tantrums like you rightly pointed out and some silly talk from females(obviously cause marriage favours them more)

Here is the link to the thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7163981/what-exclusive-benifits-men-getting

See as a men , there is nothing you get in marriage that you can't get without getting married minus the stress, suffering, ' shege' that you get to see in marriage, ever wonder why men mostly die before the woman in marriage As in they are more widows than widowers out there like before you see a widower , you must have come across like more than 10 widows and this is no exaggeration, men need to wise up but as I have come to see, some men like suffering, they call it' that's what makes you a man' and they proudly wear it like a medal
But as for me and my niggas, our motto is ' I no come this life to suffer' so anything that will cause suffering unnecessary , run away from it , but some men no dey hear

E be like I don dey talk too much, no vex the matter dey vex me

TMTR:


As in great and serious suffering but shame and pride will not allow them to speak out instead they urge and cajole singles to get married ( A classic case of misery loves company) so they will see the 'shege' they are seeing as they don't want to suffer alone

That question I asked him, I created a thread and asked same question last year and up till now no one has been able to answer instead what I get is emotional blackmail and tantrums like you rightly pointed out and some silly talk from females(obviously cause marriage favours them more)

See as a men , there is nothing you get in marriage that you can't get without getting married minus the stress, suffering, ' shege' that you get to see in marriage, ever wonder why men mostly die before the woman in marriage As in they are more widows than widowers out there like before you see a widower , you must have come across like more than 10 widows and this is no exaggeration, men need to wise up but as I have come to see, some men like suffering, they call it' that's what makes you a man' and they proudly wear it like a medal
But as for me and my niggas, our motto is ' I no come this life to suffer' so anything that will cause suffering unnecessary , run away from it , but some men no dey hear

faceLAGOS:


You very right, bro.

I read a book on how men are disadvantaged by marriage & it opened my eyes as a man, to a lot in the dating & marriage world.

The title is “The Predatory Female”.

It’s one of the best book I’ve ever read; you can get it on pdf & try to read it too.

I bet, you won’t stop reading immediately you start.

Please can you share the link to the thread you created?

Thanks & have a stress free day.

Quality20:
Almost everywhere and every girl you see is into sex work and prostitution making money and enjoying themselves as if they are envying the already established sex workers. There is no more cultural or traditional boundaries, sex work happen btw ppl from religious homes and shegu ppl or whatever. It's even so common seeing girls whose marriages have been arranged sleeping around with various clients just as if they are commercial sex workers. So responsible guys, how do still go about trusting and marrying girls these days or do you just assume and hope for the best and marry them like that?