I'm sorry if I posted this in the wrong section, I just thought I will get more response here.

The thing is I have really made some mistakes over my years of existence, which I myself, am not proud of.

I have really tried to be a better person, but the people I so much offended wouldn't forgive me, this has really take a toll on my life as it seems like my life depends on there forgiveness for me to really move on.
My conscience wouldn't let me rest any single day, I just wish there's a way to move on without having to think about things I've done in the past.
I wish anyone who has been in this type of situation can give some advice.

1. Forgive yourself first and personally put your past behind you in YOUR OWN MIND.

2. Reach out to those you have offended and try to get their forgiveness on an individual basis. If you stole some people's money try to return it, if it is something that cannot be returned, let them know you are completely sorry. Don't bother them if they choose they don't want to relate with you. Their stance might change in the future.

3. Do positive things from now on to build a balance of positivity around yourself.

4. Ask for God's forgiveness and guidance.


With these, you might be fine.

P.S: if you can afford it, a change of town or city might help.

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maclatunji:
1. Forgive yourself first and personally put your past behind you in YOUR OWN MIND.

2. Reach out to those you have offended and try to get their forgiveness on an individual basis. If you stole some people's money try to return it, if it is something that cannot be returned, let them know you are completely sorry. Don't bother them if they choose they don't want to relate with you. Their stance might change in the future.

3. Do positive things from now on to build a balance of positivity around yourself.

4. Ask for God's forgiveness and guidance.


With these, you might be fine.

P.S: if you can afford it, a change of town or city might help.

dis the best advice i've cum across on nairaland...

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Giving us an idea about what you did (wrong) would have helped better..

maclatunji:
1. Forgive yourself first and personally put your past behind you in YOUR OWN MIND.

2. Reach out to those you have offended and try to get their forgiveness on an individual basis. If you stole some people's money try to return it, if it is something that cannot be returned, let them know you are completely sorry. Don't bother them if they choose they don't want to relate with you. Their stance might change in the future.

3. Do positive things from now on to build a balance of positivity around yourself.

4. Ask for God's forgiveness and guidance.


With these, you might be fine.

P.S: if you can afford it, a change of town or city might help.

i'm currently going thru same situation here,i don't even knw wat to do anymore...

There's no day i don't tink abt my past,and it hurt alot..

i'm thinking of relocating to another state..

Mistakes are bound to happen, thats life. The best solution is try to relocate.
Through mankind's history, people have made great mistakes that even cost others their lives.
When Cain killed Abel, his brother, Cain went away to another land.
When Moses knew the Egyptians knew he had killed one of them, Moses ran away too

if the shame is too much to over look, move to another state. luckily enough, Nigeria has 36 states and 1 federal capital. Run away my nigga

First, you need to forgive yourself and ask God for forgiveness. Mistakes happen, that makes us human. You need to put the past behind you and move on.
Yeah, it's hard but nobody is perfect... If we can go back to the past and erase all our mistakes, life could have been better, but if only wishes were horses.

Illegal1:


i'm currently going thru same situation here,i don't even knw wat to do anymore...

There's no day i don't tink abt my past,and it hurt alot..

i'm thinking of relocating to another state..

Relocating can be very helpful to have a new mindset.