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Should Chioma Truly Open Up To This Person Or Allow The New Staff Finds Out Thin by Hamachi(f): 12:37pm On Feb 09, 2023
Chioma, a rising star in the world of marketing, faced an all too familiar challenge in the workplace - a toxic culture dominated by the Head of Operations, the cousin of the MD.

Despite her best efforts to bring attention to the mistreatment, the MD consistently took the side of her cousin, leaving Chioma feeling unheard and unsupported. Hence the Cousin rules and does as she likes irrespective of how you feel.

Though Chioma refused to be broken, she had to resign due to a terrible gang-up and an extremely toxic culture. Despite resigning with no new job in sight and enduring a hellish notice period filled with lies spread against her, Chioma stood strong and did what was right for her mental and emotional well-being.

Prior to her resignation, there was a huge project managed by Chioma, she sought guidance from her colleagues and the MD's cousin but they all have negative feedback and never assisted; the cliche was "leave make e spoil for her hand". However, Chioma managed to get her mentor's (external) advice on how to carry out the project and the project turned out a huge success, guess who got accolades for the project, the MD's cousin, and her colleagues (who refused to assist).

During her notice period, the MD hired a new Marketing Manager and they fed him with all sorts of lies against Chioma (But he was sensible at least to watch and see she was an entirely different person from the narrative).

Now their toxicity caught off with the New Marketing Manager, they frustrated his efforts, he finally reached out to Chioma for advice, she did the best she could but never said anything negative to him. Just four months down the line he was fired without notice or Payment in lieu. He sadly informed Choima of his ordeal "in the hands of these terrible people".

Recently, they got another Marketing Manager and he reached out to Chioma on LinkedIn to "know what the culture is and what tips Chioma could offer to him to succeed in the role"..... and posted it on Niaraland

Chioma feels this organization is in her past and does not want to have anything to do with anyone or advice, The new employee has sent Chioma a message three times to seek advice, and all Chioma said was just do your best.

Should Chioma truly open up to this person or allow the new staff finds out things for herself?
Re: Should Chioma Truly Open Up To This Person Or Allow The New Staff Finds Out Thin by QuinModah(f): 12:42pm On Feb 09, 2023
I do not believe she did the right thing (let's assume that the new employee is Chioma's brother and sister or someone closely related to Chioma, what do you think her response would be?

I believe Chioma should state if she can, without addition and mincing words how exactly she felt and was treated at the company. She can further advised the new employee to do her best while at the job.

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Re: Should Chioma Truly Open Up To This Person Or Allow The New Staff Finds Out Thin by Pojomojo: 12:45pm On Feb 09, 2023
Chioma, stick to your deciliter to interfere, however, be objective in whatever advice you give your successor, being mindful not to let your emotions cloud your genuine intention. Everyone needs help one way or another at some point in life, Chioma may not have had anyone (former staff) to assist her, but she could suggest ways to deal with their toxic environment in the event it come up.

Isn't it possible to say the truth without talking down on her former boss?

Isn't it possible for Chioma to guide with discretion... truthfully...?

There is saying that we walked through some paths in our lives in order to help others get through it without going through the same rough paths we thread...

Chioma needs to help prepare the mind of whoever reaches out to her... without bad mouthing her former bosses

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Re: Should Chioma Truly Open Up To This Person Or Allow The New Staff Finds Out Thin by lavylilly: 12:53pm On Feb 09, 2023
Thoughtfully switch jobs when you see the chance to gain experience, make new connections and learn new things. Don’t worry about being called a “job hopper.” Staying too long at a company could backfire. Rather than being lauded for your long-term loyalty, future employers may look askance and feel that the person lacks ambition, which accounts for them staying so long in the same role.

- Jack Kelly, Forbes Online

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Re: Should Chioma Truly Open Up To This Person Or Allow The New Staff Finds Out Thin by Berrityga: 2:51pm On Feb 09, 2023
No time to read copy and paste

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Re: Should Chioma Truly Open Up To This Person Or Allow The New Staff Finds Out Thin by Hamachi(f): 7:02am On Feb 11, 2023
undecided
Berrityga:
No time to read copy and paste

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