Why is it that some ladies get easily pregnant in a relationship but when it comes to marriage, they now have problems conceiving.
One of my female friends, her only child is the one she had with her boyfriend while dating. Once they got married, they have been trying and trying but to no avail. Her mother-in-law greatly disapproved of the marriage.
Or should I talk of one of my neighbors who had 2 from different guys. Only for her to enter the marriage with a well-to-do man and problem happen. She can't blame the man either as he fathered one daughter when he was in his 20s.
A colleague told me it is spiritual, that some wicked people start reasoning some people's matter when they are married. This I don't want to believe. Will like to hear more opinions on this.

Women go through a lot, especially when it comes to issues with their reproductive system.

If you don't believe me, just go to a gynae clinic and check for yourself.

They may not tell you men everything when it comes to such issues, but just because those women that you're talking about had kids with their boyfriends, it doesn't mean they can't have any fertility issues later in life and same applies to men.

Both of them should go and get tested and look for a way forward.

Fertility is not a woman thing alone. There is a thing called secondary infertility where a man/woman who had previously been fertile struggles with fertility as a result of age, lifestyle, weight, mental struggle, sickness, injuries, exposure to drugs and the elements. Do you know that simply leaving laptops on your laps for a prolonged period of time can affect your sperm viability or even adding a lot of weight? Just tell them to see a doctor....may God bless everyone looking forward to parenthood. Children have a way of filling a home with happiness. It is well.

Having children outside wedlock could be bad, when I had my daughter her mothers family attacked me spiritually cause I refused to come and pay her bride price. Now I have full custody of my daughter and I'm free spiritually from their hands. And I'm expecting my next child with my next baby mama.

kingthreat:
Why is it that some ladies get easily pregnant in a relationship but when it comes to marriage, they now have problems conceiving.
One of my female friends, her only child is the one she had with her boyfriend while dating. Once they got married, they have been trying and trying but to no avail. Her mother-in-law greatly disapproved of the marriage.
Or should I talk of one of my neighbors who had 2 from different guys. Only for her to enter the marriage with a well-to-do man and problem happen. She can't blame the man either as he fathered one daughter when he was in his 20s.
A colleague told me it is spiritual, that some wicked people start reasoning some people's matter when they are married. This I don't want to believe. Will like to hear more opinions on this.

I think the mother in law is behind it.


I observed the same situation. In this case, they brought another wife for the husband after preventing the woman from having any more kids.



Medically though, there's something called secondary infertility but I have very strong suspicions about the mother-in-law.

Rehesus factor is another angle to look out , if a lady is negative and meets with a positive man , I learnt that there is an injection for her to take after birthing her first child, failure to do so she won't be able to conceive again except for miracle or she meets with a man that has the same rehesus factor with her.

Medical personnels in the house can as well enlighten us in that aspect.

Saintmary:


I think the mother in law is behind it.
I observed the same situation. In this case, they brought another wife for the husband after preventing the woman from having any more kids.
Medically though, there's something called secondary infertility but I have very strong suspicions about the mother-in-law.

I remember a video of a woman touching a bride's womb on her wedding day. On a spiritual note, these wicked people won't touch her womb while as a single lady, but they eagerly did on her wedding day to frustrate the marriage.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xjszlwognp4

Isabi4lov:
Rehesus factor is another angle to look out , if a lady is negative and meets with a positive man , I learnt that there is an injection for her to take after birthing her first child, failure to do so she won't be able to conceive again except for miracle or she meets with a man that has the same rehesus factor with her.

Medical personnels in the house can as well enlighten us in that aspect.

Interesting. I am learning.

Berrityga:
Having children outside wedlock could be bad, when I had my daughter her mothers family attacked me spiritually cause I refused to come and pay her bride price. Now I have full custody of my daughter and I'm free spiritually from their hands. And I'm expecting my next child with my next baby mama.

Wishing you a safe delivery

sisisioge:
Fertility is not a woman thing alone. There is a thing called secondary infertility where a man/woman who had previously been fertile struggles with fertility as a result of age, lifestyle, weight, mental struggle, sickness, injuries, exposure to drugs and the elements. Do you know that simply leaving laptops on your laps for a prolonged period of time can affect your sperm viability or even adding a lot of weight? Just tell them to see a doctor....may God bless everyone looking forward to parenthood. Children have a way of filling a home with happiness. It is well.

Yeah I am of the opinion too that fertility declines with time. Women and Men should try to start early before conditions like infections start affecting their fertility strength.

Not only the women.
When you are younger, you are most virile.
Reproductive prowess decreases with age, especially with constant pollution from environmental and 'sexuality' factors.
Old sperm and old egg? Na magic get am o.

Wotowoto akamu does not swim fast enough to catch/fertilize eggs without yolks.

Seek the necessary medical attention to align your chances of success.

Simple!

kingthreat:


I remember a video of a woman touching a bride's womb on her wedding day. On a spiritual note, these wicked people won't touch her womb while as a single lady, but they eagerly did on her wedding day to frustrate the marriage.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xjszlwognp4



Interesting. I am learning.




Wishing you a safe delivery




Yeah I am of the opinion too that fertility declines with time. Women and Men should try to start early before conditions like infections start affecting their fertility strength.

Like me now I'm negative if I should take in for a guy that's positive, i will need to take the injection after delivery except the guy is negative.

Even though a lady aborts or had a miscarriage once her reheus factor is different from her guy , she will still need the injection.

I know of someone that's finding it difficult to take in , she told me that she has aborted for the guy which happened to be her current husband. They were both teenagers as at that time.

That's why it's good for a lady to know her reheus factor before doing abortion especially if she hasn't given birth before .

It could be spiritual

Or


Medical

Isabi4lov:
Rehesus factor is another angle to look out , if a lady is negative and meets with a positive man , I learnt that there is an injection for her to take after birthing her first child, failure to do so she won't be able to conceive again except for miracle or she meets with a man that has the same rehesus factor with her.

Medical personnels in the house can as well enlighten us in that aspect.

They Conceive. The problem is recurrent miscarriages or still birth for a sensitized rhesus negative woman.

DBestDoc:



They Conceive. The problem is recurrent miscarriages or still birth for a sensitized rhesus negative woman.

That's another problem again , is not everybody that's aware of rhesu , apart from the normal blood group , genotype and the rest, people should also be aware of their rhesus status , they should try as much as possible to create awareness even right from secondary school.

People like you OP are the real problem here.

Your sample is so biased and let me educate you a little, as women grow, for some, the quality of their eggs reduces and same with the quality of a man's sperm. Thus, except the couple go for adequate medical checkup, no one knows why the women in your cases are having delayed conception.

Sometimes, it could be due to agitations of whatsoever kind nonetheless, it is good such couples are left to sort out whatever it is that could be their challenge as they may not even be interested in having kids and many more other reasons.

Berrityga:
Having children outside wedlock could be bad, when I had my daughter her mothers family attacked me spiritually cause I refused to come and pay her bride price. Now I have full custody of my daughter and I'm free spiritually from their hands. And I'm expecting my next child with my next baby mama.

Oga dis your comment no connect well.
What exactly do you mean?
You first said that having baby outside of wedlock "could be bad". Yet you spun around again to imply that you succeeded in having a baby by not paying the bride price. Are you saying that having baby outside of wedlock will somehow ensure fertility of the couple?

.

kingthreat:
Why is it that some ladies get easily pregnant in a relationship but when it comes to marriage, they now have problems conceiving.
One of my female friends, her only child is the one she had with her boyfriend while dating. Once they got married, they have been trying and trying but to no avail. Her mother-in-law greatly disapproved of the marriage.
Or should I talk of one of my neighbors who had 2 from different guys. Only for her to enter the marriage with a well-to-do man and problem happen. She can't blame the man either as he fathered one daughter when he was in his 20s.
A colleague told me it is spiritual, that some wicked people start reasoning some people's matter when they are married. This I don't want to believe. Will like to hear more opinions on this.

Conceiving a child is a complex process that can be influenced by a variety of physical, emotional, and environmental factors.

When couples have difficulty conceiving, it is often referred to as infertility, and it can be caused by many things, including hormonal imbalances, age, lifestyle factors, and underlying medical conditions.

It's not uncommon for couples to have trouble conceiving after getting married, even if they had no trouble before.

This could be due to stress and changes in lifestyle that can come with marriage, as well as other factors such as age, underlying health conditions, and genetics.

There is no evidence to support the idea that spiritual factors are causing infertility in these cases.

While belief in the spiritual realm is personal, it is important to rely on science and medicine when it comes to understanding and treating infertility.

It is always best to speak with a doctor or a fertility specialist when one is having trouble conceiving, as they can help identify any potential underlying causes and recommend appropriate treatment options

GboyegaD:
People like you OP are the real problem here.

Your sample is so biased and let me educate you a little, as women grow, for some, the quality of their eggs reduces and same with the quality of a man's sperm. Thus, except the couple go for adequate medical checkup, no one knows why the women in your cases are having delayed conception.

Sometimes, it could be due to agitations of whatsoever kind nonetheless, it is good such couples are left to sort out whatever it is that could be their challenge as they may not even be interested in having kids and many more other reasons.

Thanks for your contribution. like i said i am learning. But you didn't have to call me a problem or put me down. Thank you.

kingthreat:


Thanks for your contribution. like i said i am learning. But you didn't have to call me a problem or put me down. Thank you.

I addressed it in general and I do not see the need for your been offensive if you don't try to think of people from the lens your original post saw the ladies in particular.

GboyegaD:


I addressed it in general and I do not see the need for your been offensive if you don't try to think of people from the lens your original post saw the ladies in particular.

I am educated enough to understand that fertility can be an issue of either gender. You didn't get me well.